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Friends who grew up in the original family, come to talk, don't lie, if there is really an afterlife, will you still choose to be in the original family? Would you still choose to be born into a family like this? At what point in your life did you let go and forgive yourself?
One: How to let go of endless internal friction?
An important reason for the decline of the family: internal friction family.
More terrible than no money is the mental internal friction type of family, this kind of people not only consume themselves, but also have no bottom line to infect negative emotions to others, the whole family because of the existence of this kind of people is always in the haze, this is an important reason for the decline of the family, wrestling can be blamed for the sky and the air blame the family blame passers-by, just don't think about whether they walk and play with their mobile phones, don't see the road clearly, don't concentrate, negative energy contagion can't wait to give everyone you see, how do you feel relieved in the face of such internal friction?
Two: How to let go of endless bickering?
Endless quarrels can be very small and trivial things in life: you pay your salary and buy 65 pounds of apples, your mother saw the scolding of the head and face and said 3Can't you eat 5 pounds? Even if there is a rotten one, you can dig it up. It can also be that when you are anxious about work or life, she obviously can't give you any useful advice or even a little help, and you don't ask her for help, she can really say that which great man how to calmly solve things, which neighbor's son how to do, why are you so useless? When you encounter something, you will know that you have a dead look, a manly husband is useless, Balabala, a set of rhetoric from childhood to adulthood, may also run through your life, how do you let go?
Three: How to let go of endless negation?
You're really useless, look at Xiaohong next door, you won't even be able to touch her skirt in the future! ”
You are really not the material for reading, and if you go out to move bricks, no one will move much, and I really regret giving birth to you in the first place. ”
Why can't you be a big man? If you encounter something, you will have a sad face, how to do something big? ”
If you get it, just your salary, how many years have you been out and you are still forced to do this, I really saw you dead at a glance".
From the beginning of your conscious endless denial has accompanied your growth, even if you are admitted to university, state-owned enterprises, foreign companies through your own efforts, and the salary is a height that she can't reach in her life, you are still a waste in her, you can scold if you want to say it, how do you let go?
Friends who grew up in their original families, at what stage did you let go of and forgive yourself?