College students who have graduated from ordinary colleges and universities, on the road of your future life, you will encounter too many things of anger, sadness, helplessness, and despair, especially after you get married, that is all kinds of troubles one after another, making you exhausted and miserable. No one can solve this, so you can boil it. If you're lucky and you stay up to 35 or 40 years old, you'll basically be able to get out of the predicament, but most people won't. Don't grieve for the past, no one can do anything, you take care of the future. In the face of high housing prices, low income, no girlfriend, grievances everywhere, don't complain, I give you a suggestion: find an industry that you can stick to for ten years, plunge into it, not afraid of losses, not afraid of hardship, ten years later, you will be the mainstay of this industry in the region. The house, the wife, there will still be. Of course, if you insist on criticizing reality, pointing out the country, and fantasizing about fighting local tyrants and dividing the land, then your children will just go through your path again.
Except for the two books of engineering and technology, other liberal arts and social science majors are the same whether you read them or not, and employers will not carefully look at your diploma, just see whether you are diligent and diligent. If you encounter a two-hundred-and-five-year-old HR, you can borrow a diploma from Xiao Wang next door and make a copy, it's nothing. The small boss will not check, because the inquiry costs money, and the small boss is reluctant to spend this money. The goal of the second dick is the public unit. The life cycle of 99% of private enterprises is five years, and the first life cycle of any private enterprise is not more than three years. When I was young, I was a gangster in Beijing and Shanghai, and the male dick silk ran sales, and the female dick silk did administration, talking about a poor and vigorous love, It seems to be very romantic. But after the age of 35, economic pressure hits, men are depressed, women cheat, and everywhere. The standard configuration of poverty alleviation for male dicks: public unit + demolition girl, everything else is floating clouds. How should the second sister live in college? The first is to learn English well, and then find a divorced bricklayer uncle on the construction site near the university, usually help him with laundry and cooking, help him learn oral at night, and after pulling the certificate, help him fill in all kinds of immigrants, stay up for a few years, and go to the coast of Australia. Those dicks in the next class,My sister will ignore them.,After graduation, they all went to the boarding house.。
Young people really want to read books, read practical books. I like politics and study law. I like to study tax law in economics. If you like literature, you can learn to write. Don't read Samuelson's "The Wealth of Nations" and "Currency Wars." This kind of book will only mislead you into thinking that you understand the state economy, but in fact you can't even fill out checks or read newspapers. In actual combat, you will naturally think, why is it so stipulated? That's when you really understand. Familiar with Keynes and Samuelson, it is better to install a water heater to get money. Really, don't scold me, it's a fact. Buy a second diploma, take in four years and more than 100,000 cash for your parents, if you don't find a soil fat round in school, it is a loss. Out of school, you are two hundred and five, no house, no car, no hope, Tu Feiyuan despises you. Don't be angry, who made you fail to be admitted to Tsinghua University, who is to blame! Beijing and Shanghai will always rise.
It makes no sense for someone to fool college students with "everyone is noble". You live in a beautiful apartment in Beijing and Shanghai, and it's funny to say to people who live in boarding houses and basements that you are noble. I hope you can see the reality clearly, work hard to work in a public unit, make money to buy a house, and live a down-to-earth life. At present, most private enterprises are not doing well, and a small number of private enterprises are not bad for the time being, but in the long run, it is still not good. The career of state-owned enterprises is good, so work hard to take the test.
Before you succeed, don't be tired of relatives and uninteresting, especially before the Spring Festival. Learn a skill you're particularly proficient in and save up to buy a house. Looking for a wife, don't ask for much good, live a small life first. The opportunity to squeeze into the middle class sometimes appears a few times inadvertently. Live a careful life, clean yourself, don't pornography, gambling and drugs. Be careful and don't eat junk food. Learn English, and you won't have to spend money on a tutor in the future.
