Wu Xie Yu was sentenced to death, and the psychological process of killing his mother is worthy of deep reflection by parents!
Wu Xie Yu was finally executed, and what surprised me in this news was not only that he was sentenced to death, but also that he had made a mistake in family education, which is likely to happen again.
On August 26 this year, after more than two years of waiting, Peking University genius Wu Xie Yu was convicted of ** crime, and Wu Xie Yu will be executed on January 31, 2024.
However, this news has caused various opinions on the network. Most netizens are praising Wu Xieyu's capital crime, feeling that he deserves it. However, there are also some netizens who disagree.
Isn't a person with a deformed mind like Wu Xie Yu born in a miserable childhood?
No one is born to kill, let alone do the worst things to kill their own mother. Wu Xieyu's mother is a teacher, and he himself is an excellent student with a great future.
To put it mildly, he deserved to die! There is no justification for killing one's own mother! However, when we dig deeper, we will find that the tragic experience of this father happens almost every day in many Chinese families. Why did Wu Xie Yu kill his mother? Parents should set an example for their children!
Wu Xie Yu explained to the outside world that the reason he did this was to save his mother from suffering. The circumstances found in the court's investigation also confirmed this view, that is, the defendant Wu Xie Yu was depressed and even had thoughts of suicide. When his father died, he felt that his mother's life had lost its value, so he had the idea of killing his mother and carried out this plan.
Father is hometown", due to the early death of his father, Wu Xie Yu suffered great mental trauma. For him, dad is a symbol of the family, and now that dad is gone, the family is not so perfect. Just like his grandfather, his father also died of cancer, which made him question his body, find life boring, and even think about suicide. He thought that he would die with his mother, so that he could be with his father. However, after killing his mother and witnessing the murderous place, he was so frightened that he did not dare to think about suicide again.
Wu Xie Yu's personality is twofold, he shows excellent academic performance, enthusiastic and cheerful, sunny side, but at the same time he also shows a cruel, selfish, and cruel mother. There are many questions about the reasons for this disagreement.
Looking back on Wu Xieyu's growth process, many parents feel that they can't be calm and can only be ashamed.
From his childhood to his final death sentence, Wu Xie Yu experienced how his heart changed in the process of becoming a mother killer step by step, which is intriguing.
Evil dragons don't work in a day, and demons don't become demons overnight. The reason why Wu Xie Yu was able to become the first place at Peking University was because his mother put too much pressure on him and his parenting methods. Judging by the news reports, the details of this incident are very worrying.
Wu Xie Yu was sent to all kinds of cram schools when he was very young, and his mother put a lot of pressure on him, and he had a lot of homework every day, and only on Sunday could he relax a little and live his own little life.
Wu Xie Yu scored 85 points in his last test in primary school. He did an incomplete question and asked his mother to correct it for him when he got home. When she realized that she had made a mistake, her face turned from fair to pale, and she stared at Wu Xie Yu with a sharp gaze.
During this period, Wu Xieyu's father fell ill and was admitted to the hospital, and the family conditions were not well-off. My mother is a teacher, and she was reprimanded by her superiors, and she was not in a good mood. At this time, seeing the mistakes and omissions on Wu Xieyu's scroll again, she could no longer hold back the anger in her heart.
Wu Xie Yu, what is seventy-nine times twenty-eight? However, just as he whispered the number "2212", his mother suddenly applauded and caught him off guard. This scene was repeated over and over again in the rest of my school life.
One day, Wu Xie Yu was accompanying his mother to go shopping and facing the high school entrance examination, he cautiously asked: Mom, what can I do to make you happy forever? In the 2009 college entrance examination, he won the first place in the school, which was also the first time that his mother had a smile on her face since her father fell ill.
Under the strict maternal love, Wu Xie Yu gained his father's love, unfortunately, his father died, and the sixteen-year-old Wu Xie Yu became the only person he could rely on, and his departure made him feel a kind of loneliness and dazedness.
Since then, she has not been able to get out of the pain of widowhood, and she has pinned her pressure and expectations on her children. No matter how hard life is, this strong woman does not hesitate to invest in her children's education. No matter how outstanding Wu Xie Yu has achieved, she firmly believes that he will definitely go further. After each test, his mother would sit on the couch anxiously waiting for the test results, which made Wu Xie Yu feel breathless.
Seeing that summer was coming, after the college entrance examination, Wu Xie Yu talked to his mother about going on vacation, and he wanted to have a good rest. Unexpectedly, his mother's answer surprised him: she asked her son to advance his high school studies, and asked him to make up for the classes himself. Wu Xie Yu was very disappointed with his mother's incomprehension, and his resentment towards her gradually accumulated, as if a cold killing intent was brewing, preparing for the tragedy in the future.
When he reached middle school, his mother became more and more strict with Wu Xieyu, and it seemed like a mountain on his shoulders. She has been saying that "one exam is for life", and she is relieved to let her children "Jackie Chan". Her personality is withdrawn, arrogant, and stubborn, which puts great pressure on Wu Xie Yu.
