What is the initiative to fall in love with someone? It's the person who loves you, knowing that you like sports very much, and will automatically step on the track without urging. But he will still call you regularly every day and ask you to go for a run together, just to catch your preference and have more intersections with you. If you like someone, you will take the initiative to participate in the other person's life. If a man takes a liking to you, there will be these initiatives:
1. I will take the initiative to call youTaking the initiative to contact is the result of heart-to-heart thoughts. One of my readers had a message in the background: I like a girl very much, but I'm really timid in my personality, as a boy I'm not good at words, but I don't know why, I have a lot to say when I think of her. So I will take the initiative to call her **, I will want to talk to her for a while, and deliberately find a lot of common topics. 
The boy also told me that every time I hit a girl, I would be very nervous, afraid that the girl would have no feelings for herself, so she chose to hang up. But compared to not having the initiative, not being brave will lead to missing, and it seems that being hung up ** is not so terrible. If a man loves you, the ** who looks for you will become frequent. He wants to take the initiative to contact you, even if it is just to talk to you casually for a while, the relationship can be warmed up in this short time together, and it will be a pleasure to get along with you. 
Second, I will take the initiative to take you to meet your friendsThe relationship with her husband has just been confirmed, and it has not yet been publicized. The next night, I received his **, saying that there was a good buddy for his birthday, and I hoped I could be there. I was a little hesitant, I always felt that the relationship was not in place, so I went to meet the people who were closer to him in his life, and it seemed that it was not yet time. As a result, less than a short time after I refused, he came to pick me up in his car and told me that he wanted to take me to meet a friend in the hope that I could really get to know him and understand his life. Such sincerity, embarrassed to live up, so obedient. Friends are a valuable asset in a person's life, sometimes equated with personal privacy, from the mouth of a friend, you can recognize a real other half. The person who truly loves you, fearless to be understood more deeply by you, will take the initiative to expose himself in front of you, and the willingness to take you to meet his friends is a way for him to be willing to open up and let you see your true self. 
3. You will take the initiative to plan your futureI've seen such a short **. The boy and the girl had lived together for six months, and the girl was in her thirties, and she felt that since the two of them had such sincerity in getting along, they should consider getting married. So I waited patiently, thinking that when it came to the New Year, the boy would give her an explanation. Unexpectedly, the confession I waited for was not a marriage, but a breakup. It turns out that the girl is just a random object that the boy is looking for when he falls out of love, and she is not the person she really likes. 
The boy's broken love was cured, and he reacted from the pain, knowing that the girl was not the right person for him, so he left mercilessly. There is no commitment when you are together, and you don't need to fulfill any commitments when you leave. The man who loves you deeply will plan you in the future, and liking you is not only a moment in front of you, but also something to do for a lifetime. True love is not a fleeting meteor, but a root rooted deep in the dirt, a target to aim at, and go vertically. The man who is more active towards you may not really love you. 
But on the other hand, a man who is with you and never takes the initiative doesn't love you at all. When he didn't think about it, he took the initiative to call you ** and get in touch with you; did not take the initiative to welcome you into his life and to meet his friends; There is no plan to welcome you to his future, love or not, there is no need to say much. If someone doesn't love you, let it go. Too many feelings, if not cherished, will eventually be a nothingness, people who really love you, can see your pay, and are also willing to pay for you. Love doesn't have to be a two-way street, but it must be, and only you can get it. Enjoy the New Year