The New Year is coming, and if he treats you like this, he may not really love you. During the New Year, many couples are forced to separate and return home to spend the New Year with their parents, becoming long-distance couples.
This time is actually a test of the couple's relationship, especially for those couples who originally lived together or saw each other often, and a short separation can show each other's feelings more clearly.
Some couples, after separation, find that their feelings for each other are deeper. While other couples have friction due to separation, which leads to a rift in the relationship.
If you want to know how much a man really loves you, you may be able to keep an eye on his behavior during this time. If he exhibits any of the following behaviors, it may mean that he doesn't really care about you.
First of all, he no longer actively responds to your messages. There are many people who return to their hometowns and start ignoring their girlfriends' messages. I often see people sharing on the Internet that their boyfriends have become indifferent after returning home for the Chinese New Year, and the replies to messages are very cold, and they don't even share their lives. This behavior suggests that he may not be sincere about your feelings.
Secondly, there are no New Year's wishes and no red envelopes. There are often girls who complain that their boyfriends seem to have forgotten the New Year, and they don't send New Year's Eve blessings, let alone any gifts. He understands that you crave his concern, but he chooses to pretend not to know and is unwilling to give. He doesn't think you're worth his attention for you, which may mean that he doesn't really love you.
If your boyfriend exhibits these behaviors during this special time, it may be time to revisit the relationship. The person who really likes you will not ignore you because of the Chinese New Year, he will care about your feelings and is willing to pay for you.
If your boyfriend exhibits these behaviors during this special time, it may be time to revisit the relationship. The person who really likes you will not ignore you because of the Chinese New Year, he will care about your feelings and is willing to pay for you.
But even in such a situation, don't jump to conclusions. After all, every relationship has its own unique complexities and uncertainties. Perhaps in some cases, your boyfriend's behavior does not represent his true feelings for you. It could be that he was too busy with family chores to reply to messages in a timely manner, or there was something else that was causing his performance.
Therefore, there are many more factors to consider when judging whether a person is sincere or not. In addition to superficial behavior, you should pay more attention to his words and deeds, his usual care and dedication to you, and their attitude towards you in other aspects. Only with a comprehensive understanding can we make accurate judgments and avoid making impulsive decisions due to the emotions of the moment.
Also, remember to maintain your independence and self-confidence. Regardless of your boyfriend's attitude, you should cherish yourself and not devalue yourself because of the indifference of others. Believe in your own choices and trust your own judgments, only in this way can you truly find your own happiness.
Finally, whether in a relationship or in life, you must learn to face it calmly. No matter what kind of difficulties and challenges you encounter, you must maintain an optimistic attitude and believe that tomorrow will be better. I hope that every reader can find their true happiness and live a happy and fulfilling life in the new year.