List of high-quality authors The ninety-year-old man died, but the children did not cry, but said: Finally liberated.
90-year-old Aunt Li passed away, and her family did not shed tears at the funeral, but said: "You are finally free, and we are at ease." "The people in the village praised them for their filial piety.
Aunt Li was born in the old society, her family was poor, she had many brothers and sisters, and she was often hungry and full.
When she was 18 years old, she married Uncle Li of the landlord's family and enjoyed a relatively prosperous life.
However, with the establishment of New China, the landlords were overthrown, and they lost their land and superior status.
Because of the class composition of their families, they were ridiculed and ostracized in the village, and they did not dare to speak out.
Aunt Li and Uncle Li had four children together, and despite the difficult times, they still tried their best to give their food to the children, often starving.
In the era of the country's economic upturn, Aunt Li worked hard to raise several children to grow up. After the disbandment of the production team, the land was distributed to individuals, and Aunt Li often told the children to study more to lay a foundation for the future.
The children worked hard, and with the exception of the eldest son, who became a farmer, the other children were all successful in their studies. The second daughter became a teacher in the town, the third daughter worked as a ** in the city hospital, and the youngest son successfully completed his university studies and went to work in Chengdu.
During the children's schooling, Mrs. Li's family had a very tight life, and the family was financially constrained, and often needed to borrow money to pay for the children's school fees. However, as the children gradually entered the society, the life of Aunt Li's family gradually improved.
A few years later, the children got married. When the eldest son got married, Aunt Li gave them two rooms and a bride price; When the second daughter and the third daughter got married, Aunt Li sent two quilts respectively; As for the youngest son, he found a daughter-in-law in Chengdu, and his parents did not spend a penny for him when he got married.
As the children got married, the life that Aunt Li and her family were looking forward to enjoying their old age did not wait. Aunt Li's wife fell ill and died at the age of 61, leaving her alone.
The eldest son lives in the village, not far from Aunt Li, and often visits his mother. His wife is also very filial, and every time she cooks something delicious, she will send some to Aunt Li.
The two daughters went home to visit their mother whenever they could, and each time they came, they brought her a lot of things and gave her some money.
Although the children did their best to take care of Aunt Li, she still felt lonely and helpless after being widowed.
Although the youngest son of the Lao Li family is out of town all the year round, he will send 1,000 yuan to his mother every month to ensure that she has no worries about her life.
Lao Li was physically strong and enjoyed abundant material conditions, and the people in the village envied her and praised her for the filial piety of her children.
However, at the age of 78, Lao Li had a sudden cerebral thrombosis. One winter morning, she woke up to find that the right side of her body had lost flexibility and could not move her hands and feet.
I wanted to go to my son for help, but she couldn't. Luckily, the eldest son was at home and came to visit her every morning.
When the eldest son found out about his mother's condition, he immediately called a car and took her to the hospital. After staying in the hospital for more than 20 days, several children took turns to take care of her, which made Aunt Li very cared for and attracted the envy of other ward patients.
After being discharged from the hospital, the eldest son was worried about his mother and took her to his home. My brother and sister-in-law took good care of me, and other siblings also gave support and help.
After living in the eldest son's house for a few months, Lao Li ** is very good, although his steps are slightly faltering, he still takes care of himself, and even always takes the initiative to take on housework such as cooking.
As soon as spring arrived, Aunt Li proposed to go back to her own home, saying that she felt comfortable in her own home.
The son was quite worried about her going back to live alone, but Aunt Li insisted on going back, and in the end the son had to acquiesce.
So, Aunt Li returned home to live alone. Her son came to visit her many times a day, and her daughter-in-law took over the care of her son when she was away, for fear that Aunt Li would have an accident at home alone.
Aunt Li lived alone for three years, until she suffered a cerebral hemorrhage at the age of 82 and moved to her son's house.
