How shameless and cruel can a man be after betrayal? Forced divorce, dumping may have seen you, in fact, the real cruelty is the threesome, force the divorce, some wives see the man's resolute attitude, and they leave in one go, dump the pot, we can at least fight back, express their emotions and feelings, the most heart-wrenching thing is that the man wants to maintain the threesome situation after betrayal.
Why is it said that a man threesome is the most cruel? Because for most wives, after being betrayed by a man, they will be entangled, thinking about their children and wanting to give them a complete home, but on the other hand, they can't bear the humiliation that men bring to themselves, and in this state, men will tell you: "I am just playing with her, you will always be my wife, I will not divorce you!" You have to trust me! When he finally adjusted his state and made up his mind, he spent time to accompany the women outside to travel everywhere, and even buy cars and gifts.
The trust you just established in him collapsed in an instant, and you can't understand why he was so good to that woman when he said it was just for fun. If you let your guard down in the face of a man's current sweet words and overtures to you, or even regain hope in him, then your pain will only deepen, and this is the cruelest part of men. Can he coax you to be happy and pay for you, while showing favor to women outside and accompanying you?
Don't men feel tired? Now he is tired of it, because he can enjoy the treatment of the emperor, feel the happiness brought by different concubines, and watch the two concubines compete for jealousy, and use all kinds of tricks to keep him by his side, he will only secretly steal fun in his heart.
But let's think about it, how many of the concubines in the harem have a good ending? Basically, no, so a man will get bored with such a game one day, and the beginning of this game stems from his selfishness and lives only for himself, so instead of passively waiting to be hurt by my man a little bit, and even at the risk of abandonment, it is better to take the initiative and let him cry bitterly and know that he regrets it. Today I want to teach you three tricks, so that men are afraid of regret, the dry goods before the Spring Festival are the focus, you must read it carefully several times, save it!
The first trick is to lose your weakness and blur your bottom line.
You may not understand, why blur the bottom line? The more vague it is, isn't it the more men dare to step on my bottom line and bully me? In fact, what I am talking about here is not to let you have no bottom line, your own bottom line must be clear, but when facing a man, you have to make him unable to figure out what your bottom line is, why do you want to do this? Because only when he can't figure out your bottom line, he will mutter, betrayed men are often very vigilant, and many times uncertain things, he doesn't dare to do them easily.
So how do you do that? First, ask yourself what your weaknesses are. Is it a child? Or is it dependence on him? If it is dependent on him, then I tell you, I chose him before because he can bring you happiness and a good life, make your life more exciting, if you rely on him and treat him as the only one, then you can only be bullied, so first lose your dependence on him, think about it, you used to be, even without him, you are shining and living a happy life. As for the child, it shouldn't be your burden and weakness, because he just knows very well that you care about the child and feels that you don't necessarily have to give up the child, so he dares to go to a threesome.
So in the face of his unscrupulousness, you have to have a strong core and say something like this to him: "I don't know what you think of marriage, the purpose of marriage is to make each other happy, and the premise of happiness is loyalty, I know that I can only fall in love with one person in my life, maybe no one can do it, I can understand, but I won't accept it, I married you in the direction of happiness, not to let you solve your worries and start your own new love, if you think I'm in control, then you're wrong, children or you, In my eyes, I don't have any importance to myself, and without me as an individual, there would be no marriage, so if you want to use my inability to give up my children to threaten me to agree to you to stay in a threesome, then you are miscalculated. My patience is limited, you can choose for yourself, I will give you the initiative and you will choose! ”
Seeing this, you may say, "Teacher, this is not good, right?" So what if he really chooses to divorce? "If he wants to choose divorce, then we come to the second trick, unexpected pain.
This trick is to be combined with the first trick, after abandoning your weakness, he may just think that you dare to divorce, just want to deal with things as soon as possible, and don't want to suffer, so if he dares to mention divorce, at this time he will have to give him an unexpected pain, which can also be said to be a blow to the head. How? For example, two days later, when you communicate and negotiate with him again, he says that he wants to divorce you, what should you do next to make him hurt? That's right, it is to talk about interests and values, men's unscrupulousness, ** to know you and feel that you know enough, so this surprise, you must carry out anti-pinching, care about the economy, then talk about the economy, care about reputation, put out the evidence of his betrayal, care about the work, then threaten it.
For example, it's best to use it, no matter what he cares about, we can grab everything and talk about it, for example, if he cares about his job reputation, then you just talk about it: "Divorce is it?" Of course it's no problem, then you take a look at these things first, you look at your things first, I'm a small belly, I can say that I will repay it, so you say I should send a copy to your parents? Or send a copy to your front desk? Or let your leader eat a melon? I haven't thought about it now, but what I want more now is what belongs to my marital property, how much she spent, you either let her spit it out, you give it to me, or if you don't think it's much, double it for me, of course, this is what I should get as a wife in marriage, then there is compensation, I want 10 times the compensation, don't think I'm greedy, compared to your greed, I'm nothing, if these things can be given, I can consider five or five points with you, if you don't care, then I won't sue for divorce, It's too unfair for me to sue, and I'm really small-minded, and I don't know what else I'm going to do, so you have to be careful!
Of course, there is another option, that is to turn back, the words of turning back are very simple, your position at home will not be shaken, if you are sincere to return to the family, your actions will tell me, I will gradually build trust in you, the way back you may think that I will not really forgive, I also said before, people can make mistakes, but can not make the same mistake in a row, the opportunity is just this time to say so much, but also shows my attitude, I can directly divorce without looking back, so how to choose, you weigh the pros and cons, Whether you choose to be with that woman, don't want children, wives and families, wait for that woman to provide for you in the future, or come back to be the head of the family, you see for yourself! ”
These are unexpected tricks, he doesn't know what you're going to do next, and he is completely unprepared for what you have prepared, so he naturally has to take some time to weigh the pros and cons, and when he weighs it well, we have to carry out the third trick, marriage is not a cage, but there must be restraints.
The length of the question, probably to tell you the idea, in fact, it is the restraint that must be there after the man makes the choice to go home, I can live with you as usual, but you must accept the three exams, this exam is to be placed in your heart, you have to tell him clearly, you need him to do what to say to repair the wound in the heart, through his behavior and behavior, give him a score, if you can meet your expectations, the final real repair of the marriage will be achieved, of course, how to conduct the three exams, How to communicate with him, students who don't know can talk to me!
What I want to tell you today is a surprise, the more you are surprised, the more difficult it is for men to pinch you, and your success will become within reach, if you feel that the New Year is coming soon, and you want some slightly more stable skills, then pay attention, and we will continue to share tomorrow!