Having said that,Spring has arrived, nature is full of life, and everything is ...... season of matingAhem! Sorry, I digress ......It is said that spring is the most suitable season for romance and love, some people launch a general attack on the goddess, some people abandon their old love to welcome a new life, and some people release water from the pond to prepare for fish ......Big Bear, I got a very interesting survey two days ago:What do young people think about "ambiguity"? 
*: @后浪研究所有1483位受访者分享了暧昧经验,It was found that the average per capita was 2There are 16 ambiguous objects, and the maximum can be 18! Good fellow, what a knife to the butt - eyes opened. One of the most puzzling is: 1 3 of the respondents said that they are "pure love warriors", and this title is linked to "engaging in ambiguity", good guys, it is really "both want and want"! Whatever good things you co-authored, you have taken ......Young people are ambiguous, is it to have fun, or to find true love? In order to be the first to be, I have collected a few "fish tycoons" in the fan base and circle of friends, let's listen to their voices
01 During the ambiguous period, will you be 1v1 or 1vn? 2. per capita16 ambiguous objects, I really want to ask: do you have the energy to cope with it? After all, I was a mother-fetal solo.,Shizuka picked Shizuka at a glance in the crowd.,Shizuka is my first and only love.,This kind of blessing (not) that revolves around multiple men.,I can't have ...... in my life.@李斯特 Male 26 years old, I have a strong sense of purposeI want to develop the ambiguous object into a girlfriend.,So I can only accept one-on-one.。The ambiguous period is very important, I have to understand this person first, isn't it? I don't think there's anything wrong with pulling for more than 1 year, and I'll see people's hearts over time. A lot of people can't survive that long, saying I'm fishing, and not giving a clear answer. I'm also responsible for the other party, otherwise if I start rashly, I will definitely end it rashly! 
Cannibal Chen male 24-year-old ambiguous, it means that there is no definite relationship, since there is no substantive relationship, it does not prevent me from developing multiple potential objects at the same time, how interesting! At most, I did have an affair with 18 girls at the same timeIt's impossible to be ambiguous like meeting every day in love, change your taste every day: Lori, Royal Sister, Spice Girl, ......Isn't it beautiful? And everyone's acceptance of physical contact is different, from pulling small hands, to hugging, to kissing on third base, why bother with the same person? In this way, everyone can remain ambiguous in the most comfortable state, which is too perfect to fulfill you, me and him. Let's just say, don't have too much psychological burden! I want to open up Everyone is a young man, she is a fish in my fish pond, and I am still a fish in her fish pond! Whoever can catch whom, it's up to each of them to have fun, don't take it too seriously
Orange Canned Female 21 years oldI have 3 flirtatious partners, but I really want to date only one. I often fantasize about being his real girlfriend, but I seem to be just a fish in my brother's pond, and the thought of this makes me ...... exhausted"Does he not like me" "No, I just held hands yesterday, or he took the initiative" "But why doesn't he want to continue to develop with me, is it because I am not attractive enough......”Therefore, the other two ambiguous objects are purely my "backup plan", and I am really afraid that I have made a wrong bet, so I can leave two ways out. It is not difficult to see from the three of them that a person's love personality is hidden in his attitude towards ambiguity......But even if some people will go overboard, some people will desperately have internal friction, and it is still unstoppable to engage in ambiguityWhat is the magic of ambiguity that makes people go crazy up and down? 
02 What is it like to be ambiguous? likes to engage in ambiguity, and can't escape a key word: companionship. The ambiguous period does not have the burden of responsibility when you are in love, and there is no triviality in marriage, it is more to give you a kind of "spiritual satisfaction". In the investigation of the Houlang Research Institute, the identity of the ambiguous object is also very interesting, almost no one will choose to have an affair with a colleague, and would rather go to online dating than have an affair with another disgruntled worker in the office that makes people have a heart attack. It can be seen that the colleagues who accompany you the most but have a heavy class taste can't arouse your spring heart, and you must add some other mysterious condiments while accompaniing:Sweet, addictive, stimulating ......
