Text: A flower demon.
In the past, I always felt that money was not so important, and it seemed to be ideal to be able to eat and clothe warmly.
But later when I entered the society, I realized that money is really useful, money measures social status, measures interpersonal relationships, and measures whether a person loves you or not.
Day and night, social spurs, all your behavioral trajectories, it turns out that they are all related to money.
Even, if you want to recognize a person, you have to start by "talking about money".
Be carefree when you're young, because your parents are carrying the weight for you.
When you grow up, you realize the importance of money and realize that money can be exchanged for happiness.
But when you realize this, unfortunately, you must be in a state of "lack of money" now.
Because there is no money, you will care; Because you don't have money, your life is a mess.
Everyone wants to get rich, but how can it be so easy to get rich?
By the next day, it wasn't time to get up and work for the days to come.
There's a saying on the Internet: "I want to be the kind of person you fall in love with as soon as you meet, not someone who thinks it's okay after weighing the pros and cons." ”
There are many stories in love, but there is too little pure love.
Maybe when we are young, we don't think about it so much, and we think that as long as we love each other, everything will be fine.
But when the problem is really put in front of you, when each other's love is washed in front of reality, who can persevere and not bow down for money.
The so-called: "The rich eventually become dependents, and the rich are obvious to all." ”
Perhaps, only in front of money, can we really know whether a person loves you or not.
I saw a question on the Internet before: If you were given a few million, would you be willing to give up your other half?
I thought that at least half of the people would choose not to let it, but it turned out that most of them chose to let it, and they were very willing.
It seems that the troubles of adults are very uniform, and the relationship is not pure.
I remember a friend I used to have, she had a boyfriend who had been in love for four years, and I thought they were going to get married soon.
Who knows, then they fell apart because of money.
Originally, they were not too young, and when they reached the age of talking about marriage, they thought about visiting each other's parents and discussing matters.
But the problem is that my boyfriend's side has been compressed from 180,000 to 80,000, and he is still thinking about compression.
touched the bottom line of friends again and again, and the two quarreled.
Men feel that after so many years, there is no need to give so much money, but women think that this is not a basic thing?
The two families finally broke up because of this incident and broke up unhappily.
Later, it didn't take long for this man to get married directly, and through many inquiries, he found that the bride price was 280,000.
My friend sat on the balcony that night and washed his face with tears.
At that moment, her heart was like ashes, and she completely let go of the other party.
The only pity is that she has spent four years of her youth, and of course she is also glad that she can recognize each other at the last moment.
There is a saying: "Those who love you are afraid that they will not give you enough." ”
If he loves you, he will give you money, time, energy, etc., whether you need it or not, he only wants to give you everything.
And the man in front of him is willing to spend twenty-eight to marry someone who has known each other for a few days, and he is not willing to spend eighty-ten thousand to marry someone who has been in love for four years.
I still remember seeing a short **, in which the man drove the train, and his wife sat aside, he smiled and took out the bag he bought for his wife, which his wife liked but was reluctant to buy.
The wife's reaction was very real, surprised and distressed, and she muttered: "After buying this bag, you have run away in vain for a week." ”
But the husband smiled and said, "I make money for you to spend." ”
The best appearance of love may be like this, I understand your mind, you understand my difficulty, and the trickle will last a lifetime.
Therefore, if you want to recognize a person, it is inevitable to "talk about money".
Although money can't fully measure a person's love, someone who loves you is bound to talk to you about money.
This is to give you a better life, and it is also so that the two will not have conflicts over money in the future.
Love is love, life is life, and good love is based on life.
I hope everyone can find someone who is willing to spend money on you and be a person who is truly taken to heart.