Recently, I tutored my child with homework, but because I had just entered the first grade and there was no homework left at school, I didn't pay attention to it, and recently I found that my grades were getting worse and worse.
After joining the WTO, we will have a lot of practical problems, and children's academic performance is one of them, how can we tutor children without falling into the rules of the world.
First of all, it is necessary to summarize the reasons for the child's poor learning, many times it is not that she is stupid but that some basic knowledge is not mastered well, and at the same time, she is sloppy during the exam, and many bad habits lead to the wrong questions that she usually does.
In fact, no matter what the child's grades are, parents should not be anxious, of course, it is impossible to say that they are not anxious at all, but when we are anxious, we should slowly feel why we are anxious and integrate into this emotion.
Don't use the premise of destroying the parent-child relationship to improve academic performanceMany senior children have psychological pressure, and even jump off the building with depression, in fact, it is more because parents are improving their children's academic performance in a fearful way, and a person's root is family relationshipsIf her academic performance is not good, she may not go far, she does not see much of the world, she can enjoy not a lot of material things, she is not particularly rich, but if she does not have love, no matter how far she goes, how big the world she sees, and how much rich material things she enjoys, her heart is still lacking, painful, and hopeless.
Therefore, if the child does not study well, parents should try their best to tutor and find a way, not to say that they give up directly, and at the same time, don't be too anxious when thinking of a way, and regard grades as the only way. This is because I have seen too many people with good grades and end up living miserable.
Let's talk about myself, my grades are really, really poor, how bad is it, I didn't learn pinyin in elementary school, I basically failed mathematics, and finally I graduated from high school, and I can't read anymore, realistically, it's really stupid, but what did I gain from elsewhere? When I was a child, my parents were very hardworking, so I followed the work, forming a character who was not afraid of hardship or tiredness, because there was too much work to do, which led me to often enter the state of work and meditation when I was about 14 or 5 years old, of course, this is also known later when I came into contact with spirituality. Then he opened a commissary at home and often came into contact with people, forming an open and bold character.
In this way, when I become an adult, according to the rules of reality, I should be a factory worker, a waiter in a restaurant, and so on, because the education level is really too low. As a result, I became a foreign trade salesman, and this job is basically only available after graduating from university, and it requires English proficiency, junior college, bachelor's degree, and graduate degree. I don't have enough academic qualifications, and my English is really poor. However, because it actually pays more attention to a practicality, English is a tool for communication, I just need to speak, basically I have almost all the English knowledge in high school. In this way, I have been doing foreign trade for 10 years, and I have done okay, not bad, about a medium level, and then I got along with some people around me, and I also learned a lot of things, and I went abroad for 3 years in a row, making planes from Beijing to Dubai, Germany, to Brazil.
Then, I got married, my life was very unhappy, and at this time I wanted to change, because there is a spirit in my personality that does not admit defeat, no matter what problems I face in life, I will take the initiative to change. At this time, I found out that I have another specialty, I am good at spiritual learning, the whole person's spiritual sense is very high, the spiritual system is very pure, and it has not been destroyed a lot by the day after tomorrow. Then, after 6 years of self-study, I followed the guidance of my heart along the way to find the spiritual end that all earthlings pursue.
In my case, it's not that children don't go to study, but what mentality we have to learn is very important, if we can improve her academic performance without hurting the psychology it would be the best, because we have entered the WTO academic qualifications, grades are really very important, but if the final grades really can't be improved, go and discover the child's strengths, everyone has specialties, this is a gift from God to us,At the same time, accept the ordinary, everyone is ordinary, this is not ashamed, all greatness needs to enjoy the ordinary, there is no thing called greatness, but after we accept the ordinary, at the same time strive to live a positive life, only from the ordinary to grow greatness.