Don't argue with others about things that don't matter. Many people's values and ways of thinking are innate, cultivated by the bottom of long-term poverty, and it is impossible to change them because of a few words from you, and most of them still think they are very smart. The result of arguing with someone is that he calls you stupid in his heart. The right thing to do is: pretend to listen carefully and nod your head, and if you really think he's stupid, just find an excuse to go! Don't study management either. The premise of management is that you must first have a large enterprise and pay wages to more than 100 people. Dick Si should first learn a little craftsmanship, such as excavators, code farmers, mapping, carrying ash buckets, and moving bricks. When you earn your first 10 million and have the money to start a big factory, then hurry up and consider buying a house. Beijing and Shanghai will always rise.
Remember: those who speak ill of you behind your back, those who rob you of the old and the young, those who grab the soil and the fat with you, those who prescribe big prescriptions to your mother, those who sell health products to your father, those who are stuck with your residence permit, and those who compete with you for a place on the subway are really not landlords. The rest of your life will be entangled with these people for the rest of your life. You work hard, the landlord doesn't have time to scold you.
When you see a powerful person, you do everything possible to stick to it, and after a few years, you will either get money directly, or you will get opportunities, or you will get experience. If you're embarrassed to post it, you'll be miserable. It's a bit cruel, but what rich generation doesn't come from this way? Also CC the female cock silk.。 Don't believe in independent personality, personality is not a person, and will not send you money to buy a house. Dick silk is shameless, success is in front of you.
In the workplace, the first thing is to be humble. Dick Si can often talk about the local products of his hometown, and his hometown is far worse than Shanghai. Now a lot of dicks are really crazy, and they often say, "Last year, a relative in Anhui earned millions." In the mixed workplace, if you say this kind of thing, you will be struck by lightning. If you feel like you have less money, just get out. An acquaintance often said that he was very happy to be able to work in Shanghai, and he became the deputy director ten years later. If you are a dick who mixes up with a good unit or a large company, you remember one sentence, your enemies are those peers who call you brothers. Because your qualifications are about the same, there are never enough opportunities, and he has you or not. So, stay away from these people and be wary of these people. No matter how good the relationship is, don't confide in your heart, because your words will soon be taken by these people to the leader.
Be sure to pursue a few goddesses who are unattainable in your mind. Although you can't catch up with it, but through the reaction of the goddess, you will learn a lot, and in the future, you will be able to catch it. Don't worry about failure! You don't have anything to lose, but the memory of your youth. In case you succeed, hehe. Cock bomb sky! For the advice of the dick man who has graduated, don't pick and choose, hurry up and find a fat round and share a house together. After the age of 30, I don't want you anymore, so I can only find second-hand soil and fertilizer.
A small white-collar worker in Beijing and Shanghai, after making money, he went back to his hometown to buy a big house, lived the rest of his life quietly, climbed the mountain with mountains, swam more where there was water, ate more good food, played for a while, and completely gave up his former dignity. In Beijing and Shanghai, troubles will haunt you all the time. Don't think too much about the future of your children, if you don't have a hukou now, I promise, you will never think about it, the policy, I am more familiar than you. Of course, you won't really agree with me.
A piece of advice: exhaust the relationship of three generations and enter a state-owned enterprise; Spend three generations of savings and buy a house in a big city. Do these two things, and you won't want to be a small boss. I really can't enter a public unit, and I have to make a public contract to start a business. The reason is very simple, most of the social resources are in the public unit, and the people who spend money are spending the public money, as long as you are sensible, ** 20% more expensive 90%, the leader will never feel distressed. Don't do that kind of pure market, once the market is hot, it will be finished in three years.
Life will inevitably encounter all kinds of difficulties and obstacles, don't be discouraged, don't be sad, work hard, life will be better. You can read more books, learn more financial knowledge, financial knowledge, and ask Mr. Guan more for advice on the trend of A-shares. Life is fair to everyone, be diligent and thrifty, live within your means, pay rent on time, and life will be better.
