Text: A flower demon.
There is a topic that is highly discussed on the Internet: how to tell if the opposite sex has real feelings for you?
I saw an answer that was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people: "With you, I don't lack anything, no matter how ambitious my heart is, I know how to refuse." ”
When a person really likes you, his heart will be filled by you, and he will reject all ambiguity for you, just to spend the rest of his life with you.
If it is summed up in four words, it is probably so: single-mindedness and sincerity.
The ancients said: Love is deep and unswerving.
I have a colleague named Li Hao, he is a natural lover, and his girlfriends around him are always changing.
Every time he had a party, his phone was always ringing, and it was text messages from different girls.
We often joked to him: "Brother Hao, do you really want to build a harem?" ”
Until one day, a new colleague Xiaoya walked into our office, and the eyes we looked at Li Hao changed.
I couldn't help but think to myself, Xiaoya was targeted.
But Li Hao's behavior in the back couldn't help but surprise his colleagues.
Li Hao has changed, he no longer flirts with those warblers and Yanyan, but puts away his heart.
Buying breakfast for her every day, solving problems at work for her, and even giving her an umbrella on a rainy day, Li Hao would never do these things in the past.
At a party, Li Hao's mobile phone rang.
We all thought he would hang ** as usual again, and then continue to giggle with us.
As a result, he glanced at the caller ID and immediately pressed the answer button to report the situation to the other party.
At that moment, we really reacted, his heart had been filled by Xiaoya, and those ambiguous text messages and ** could no longer arouse his interest.
rejects all ambiguity, just to give her a sense of security, and he is such a dedicated person.
Perhaps, everyone understands the truth, but there are still a few people who really give up the entire forest for the sake of a tree.
Especially for people who are used to staying in the world of flowers, it is difficult to pay attention.
However, once this person allows himself to be willingly subject to you, then there is no doubt that you are really in his heart.
Bi Shumin once said: "If you love me, please forgive me for all kinds of truths." ”
The person who loves you will reveal everything about himself and face you calmly.
There was a woman who used to be with her ex and always felt like he was hiding something.
For example, his phone always has a password and never lets her look at it; He often goes out at night, but he always doesn't tell her who he went to ** and who he is with.
These things made their relationship worse and worse, and the woman's suspicion became more and more serious, and the two often quarreled so much that their faces turned red.
But the ex always said that it was her problem, that she didn't trust him, and the two broke up.
Later, the woman meets her current incumbent, and everything changes.
At that time, she was still hindered by the "mistakes" in the previous relationship, and always restrained herself from asking about the other half.
It was only when she noticed something strange that she learned that she had such an experience.
The current person feels very sorry for her, and he is also very honest with her, no matter what she asks, he will answer truthfully, and she knows his mobile phone password and even the bank card password.
At that time, she realized that it was not her love that was too hot, but that her ex didn't love her at all.
As the saying goes, "If you fall in love with someone, you become stupid." ”
I deeply believe that when we are deep in the darkness of love, we will not be able to see the world clearly, and we will not be able to see ourselves clearly.
It is all too obvious whether the opposite sex is emotionally attracted to you, because even if you want the moon in the sky, he will try to pluck it for you.
What you say is a "holy decree" to him, and he will listen to it and change it.
Because it is in the heart, all actions are biased towards you.
Love is single-mindedness, love is sincerity, and love is willingness to give everything to you.
If the opposite sex treats you like this, then he is emotionally attached to you, and he who loves you like that is also worthy of love.