The finale of the hit film and television drama "Home of the Heart" is somewhat unexpected and expected.
I was a little reluctant, so I repeatedly ** "Home of the Heart", and found that there were 3 cruel facts of life that were easy to ignore but crucial!
a) The more you have, the more the other person wants to give it to you; And vice versa:
In the finale of "Home of the Heart", Gu Qingyu offered to buy a house for her brother-in-law Feng Xiaoqin. She is optimistic about the house, negotiates, and collects other ** on her mobile phone.
If it weren't for Feng Xiaoqin's resignation, I would have been a little skeptical, would Gu Qingyu buy a house in full and give it to Feng Xiaoqin and her mother!
In the end, Feng Xiaoqin borrowed a down payment from Gu Qingyu, and she was responsible for the monthly mortgage.
After Gu Qingyu rejected her, she also reminded Gu's father not to borrow money from Feng Xiaoqin.
Feng Xiaoqin didn't have the ability to always like to calculate from Gu Qingyu and Gu's father like a leech, but she always felt that it was not enough, and it was taken for granted!
The more you have, the more others want to give it to you; The more you don't have it, the more you want to get something from others, the more you can't get it!
b) Sometimes good qualities are a double-edged sword:
Girls, I like to find boys who are filial to their parents. They thought that such a man would definitely be good to her.
Sometimes, however, good qualities are a double-edged sword.
Gu Xin, filial piety. Gu Xin's mother has a strong sense of vanity, likes to compete for superiority, likes to stick to her son, and likes to point fingers!
Even if the daughter-in-law Ge Yue tried her best to please her mother-in-law, she still didn't say a word.
If Gu Xin's attitude is clear and he hopes that his mother will treat Ge Yue well, presumably Gu Xin's mother will also work hard.
Gu Xin is a soft-hearted and kind-hearted person.
Sun Qi, come to him for help. He agreed, and was willing to open his mouth to Gu Qingyu and help Sun Qi. Later, it turned out to be a trap.
Gu Xin didn't doubt that the ex-girlfriend who was hurt by him had malicious intentions towards him.
It turned out to be a bike! I thought it was a private car.
For his ex-girlfriend, married Gu Xin, he is kind but has no precautionary heart.
For his in-law cousin, Gu Xin, who is married, is kind but has no sense of boundaries.
Filial piety and kindness are all very beautiful qualities. Sometimes, however, they are a double-edged sword.
c) Enterprising and unscrupulous, mixed but subtle:
For the sake of his career, Gu Xin took the initiative to break up with his girlfriend of 10 years, dated the director's daughter Ge Yue, and got married.
This act of his can be defined as striving for progress or as unscrupulous.
The key is that Gu Xin's father-in-law knows his behavior and welcomes Gu Xin as his son-in-law. Ge Yue was also very happy to marry Gu Xin.
In the absence of obvious violations of morality, only Ge Yue's family is qualified to define Gu Xin as enterprising or unscrupulous.
Feng Xiaoqin's sister, Feng Qianqian, has lived in her brother-in-law's house for many years and has not paid rent.
After 8 years of marriage, Feng Xiaoqin wanted to buy a house and move out of the Gu family, so that she could have her own house. She asked her husband to borrow money from his sister or his father.
Are these actions an effort to forge ahead, or are they unscrupulous?
Feng Xiaoqin's behavior, only the people of the Gu family, especially Gu Lei, are qualified to define whether they are striving for progress or unscrupulous means.
Gu Xin enjoyed the relaxation and pleasure brought to him by Feng Qianqian; Feng Qianqian enjoys the happiness that Gu Xin brought her to complete the bank indicators.
So is Feng Qianqian trying to forge ahead, or is she unscrupulous?
But this is not necessarily accurate, maybe Gu Xin thinks that Feng Qianqian is working hard to forge ahead?
Generally speaking, striving for progress is to benchmark the bottom line of law and morality, as well as the people directly related to it, to define whether it is to strive for progress or unscrupulous means.
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The TV series "Home of the Heart" is an excellent work that is not only full of fireworks, but also carries the connotation of life struggle. Life never stingy to give people wind and rain challenges, and how they will face it, how to break it and then find out"The Abode of the Heart"? Make your life a little better.
The TV series "Home of the Heart" is composed ofLu Xun Literature Award winner Teng XiaolanAdapted from the eponymous ** "Home of the Heart", the original work focuses on the complicated daily life, and shows the unremitting struggle of ordinary people to change the status quo of their lives. The TV series tells the story of Shanghai residents and intruders who are trying to take root in Shanghai and integrate themselves into Shanghai through the micro social and ecological perspective of the little people "buying houses" and "selling houses".
This book constitutes the common anxiety of modern urbanites. Because, the changes in economic life in the past ten years have profoundly demonstrated that the house is still a place of urban adventure. ** Zhanxiang, who talks about it in a mocking tone from time to time, is actually an adventurer in New Shanghai. With no diploma, no background, and no social experience, he took the fast train of housing prices with unmatched courage alone, owned more than a dozen properties, and quickly accumulated huge wealth. However, even the "beneficiaries" of the house do not necessarily have a better life. In **, Zhanxiang had nothing to do all day except for the pursuit of Gu Qingyu, and had no other pursuits, nor did he show a more outstanding quality in spirit
There are a lot of these descriptions throughout the **, and it's worth going back to learn from them many times.
Teng Xiaolan said, "The focus of "Home of the Heart" is not 'home', but 'heart'Most of the people in the book are constantly working hard for what they want in their hearts, living and struggling tenaciously, and finally finding their own spiritual home. I hope that readers will read theHome of the heartAfter that, while feeling that 'life is not easy', I can cherish the present and cherish the people in front of me more, and always have hope for life even in adversity, which is my original intention to create this **.
Generally speaking, the TV series has been filmed very well, but compared with the original work of "Home of the Heart", there are still many deletions, and many details are described more thoroughly in the original book.
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