You'd better get the certificate you want to take before you get married. Otherwise, you will face a series of extremely energy-consuming things in the future, such as falling in love, getting married, buying a house, renting a house, career development, colleague relationships, family conflicts, raising children, taking care of the elderly, and making investment decisions. I'm not against gambling on the sea, but if you're smart and great, you'd better take a valuable certificate first and be brave. Even if Buffett doesn't give you venture capital in the future, when you finish all your relatives and friends, the burning of money is over, the company goes bankrupt, and you still have a job. Otherwise, you will stay up until you are in your thirties, a poor dick, nothing, and only a handful of bitter tears will be taken out, which is to pit your wife and children.
When I graduated from my bachelor's degree, Shanghai was still a big dusty construction site. Like my peers, my family didn't give me money or a house except for my hukou, I was standing alone at a job fair on Pudong Avenue, and I suffered a lot of stares and humiliation, At that time, I was determined to earn a house. Twenty years later, I've gotten too much, too much. Temporary poverty and embarrassment are not terrible, as long as you don't lose faith, this society will reward you. My experience is that focus. Small successes come from focus. Great success is a matter of chance. There are many rich people who are in prison and shot, so there is no need to be too envious. You don't have to study too much, don't do everything, it won't add points to your life, but it will distract you. When you fall in love, you concentrate on talking, and when you study for a diploma, you study hard. Don't talk about it, be down-to-earth, have clear goals, work hard for yourself, and there must be goals that are within reach, such as paying rent on time.
If you can surpass your father's level, your life will win. Don't think about comparing with the second generation of all kinds of officials, the second generation of rich. Don't think about buying a house in Beijing and Shanghai, this is not what you should think about, accumulate from generation to generation, and only then can there be hope. One step to the sky is all about luck. If you are a post-70s foreigner, graduated from Fudan and went to the Jing'an District Sub-district Office as a section chief to buy a house, it is lucky. If you miss it, don't complain.
When you are young, there are many opportunities to change careers, and many of them seem to be shortcuts. I advise young people who don't want to get rich overnight, or to get the rest of their lives in one fell swoop, stick to their profession and don't change careers easily. Now it seems to be a shortcut, but in fact, when you want to cash in a few years, the objective situation changes a lot, and it may not be cost-effective in the end.
You have to understand that what makes you cry is not that I wrote a few sentences to ridicule you, but that you failed to fight for your father. No matter how hard you work and how good you are, even if you graduate from Harvard, you won't be able to afford a decent house in Shanghai before the age of 40. Of course, if a demolition girl in Jiading Nanhui accidentally flips over your brand, your life will be different from then on. Location determines life.
If you want to make it easy for yourself, it is recommended to go to the central and western provincial capitals for employment, find a wife with a decent salary, and work hard for five to eight years to save for a down payment in the provincial capital. But the children have to repeat your journey to Beijing and Shanghai again. If you are willing to sacrifice yourself, there are two ways: one is to go to Beijing and Shanghai to work hard, rent a house for the rest of your life, buy a very remote house before retirement, and wait for the opening of the hukou policy; The second is to learn Sister Feng. After 40 years, there will definitely be a chance.
When going to Beijing and Shanghai, you must be cautious. It is an ideal way to use high housing prices to drive people out. If you are not ready to sacrifice your life for your children, then it is recommended that students go to the provincial capital city for development, and do not stay in Beijing and Shanghai. Individual efforts are not comparable to the power of capital. Xiaobo Xiaoshuo Xiaoben who came to Shanghai, I suggest that it is best to go to Nanhui, Fengxian, Jiading, Chongming and other districts and counties. got out of the car, went on a blind date as soon as possible, found a demolition sister, and everything was solved. The financial dog who works in Lujiazui and the Bund, on the surface, seems to be very face-saving, not affordable at all, and has to squeeze the bus back to the rental house after work. Working for ten years and not being able to afford a down payment on a house within an hour's drive must be a tragedy in life. After 20 years of hard work, I will return to the city.
