The vacation of college students is enviable.
They are not bound by homework, except to sleep and play games. Even visiting relatives and friends has become resistant, taking it for granted that there is no common topic with the family.
Their favorite thing to do is hide in their room and look at their phones. As soon as the parents push the door in, they immediately turn off the screen of their phones, put on a smiley face, make small talk with their parents with a hippie smile, and then quickly push their parents out of the door.
If you ask them what they plan for the future, they will say, "Oh, no, it's annoying, wait until I graduate from college?" ”
Does this scene sound familiar to you? If you have a child in your family who is in college, it will be like this 80%.
On the Internet, a father complained about his daughter: "Is there a similar beast?" At home on vacation, the ten fingers do not touch the spring water, just like on the welding machine. ”
The father's daughter is in college, and when she comes home from vacation, she doesn't touch the housework at all and hides in her bedroom all day.
The father wanted to go in to see what his daughter was doing, but found that the quilt on the bed was messy and not neatly folded at all. The clothes I wore were casually thrown at the end of the bed, and the pillows were crumpled against the head of the bed.
Seeing her father come in, the daughter quickly sat up from the edge of the bed, turned off the screen of her mobile phone and threw it on the bed, pretending to be so well-behaved and looking at her father with a smile.
The father didn't get angry when he saw it, but after thinking about it, he still said to his daughter, "What's the point of you going to help your mother with some housework and hiding in your room all day?" ”
Okay, I know. The daughter said yes, but did not stand up and act.
This is the reason why the father complained, and he found that no matter what he said, his daughter always listened and did not move. He doesn't know if it's a generation gap or something else, he wants to ask netizens for advice, are other people's daughters like this?
After watching the girl's **, netizens ridiculed one after another, and scrambled to shout "father-in-law" in the comment area, which was really laughable.
I have to admit that such a girl is not an exception. When college students go to college, they broaden their horizons and learn to dress up.
When they return home, parents will find that their daughter has changed a lot and is much more beautiful than before, but they will also find that their daughter does not like to do housework, just like a big lady who likes to hide in her room and refuse to come out. On the surface, they seem to be very quiet, but in fact they are a little arrogant.
Girls learn to dress up and forget about their inner ascension. If you are a little more sensible, you should know that the time to go home for reunion is very short, and you should spend more time with your parents. Being beautiful can attract the pursuit of many boys, but only by living beautifully can you achieve the desired happiness. Of course, the status of the daughter also has a lot to do with the education of the parents.
Parents always think that their daughters should be rich, and they are reluctant to let their daughters suffer even if they suffer hardship. I remember a father who posted on a forum that he ate vegetable soup at home, but gave his daughter 10,000 yuan a month for living expenses. However, the daughter is still not satisfied, feeling that her father is incapable of buying jewelry and designer clothes for his daughter like other fathers.
The father thought that providing his daughter with rich material conditions would allow her to get better resources, but he did not know that true wealth did not refer to the abundance of material conditions, but the enrichment of the spiritual world.
If your daughter doesn't know how to be grateful, the more living expenses you give, the more dissatisfied she will be. Because lust will swell endlessly, and you will never be able to satisfy her.
My daughter, who is in college, is an adult, and it's time for them to know that life is not easy. They can pursue their beauty, but they can't just focus on their appearance.
Only by learning to cultivate both internally and externally can we have the ability to grow. This is also a compulsory course for parents, you can pamper your daughter, but you can't spoil it too much, otherwise one day you will regret it.
At the same time, the daughter should also understand that the companionship and care of her family is priceless. University life is a stage full of opportunities and challenges, and they should make the most of this time, not only to cultivate their external image, but also to pay attention to their inner cultivation.
A netizen shared her personal experience. During her college years, she also fell into the quagmire of focusing only on appearance, focusing too much on mobile phones and social networking**.
However, as time goes on, she discovers that those ethereal pursuits do not lead to true happiness and fulfillment. Until one day, she began to realize her indifference and neglect to her family.
She realised that she should cherish the time she spent with her family and took the initiative to participate in household activities. Through household chores such as cooking and cleaning with her own hands, she feels the importance of growth and responsibility.
Gradually, she understood that living a beautiful life is not only about appearance, but also about the beauty of the heart. She re-examined her values and lifestyle, and began to focus on inner cultivation and improvement.
Through active participation in social practice and volunteer activities, she felt the joy and sense of accomplishment of helping others. She has become more confident, resilient, and has gained more life experience and relationships.
Therefore, college students should realize that the beauty of life depends not only on appearance and material conditions, but also on inner literacy and relationships with family and friends. Only by all-round development can you truly live your own wonderful life.