Dear friends, have you ever had such an experience? In the days after the Chinese New Year, when I returned to work, I felt depressed for a while, as if I had been dragged back from the festive, familiar and long-lost atmosphere of my hometown.
The roar of the train seems to have become a farewell poem for us to say goodbye to our hometown.
Of course, everyone's situation is different. Some people may have left their hometowns early and have long been accustomed to working outside the home. While some people feel the pain of parting from their hometown, and the boredom of the workplace goes deep into their bones. But in any case, we must admit that people's emotions fluctuate periodically. After a few years on the job, we all experience a period of boredom in the workplace. At this time, we will miss our home for the New Year, lamenting that we were sleeping at home the day before and already set foot at work the next day. This feeling of involuntary self-help can't help but make people feel sad.
Those who choose not to go home for the Chinese New Year, but to travel far away, may not have such a deep concept of home. They are more likely to be bored with their careers. After all, there are not many workers in the world who work to make money.
From the fluctuations of everyone's emotions, we can see something that objectively exists.
People are animals who hate repetition, and we find that professionals who have worked in society for ten or twenty years have basically reached the ceiling of the workplace unless you have extraordinary abilities. So, this type of person knows very well what will happen in the next year, when the boss will have a meeting, when to set up a new project, when to find fault with the employee, and so on. All of this has gone through countless reincarnations in the past years.
In such a context, at the beginning of resuming work and leaving home after the holiday, it is easy for us to think of the planning of the whole year, and even think of the big war and game that our industry will face in the new year.
Especially in the era when big capital is trying to swallow everything, there are many variables in the industry, and sometimes they may not all be what we want. In such a situation, we will find the difference between people, optimists see spring and bright life, while pessimists are stuck in nostalgia for their hometown and emotional fluctuations.
So, in the face of all this, how should we look at the changes in people's emotions after the end of the year?
I think the best solution is to be a realist. We need to take today seriously and not think too much about the problem. Think less about what you can't control, and try to do a good job of what you can do. As Mr. Lu Xun said: "Hide in a small building, become a unity, and manage his spring, summer, autumn and winter." ”
Here are my thoughts and suggestions on mood swings after the holidays, and I hope it will be helpful to everyone.