The two completely different labels of "red face and troubled water" and "confidant" are also attached to those beautiful women. But you know what? Behind these two labels, there are actually two completely different attitudes of men towards beauty.
In the story of "Red Face and Troubled Water", we see that Cao Cao caused such tragic consequences as the Battle of Wancheng because of his momentary lust. But is the root of this war really Mrs. Zhou's beauty? Not really. Mrs. Zhou did not take the initiative to ** Cao Cao, nor did she participate in any decision-making. She was only passively involved in this war, but she was labeled as a "red face and trouble" because of her beauty.
And in the story of "Confidante", we see the pure spiritual exchange between Mrs. Zhen and Cao Zhi. They appreciate each other's talents and share the moments of life together. Although there was no deviance between them, their feelings went beyond ordinary male and female feelings and became a kind of spiritual sustenance. This kind of relationship allows us to see another possibility behind the beauty - that is, confidantes.
So, why do men make completely different choices in the face of beauty? In fact, it depends on the man's inner cultivation and self-control. A man with a strong heart and strong self-control is able to keep a clear head and make the right choices when faced with beauty. And a man with a weak heart and poor self-control is easily confused by beauty and makes wrong decisions.
Therefore, we can't simply put the two labels of "red face trouble" and "red face confidant" on women. What really determines whether a woman is a "trouble" or a "confidant" is actually a man's own heart. If a man can look at beauty correctly and cherish the spiritual communication with beautiful women, then he will be able to have more confidants. And if a man only values a woman's appearance, then he is likely to pay a heavy price for a momentary lust.
In short, the two labels of "red face and troubled water" and "confidant" are not used to evaluate women, but to reflect men's inner cultivation and self-control. Therefore, we should look at beauty more rationally, not be confused by appearance, but pay more attention to inner quality and spiritual communication.
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