On the second day of the Lunar New Year, Aunt Li was celebrating the New Year at her eldest son's house. She usually lives alone, but during the Chinese New Year, she will stay at her eldest son's house for a few days.
On the same day, the two daughters also returned, and the family played mahjong together after dinner. Aunt Li felt a little dizzy, so the children decided to take her to the hospital for a check-up.
Aunt Li insisted on sleeping first, but after sleeping for a while, she began to vomit, and her children had to rush her to the hospital.
After examination, the doctor found that she had a serious cerebral hemorrhage and required immediate surgery to avoid life-threatening surgery.
The children did not hesitate to sign the consent form for the operation, and Aunt Li underwent the operation.
The operation lasted more than four hours, and Mrs. Li passed it smoothly. However, due to her old age and frailty, she still needs to stay in the ICU for a few days.
After more than a month of **, Aunt Li was finally discharged from the hospital, but she has lost her ability to take care of herself.
After the children deliberated, it was decided that the eldest brother and sister-in-law would take care of the mother, and the others would each contribute 1,000 yuan a month to cover the family expenses.
Mrs. Li's eldest son and daughter-in-law take care of her, while the other siblings provide financial support. The eldest son and his wife are very attentive to Aunt Li, feeding and scrubbing her every day.
The two younger sisters also come to help take care of their mother when they have time, especially the second sister, who is a teacher and stays at her brother's house to take care of her mother during the holidays. The people in the village praised the harmony between their brothers and sisters, they did not have any contradictions in taking care of the elderly, and those who had money contributed and made a strong contribution.
However, in the second year of Aunt Li's illness, the eldest daughter-in-law went to take care of her son's children, leaving the eldest son alone at home to take care of his mother. Half a year later, the eldest son was diagnosed with lung cancer, and the eldest daughter-in-law had to come back to take care of her husband and mother-in-law. A year later, the eldest son tragically passed away.
After the death of the eldest son, the other siblings thought that the daughter-in-law would no longer take care of the mother because they also did not have time to take care of it. So, they considered sending their mother to a nursing home. However, the daughter-in-law said: "If you are sent to a nursing home, the old lady will not live long." Don't worry, although your brother is gone, I will continue to take care of the old lady. ”
The daughter-in-law's promise touched the brother-in-law and sister-in-law, who did not expect the daughter-in-law to be so considerate.
Aunt Li's eldest daughter-in-law has been taking care of her for a long time. A year later, Aunt Li's grandson was about to have a second child, and no one could help take care of the child, so she could only ask Aunt Li to help.
Fortunately, at that time, Aunt Li's second daughter had retired, so she took her mother back home so that her eldest daughter-in-law could take care of her grandson.
Aunt Li lived in her second daughter's house for two years. However, later, Aunt Li's second aunt suffered from cerebral thrombosis, and the second daughter not only had to take care of her old mother, but also had to take care of her wife, and she had a very hard time every day.
Many people praised her for not being easy, but she often complained to people: "I now think it would be better to let my mother go sooner so that we can have a little easier." ”
The second daughter was busy taking care of two sick people, and her life was so anxious that she fell ill not long after.
The third daughter has not yet retired, and the youngest son is far away, so Aunt Li has no one to take care of at this time. The second daughter proposed: "Maybe it's time to consider sending her to a nursing home." ”
The third daughter couldn't bear to think that her mother would have to go to a nursing home when she was old, so she retired from illness and went home to take care of her mother.
The third daughter took care of her mother for more than three years until Aunt Li died of illness.
At Aunt Li's funeral, the sons and daughters did not cry, because they felt that they had fulfilled their filial piety over the years, and now that their mother was relieved, they could also relax a little.
In short: the old man is old, if he is still healthy and can take care of himself, living like Aunt Li, suffering by himself, and involving his children, maybe dying early is not necessarily a bad thing.
As a child, you don't have to cry at a funeral. When the parents are still alive, filial piety and a clear conscience are a hundred times more important than crying at the funeral.