According to reports, Wu Xieyu's middle school classmates said that they had often heard Wu Xie Yu say that he was tired since the second grade, and he had complained to them that he was depressed, depressed, and depressed.
After going to college, Wu Xie Yu told a classmate how unhappy he felt about college, and said that he was going to die, as if he was very dissatisfied with his current life.
Wu Xieyu was successfully admitted to the Department of Economics of Peking University in 2012 with his excellent academic performance; In his first year of college, he was named a "Three Good Students", and in his second year, he was also awarded "Liao Kaiyuan".
In 2014, with the dream of going abroad, Wu Xie Yu was admitted to the GRE with excellent results (ranked within 5% in the world). However, after he told his mother about this plan, everyone praised his mother for having such an amazing son, who would definitely live well in the future. However, in front of everyone, my mother said coldly: "Live a good life? I think he wants me to die! ”
As a result, a tragedy was staged.
Wu Xieyu, a young man with amazing talents, was ruined by his mother's words. The moral of this passage is that if there is no parental abuse, there will be no "evil dragon".
Words hurt people", his mother's cold words were like a sharp knife, piercing Wu Xie Yu's heart again and again. Is this a call from a guardian angel or a curse from the devil?
For a child, it was too harsh, too cruel, and under such pressure for a long time, Wu Xie Yu's spirit was extremely deformed, and finally became extreme, so there was a shocking mother-killing incident.
The more resentment, the more terrible the tragedy. Scholar Li Meijin believes that Wu Xie Yu is not only a smart egoist, but also a high-IQ criminal, and his clever mind allows him to face reality calmly, and can also deal with all kinds of human sophistication. However, his heart was blank, empty and empty. Perhaps, she will never understand in her life, why did her son kill her?
Li Meijin may not be unreasonable, but what is the reason for the hollowness and lack of a child's heart? In his family, there is no such ** person at all! Wu Xie Yu ended up like this, what was the reason?
Wu Xieyu's case was exposed, causing an uproar!
But based on the results of the mother-killing case alone, is it fair to judge Wu Xie Yu?
Don't forget, Wu Xie Yu was just a teenager back then. His love for his mother is so strong that he does everything he can to make her happy. However, even so, he failed to reverse his mother's withdrawn, proud, and strong personality, and let her get out of that extreme negativity and sadness. He couldn't let his mother down either. However, he received more suffocating, twisted maternal love than ever before.
This is often overlooked! How much of Wu Xie Yu's crime of killing his mother comes from his original purpose in life?
Mom, what can I do to make you happy every day? ”
One sentence exhausted the despair in Wu Xie Yu's heart at this time, which was interesting! However, his mom responded coldly to him: "If you can get the first place in school, I won't be happy." ”
It's very true to take on such a big responsibility at such a young age. It's not like he hasn't tried! He used to be full of hope for his life and his mother, but he was defeated by his mother and lost his fighting spirit.
According to Wu Xieyu's ex-girlfriend, he is the gentlest of all men. She had been in the United States once. Wu Xie Yu would send her a blessing text message on time every morning, and report his whereabouts and activities to her one by one. Such an act made her feel very sweet, but it became a burden to her. Wu Xie Yu told her everything that happened every day, which not only delayed her time, but also had a great impact on the daily life of the two. All of this shows that Wu Xieyu's mother's paranoid personality has had a great impact on his psychology, so much so that he has also become a paranoid.
As the old saying goes, a son is not filial, and this is the truth when a father is concerned.
Aren't parents obligated at all? Is such a statement valid? Let's ask ourselves, which selfish guy is it? Do parents like their children, or do they like their report cards? That's what a lot of parents really think, they don't put their children first.
I still remember vividly that time, he won the runner-up in the whole grade, and his parents were very happy, and I was able to make them raise their eyebrows. Wu Xie Yu said in court that he felt that he was reading books purely to please his mother, not out of his own heart.
Not because of how good she is, but because she can get into the top ten of the class, get good grades, and get a perfect score. ”
In fact, the happiness of children is simple, while the happiness of adults benefits from all positive and negative factors.
Wu Xie Yu had a profound influence on his parents. Today, the problems of young people are endless, so every parent should reflect on it: why is the distance between our children and their fathers getting farther and farther apart, gradually becoming cold, hostile, and finally violent?
When it comes to the "family of origin", some people are happy to look back, others are emotional, and others fall into hysteria.
A mother admitted in an interview that since I went to college, my children will no longer come to me to communicate, and it is usually my daughter who comes to communicate with me. 」
Many teenagers are not only geographically distant from their parents, but also mentally escaping their influence. Is this the sorrow of mankind?
I have no intention of proving the sins committed by Wu Xie Yu or discrediting a mother who has passed away. It is impossible for us to understand all the facts, but I also want to look at the case of Wu Xie Yu's murder of his mother from a different perspective, because everything in the world has the root of love and hatred.
What are the obligations of parents in the face of fierce educational infighting? We must not only be a 100% excellent student, but also face the challenges of this era and make them a person who loves life and parents.
Don't treat your children with your selfishness!