On December 20, 2009, a distress letter appeared on the Tianya Forum, which read: A 64-year-old mother asked for help for her 42 daughter. The reason is that her daughter suffered from leukemia, which is equivalent to cancer, and because of this disease, the family's economy was completely crushed, hoping to get the love of the majority of netizens.
However, after this letter was sent, it was like a stone sinking into the sea, and it did not cause any waves. In desperation, the mother walked into the shroud shop, and the old man in the twilight chose a particularly bright shroud for his middle-aged daughter, and watched the tragedy of the white-haired man sending the black-haired man, and even the clerk couldn't help crying.
So will this daughter miraculously survive? What will be the end of the game?
The 64-year-old mother's name wasDang Guoying, is a native of Nanyang, Henan, when he was young, because he liked to read and write, he was finally admitted to the position of a teacher, and at the age of twenty-four, he met her husband who was nine years older than herShao Yangui。Her husband's job is even better than her, he is a designer of a rubber factory, Shao Yangui is very talented in his work, and he has designed a bicycle tire that is popular all over the country in less than two years after entering the factory, and he also won the first prize of the national award.
From this time on, my husband was promoted to a senior designer, and his works since then have been more or less national hits. Because the place of work is in Xuzhou City, so Dang Guoying came to Jiangsu Province with her husband, with her own efforts and credibility, Dang Guoying served as the director of the kindergarten near the rubber factory, and the success of the two people's careers made life prosperous.
Within a few years, Dang Guoying gave birth to her daughter Shao Dan, and the family of three was happy. Shao Dan is very sensible and smart, and her excellent family conditions have given her a good educational growth space.
When he was twenty-eight years old, Shao Dan met her husband, I thought it was a true love encounter, but I didn't think about it, after getting married, her husband's attitude changed greatly, and the sweet words of the past no longer existed, and when she was more than 8 months pregnant, Shao Dan learned that her husband was cheating.
She was so anxious that she gave birth to a son earlyShao Shuai, the husband not only did not repent after learning about it, but also took away all the money in the family, and the two parted unhappily, and no one contacted anyone.
Raising his son alone, Shao Dan was not aggrieved at all, and took out the strength of being a mother to make up for all the debts to his son. In order to give her son a better life, she put her son at her mother's home in Xuzhou and worked hard in Beijing alone. From an ordinary clerk to working as an engineer for the project, her body was a little uncomfortable after a long time of desperate work, and without relatives by her side, Shao Dan always reluctantly went to the hospital for examination.
The neglected illness has become a hidden danger, as long as he works overtime and stays up late every day, Shao Dan's body will have strong pain。In a company meeting, Shao Dan suddenly fainted, which frightened everyone, and her colleagues had to send her to the hospital, where according to the doctor's examination, it was concluded that Shao Dan was not only severely anemic, but also accompanied by pleurisy and pericarditis, which were the consequences of overwork and irregular diet. The doctor advised her to have surgery as soon as possible or risk her life.
In order not to let her parents and son know, she took out all her savings**, but it was far from meeting the cost of the operation, and in desperation, Shao Dan could only call her mother**. Knowing that her daughter was hospitalized, Dang Guoying flew directly to Beijing, and the mother and daughter looked at each other, tears kept flowing. In order to save his daughter's life, Shao's father sold all the antiques, calligraphy and painting collections at home, and barely paid the operation fee.
After taking care of his daughter for more than 4 months, seeing that it was getting better, Dang Guoying decided to return to Jiangsu, after all, his wife and grandson are still at home, because of school, Shao Shuai can only give his mother *** every day Looking at his son, who is very sensible at a young age, Shao Dan's heart is full of guilt, before leaving, Shao Dan told his mother to have a safe journey and take care of himself and his father.
Saying goodbye to his mother, Shao Dan delayed too much work, and although he took a long vacation, he still couldn't help it. In order to better alleviate the financial pressure, Shao Dan returned to work, looking mentally normal, and everyone always took good care of her. But after less than half a year of work, she had dizziness and dizziness again, accompanied by severe pain all over her body, and after three full days, she still collapsed at work again.