*: @后浪研究所@酸奶很甜 Female 23 years old Identity: FriendI was very good friends with the ambiguous object before. It's a sweet feeling, he's not very possessive of me, but he pretends to be jealous to please me; would suddenly appear at my door and give me a big hug; called me the best-looking girl in the world, but it didn't prevent me from helping him chase girls ......The two of us will not have conflicts at all, and we are friends with each other's emotional value in place! @黄大仙 Male 26 years old Identity: The customer first declares that I am not selling men to seduce customers for the sake of performance! The two of us are in love. I was very respectful to my clients, but I had a special conversation with her until I blocked the wine for her at the dinner, and we became ambiguous. That is to say, I am "addicted" to her, and I am very addicted, thinking about her again and again at night, and thinking of ...... I can't sleepBecause our relationship has warmed up, the cooperation has always been smooth, she can still share her clients with me, my boss has praised me very much, she is not bad for money, and she has never treated me badly. This feeling of double harvest of feelings and careers is so refreshing, what kind of wealth is poured on my head!! @体脂组扛把子 Male, 24 years old, Identity: Mentor.
Ahem, I'm a graduate student, and the object of my affair is my supervisor. I think the teacher-student love is actually nothing, but there are still some surprises in the eyes of people, especially classmates, soYou have to be sneaky when you have an affair with your mentor, that's called a "thrill"! I spend 90% of my time on campus, and in order to hide people's eyes, I find some reasons to "change **" to work" and "help the teacher make a watch", and go to her rental house to meet. I also went out first, and she went out again in 5 minutes, and the thief was like an underground deal. At school, the most we could do was eat together and walk side by side, and we didn't even dare to hold hands. But sometimes, I go to her office to look for her, and if there is no one else, I take the opportunity to kiss her and hug her. In private, she will be spoiled by me and deliberately say something seductive, for which I also posted a privacy screen, afraid that my classmates would see my chat history. I think that if we are still in touch after graduation, we can also develop a romantic relationship. 
Help, you really don't take the big bear as an outsider! I see your story so exciting that it goes straight to the heavenly spirit Gai'er! The key to ambiguity and itching people's hearts seems to be "choosing the right person". Wealth must be sought in danger, and ambiguity must be "stealing fun" to be energetic. But I'm more curious about how the sparks between the two of them burned? If you break up during the same period of ambiguity, will it be very painful ......03 The "up" and "down" of the ambiguous periodThe ambiguous period is also a relationship in the final analysis, and there is always a beginning and an end. What kind of behavior of the other party can make your heart sprout instantly or seal your heart and lock your love? @青青草原一只羊 Female 22 years old, I have a problem: the thief wants to kiss after drinking and getting drunk. Having dinner with friends that day, he was drinking and his face was red, and he was also a little confusedThe two looked at each other and kissed. Later, we kissed often, and I told him, if you have a girlfriend, please tell me, I won't do it again, and he gladly accepted. 
Xiao Zhang is a 21-year-old man, I think every relationship, no matter what the name, will go throughHigh-frequency chatLet's talk about the process of the heartbeat. Whether we're really in tune or not, in the we're really crazy about each other in the wee hours of every late morning chatting. @十万伏特 Female When did the ambiguous period end at the age of 25? When I found out what attracted me to this person, I can summarize it in a resume. After talking about constellations, personalities, and hobbies, there are only sentences like "have you eaten", "what are you doing", and "are you busy", which is too boring. @带你去美特斯邦威 Male: At the age of 23, he began to talk about the heavy issue of the family of origin. It's hard to, her negative emotions have affected me, who can understand, meMental impotence......@霹雳牛牛 Female 20 years old, although not in love, but at the same timeMany people are ambiguousIn my eyes, it's also cheating. @都市隶人 Female 26-year-old engaged in ambiguous affairsHot and coldIt's the most incomprehensible thing for me, and I don't owe you, so why should I coax you in a low voice? It's so rude to not be able to put yourself in a clear position. 
The beginning and end of the ambiguous period seem to be a little bit related to "love", but it is broader than "love", a look, or even a kiss can be opened instantly. The end of ambiguity is more "depending on the mood", and if you have a sense of responsibility, you can immediately get out of it if it is not pleasing to the eye. This reminds me of a saying: "He will leave you as he approaches you." ”04 Big Bear speaks from his heartDa Xiong feels that the ambiguous period looks very sweet and beautiful, but it is the most testing person. It requires you to have an absolute grasp of your feelings, if the starting point is not for love, you must remember not to fall, let alone wishful thinking in the wrong person to expect love to come. People who can't keep their emotional bottom line will become a swinging pendulum, and when the other party is indifferent, they will warn themselves not to give sincerely, but when the other party is enthusiastic, they are greedy for the warm illusion of "like love" for a while. "Ambiguity makes people feel wronged" is quite reasonable. Ambiguity can quench a momentary thirst, but if you really need someone to help you at certain moments, the ambiguous object is really not necessarily useful. Finally, a word of caution should be given to everyone, just try it, because we are still young, and this is just a way of life. But don't expect too much from "ambiguity", otherwise you will be hurt.