If you're planning to start a business or start a business, you need to learn how to manage your employees. I'm afraid of employees. Our company's office is concentrated on one floor, if there is an employee who makes a big noise, it will definitely affect all employees, and the Human Resources and Social Security Bureau will not pay attention to the small boss at that time. I endured and gave in, and in the end I couldn't bear it anymore, and the business was no longer profitable, so I simply closed it. I don't know what the Minister of Finance, Mr. Lou Jiwei, has in mind, but I am not interested in being a small boss at all. Remember one rule to keep you rich. After completing all kinds of procedures, you will get 80% of the profit, and those who work will get 20% of the profit. Sticking to this ratio can guarantee you a lifetime of wealth, forever. For example, to make a super-large software for a state-owned enterprise, assuming 10 million yuan, intelligence is not valuable, and getting a list is the king. Giving up eighty percent of the profit is the bottom line.
One criterion of life: loyalty. To superiors, to friends, to family, to love. The premise of loyalty is that if you look at people, they will not change. Lu Bu bravely crowned the three armies, constantly rebelled, and in the end no one paid attention to him. Be a human being, don't challenge other people's bottom lines first. It is better to be wrong than to rebel.
Don't learn to adapt to society from an early age, learn some things that are cheating and taking advantage. In order to cultivate the mentality of children to do great things in the future, they must be honest. Honesty is, suffer small losses, and wait for big opportunities. Young people have low incomes, and it is easy to fall into the dilemma of calculating pounds, so we must have a correct mentality. Taking advantage is like being a thief, it will be addictive. It must be broken at the source, keep an eye on it from a young age, and never forget the original intention. The first cooperation, if it is a weight of five or five, you take the initiative to humble a part of the interests, you six and I four, each do their best, to ensure that the other party does a good job in the first cooperation, to ensure your external reputation. When you're done, observe the attitude of your collaborators. If he thinks it's natural for him to take six, then stop there. If he thinks that next time he should look at the contribution share, it means that the character is reliable and worth dating. As far as I am concerned, I put so much effort into my children, not to raise a smart little person who is very good at taking advantage. My whole life is for my children to compete on a bigger stage in the future, even if it fails, it is worth it. This kind of high-level competition basically does not look at your intelligence, but on your attitude towards interests. You score 30% every time, you may have 100 chances, you score 70% each time, and you don't have a next time. You are generous to people, and everyone understands it.
99% of recent college graduates write resumes = award summary, which is meaningless. If you are looking for a job (not a headhunter who takes the initiative to find you), you must understand that there is no shortage of feelings and presidents in any unit, they only need two types of people: old scalpers and pullers. Everything else is nonsense. It's useless that you've written so many words of self-praise at your instigation. If you really want to show off, you can put it at the end. It's also easy for you to go to an interview, either do an example, or bring your own client.
If you are a student in school, cherish the good times you have now, cherish love, and cherish your body. Don't lose your temper over a little thing. This period of college will be an indelible mark on your life, even if you are not happy now, you must go through this journey well. Out of school, you will face all kinds of cruel things and a lot of bastards like Mr. Cai, worrying about your livelihood every day, angry about your house, and realistic for love. Cherish the present, cherish the lover.
College boys are not suitable for interviews. The 22-year-old boy is basically a child in his psychological state, and he has no experience in making a living, except for reading a few books on the secret to making a fortune, he is similar to a middle school student. But a 22-year-old girl, her psychological state is completely mature, her goals are clear, and if the boy's family has money and status, it's okay to say. If you are poor and white, I advise boys not to be too fantasizing, as soon as you encounter real problems, you will be at a loss and your heart will be hit.
A lot of young people, very energetic, humorous, sunny, funny, really interesting, stronger than we were back then. Hope they're happy. Our generation has no credit, and now most of them have lived in silence and hope that young people will be happy. I often hang dicks, which is also a kind of humor, don't mind. Ha!
People are great because of their dreams. We do not seek to get rich tomorrow, but we should believe that the Chinese have the wisdom to do a good job in this country. The house is small, the wife scolds, the girlfriend kicks, the single dog, there is no hukou, that is temporary, we will definitely see the country getting better and better. I am old, and I hope that you will be able to withstand the devastation and torture of life and pass on a better land to the next generation. Cai is always ashamed, he has not contributed much to this society, you work hard.