This time the situation was more serious than last time, after being pushed into the emergency room, colleagues could only try to call Dang Guoying's **, when they heard that their daughter was sent to the emergency room again, the two old people couldn't sit still, rushed to Beijing overnight, and the doctor notified the family early the next morning,Shao Dan suffers from leukemia, and it is acute myeloid leukemia.
The doctor told them that the patient was in danger now, and the only way to do it now was a bone marrow transplant, and that Shao Dan had to undergo chemotherapy when no suitable bone marrow was found. Dang Guoying fainted after listening to the doctor's words, and Shao's father said that in order to save his daughter's life, she could extract bone marrow and ask the doctor to examine it.
But the doctor told him that Shao's father was old and his physical function was not good, and if he extracted bone marrow, he would be in danger, but during this period, he would have to test to see if it matched. At present, in addition to the bone marrow, the cost of inpatient surgery is about 500,000 yuan. Hearing so much money made the two old men a little panicked, the last operation had spent all the family's savings, and now a little money is reserved for their grandson to go to school.
There is really no extra money to give to his daughter at home, Shao's father can only borrow money from door to door, relatives, friends, neighbors and old friends have no family he has not opened. The daughter looked at her father distressedly, and she had to pull down her face and borrow money for her, which was really unfilial. The 200,000 yuan was consumed by Shao Dan's chemotherapy in the early stage, and the follow-up ** and the operation fee was not settled at all.
Looking at her daughter's deteriorating body day by day, Dang Guoying's heart was full of grief, at such an age, kneeling and begging the doctor to save her life, but the hospital has hospital rules, and the doctor has no choice, in order to save her daughter, she thought of using ** to raise funds, so she sincerely wrote a letter for help and sent it to the Tianya Forum.
But in the past few years, the atmosphere has not been good, there are always people who use this kind of thing to attract attention and cheat money, and the public does not believe it at all for a while, and even Shao Dan's friend came out to speak out for him, but it did not attract everyone's attention. Dang Guoying knows that this is not the way, and the follow-up of Shao Dan, the economic pillar, is extremely difficult.
His hair was all gone, his face was pale, he always vomited when he ate, his eyes were dull, and even his lips were so white that there were no bloodshots. The doctor told Dang Guoying that Shao Dan's condition was very bad, and there might be a life crisis at the end of this year.
And Shao Dan's son Shao Shuai, when he learned that his mother was sick, he chose to suspend school and came to Beijing as soon as possible. Dang Guoying wanted Shao Shuai to go back after knowing it, but the child's tears made her unbearable, Shao Shuai lay beside her, held her mother's hands, and said softly"Mom, I hope you're okay. ”Shao Dan looked at his twelve-year-old son, and his heart was sour.
Shao Shuai has been in the hospital since he came to Beijing to eat and live, he and his grandmother take turns to take care of his mother, staying up late at night, and his mother rushes to his side as soon as he wants anything. Shao Dan always feels indebted to his son, he has no father since he was a child, and he is not by his side all the year round, except for giving his son some money, he can't take care of it.
After learning of his daughter's illness, Dang Guoying had a plan in his heart, his grandson was too young, and he had to do some "big things" by himself. So on the occasion of the shift change, Dang Guoying went out to choose a shroud for his daughter.
The boss looked at the elderly Dang Guoying and was a little surprised"Who are you buying a shroud for? ”
"My daughter. These four words came out of Dang Guoying's mouth, and his forehead was extremely heavy. The clerk was stunned, "Auntie, how old is your daughter?" ”
He was forty-two years old and had leukemia, and the doctor said that he would not survive the New Year. After saying these words, Dang Guoying's cheeks were all covered with tears.
The clerk couldn't hold back for a while, looking at the old man who was about to send his daughter away, his face was full of distress, and then he gave her several styles. Dang Guoying chose a set of the brightest colors, and she estimated that her daughter would like it very much. Back in the hospital, Shao Shuai accidentally saw the clothes, although he was young, he also knew what it was, and quietly told his mother.
Shao Dan was a little heartbroken, but what he was more worried about was that he really had three longs and two shorts, and the matter of wearing clothes and wiping his body would fall on his son, and his mother would definitely not be able to accept it. Shao Shuai saw his mother's thoughts, held his mother with both hands, and said to her:"Mom, don't be afraid, I will take care of you, I will wipe your body, I will dress you. ”
Listening to her son's immature voice, Shao Dan cried profusely, she didn't understand why God treated her like this, she should have lived a happy life. Because of her illness, she put her parents in huge debts, and the ** in the hospital needed money everywhere, her hair was gone, and her spirit was gone.
