From birth to death, people have decades or even hundreds of years, and neither rich nor poor can escape death. Therefore, we must face life squarely and treat the transience and banality of life with a normal heart.
You can't extend your life, but you can extend your life. Let's spread it with tolerance and love, and make it colorful.
There are many things that people don't like in their lives, but I fear that if they try to get revenge on everything, they will eventually die of physical and mental exhaustion. If you think differently and look at it with a tolerant eye, even unpleasant things can become pleasant.
I remember when I was in high school, there was a boy in the class who was relatively shy, liked to cause trouble, and liked to accept death. One day, he was bullied by other classmates, which was normal. However, the boy has a very strong self-esteem, and after being bullied, he thinks about how to get revenge on his classmates who bullied him. So, he took a knife from his home and waited for his classmates to follow them after school and stab them to death. He himself was sentenced to death and died at a young age.
Although this is an isolated case, it speaks for itself. There are always unpleasant things that people encounter in their lives. If you take revenge one by one, you will eventually be punished yourself. If you can consider these things from a different perspective and look at them with an open mind, you will find comfort in your discomfort.
There is one such story. An old monk and a young monk descended the mountain to make a relationship. The little monk always asked the old monk, "Teacher, we have met a lot of people who have done bad things, should we take revenge one by one?" The old monk always replied like this. Remember that people will always do a lot of bad things in life. If you take revenge on everything, you don't have to go down. ”
The little monk listened to the old monk's words and continued to walk behind the old monk. After a while, the little monk asked again. "Teacher! What should I do if I meet someone who is very bad and has done a lot of bad things? The old monk still replied. "What do you do if you think this person is a very bad person, and he is a very bad person? "If he is a bad person, try to influence him with a generous heart! ”
After a while, the little monk asked again, "Teacher! If I want to influence that bad guy, even if he has a forgiving heart, he won't listen to me. What am I going to do? The old monk still replied: "It doesn't matter if he doesn't listen to you, as long as you influence him with your sincerity." ”
The story is about when you meet someone in your daily life, it doesn't matter. When you encounter something unpleasant, you have to learn to look at it from a different perspective. Let us expand our lives with tolerance and love; Don't stubbornly accept death; We must learn to influence the people around us with a sincere heart; It's okay if others don't listen to us. Work hard.
There are a lot of unpleasant things that happen to us in life. If I take revenge one by one, I think I'll eventually die of physical and mental exhaustion.
A famous person once said, "The greatest discipline in life is tolerance." ”
This quote gives us a lot of inspiration: if you want to make a difference and make a difference, you must be good at tolerance. You need to be kind to others and understand them; Don't be too arrogant and accept death; Learn to influence the people around you with a sincere heart; Don't let others listen to your ......But that's okay, because you've done your best.
Finally, I would like to say that our old grievances are a thing of the past. We need to learn to be tolerant and understanding of others.
The moment you let go of your resentment, you actually let go of yourself.
When you let go of resentment and resentment towards others, your heart will become broader and more open, and your mood will become lighter and more pleasant.
At the same time, letting go of resentment allows you to focus more on your life and career, making you more positive and motivated.
So, if you feel stuck in a grudge from the past, try to let go of it and start over.