In the past six months, her son's studies have been delayed, and her mother's work has also been delayed, and at that moment she suddenly wanted to give up her life. But seeing that the mother and son couldn't bear it again, Shao Dan survived from despair in chemotherapy again and again. The doctor told her that the only way now was a bone marrow transplant, and that this was the only way to save her.
And the person who could give her a bone marrow transplant was her twelve-year-old son, but this proposal was opposed by the whole family, the child is too young, and the damage to the body to transplant bone marrow is great, if there is any danger, Shao Dan will not be able to forgive himself in this life, but after Shao Shuai knew about this matter, he insisted on doing so.
When Shao Shuai learned about this, Shao Dan's condition was no longer good, and he was categorically rejected when the doctor proposed it for the first time, Dang Guoying knew that her daughter would not let her grandson take risks, but she couldn't bear to see her daughter die, the bone marrow of the old couple did not match her daughter, and the operation would probably cost hundreds of thousands.
Shao Dan accepted death peacefully, hoping that his mother could raise Shao Shuai, but there is no impermeable wall in the world, even if it is covered up, it is still known by the little grandson. Knowing that his bone marrow could save his mother, Shao Shuai did not hesitate, hoping to do his best, Shao Dan dissuaded his son, but Shao Shuai showed the appearance of a little adult and told Shao Dan"Mom, I'm not afraid, I want to be with you." ”, this sentence poked Shao Dan's heart.
Wandering outside these years, although it is for his son, but he has always been absent from most of the time he grew up, every time he has a job to come in, he will hang up in a hurry, his son is twelve years old, she doesn't even know what her son likes to eat, although he sends money to the family every month, but it can't replace the happiness of being with his son.
Now because of a serious illness, his son took a leave of absence from school and came to Beijing to take care of him, which has made Shao Dan feel uncomfortable, and then let his son take risks for himself, how can Shao Dan bear it, Shao Shuai has been begging his mother, he wants his mother, he wants his mother, he wants to save his mother. In order to make Shao Dan agree, Shao Shuai changed the law every day to make his mother happy, and the optimistic and cheerful child told jokes in front of his mother's bed over and over again, guarding the time for his mother to take medicine and injections, and there was nothing wrong at all.
Shao Dan understood that his son was too scared and lonely, and there was no one to rely on except himself, so he finally relented and promised his son to donate bone marrow for himself. After hearing his mother's agreement, Shao Shuai quickly ran to the doctor's office, hoping to start the operation early. After the doctor confirms the information, he said that he will arrange it as soon as possible. Shao Shuai grabbed Shao Dan and said, "Mom, did you hear me, you want to be fine" After saying this, the mother and son hugged their heads and cried.
In November 2009, Shao Dan and his son Shao Shuai were pushed into the operating room together。The two held hands to cheer each other on the way, and the operation to extract the bone marrow lasted for three days, once a day, for three hours each time, although the whole process would be anesthetic.
But the pain is unbearable for a child, but Shao Shuai was not nervous or afraid during the whole process, and let the doctor extract it on him, before the operation, Shao Shuai instructed the doctor to extract as much as he wanted, as long as he could save his mother, the doctor praised his bravery and told him to rest assured.
Three days later, the operation was completed, and the doctor said that the operation was successful, and the next step is to see how well he recuperates, and if there are no new problems in two weeks, then the bone marrow transplant is completed. Shao Dan looked at her sleeping son on the hospital bed and felt relieved, the flesh that fell from her body was returned to her, and she secretly vowed that if she got better, she would definitely take her son with her to make up for it.
In the next time, Shao Dan recovered very well, and his body basically recovered, Shao Shuai watched his mother who was getting better day by day. In the end, their deeds were known and reported by **, and they were rated by CCTV News"The most beautiful filial piety boy".
Shao Shuai said in an interview with reporters: "I just want to be with my mother. This sentence is enough to move everyone, a pure heart, an experience of saving the mother, this is the Chinese virtue, it is said that filial piety comes first, Shao Shuai did it.