In the original work of ** "Big River", Lei Dongbao faced the internal and external troubles of the Xiaolei family, standing like an iron tower, but driven by an obsession, he failed three women. In this confusing emotional entanglement, how Lei Dongbao's fate turned, it is worth going deeper**.
When Lei Dongbao first met Pingping, she was as gentle as water, gentle but not arrogant, beautiful but not squeamish. I buried an obsession in my heart and decided that I must marry home. Pingping is relieved by Lei Dongbao's reckless approach and thinks he stood up for his family. However, Pingping was wrecked on the way to ask for accounts in the county, and one body and two lives, which made Lei Dongbao feel painful. He wrote down the words "never marry again in this life" and devoted himself to his career. However, he has a relationship with Wei Chunhong after getting drunk, starting his betrayal of Pingping's obsession.
Wei Chunhong stayed by Lei Dongbao's side, but only received attention when he was sick or in distress. Lei Dongbao married her, but deviated on the grounds of missing Pingping and pursued a child of his own. Wei Chunhong waited silently, but he could never replace the white moonlight in Lei Dongbao's heart. His love for her was not out of affection, but out of looking for a replacement. In Wei Chunhong's seemingly happy life, she understands that the living can never fight with the dead. Lei Dongbao's obsession made Wei Chunhong disheartened.
Lei Dongbao has a relationship with Feng Xinxin, trying to make up for the lost child through her pregnancy. However, this choice is only to satisfy a certain need of one's heart, not true love. Lei Dongbao finally gave up his mother to protect his son and entrusted the child to Wei Chunhong. His emotional choice is not out of cherishment, but a blasphemy of his former obsession. What he chose not to let go of was not his deep love for Pingping, but the untouchable memory in his heart.
Lei Dongbao's emotional choices hurt the lives of the three women. His obsession is like a stumbling block in the labyrinth of feelings, making it impossible for him to let go of the past and making his life tortuous and chaotic. In the vertical and horizontal emotional labyrinth, Lei Dongbao seems to have found the sustenance of his soul, but he can't really find inner peace. Perhaps, letting go of obsession and cherishing the people and life in front of him is the choice he needs to face.
After Lei Dongbao returned to Wei Chunhong's side, he was not as stable as he imagined. On the contrary, he handed over the responsibility of the entire family to Wei Chunhong, and he devoted himself to the career of the Xiaolei family as always. His marriage is more like using marriage as an introduction to bring in sponsorship that is beneficial to Xiao Lei's family. The appearance of the marriage certificate was also later than expected, because the imprisonment caused everyone to go their separate ways, and only Wei Chunhong asked for help everywhere, which made Lei Dongbao reveal a trace of true feelings. However, Lei Dongbao did not spontaneously keep to himself, but because he couldn't move.
In the original book, Wei Chunhong has survived many difficult days with her own ability. Lei Dongbao is by her side, but he is no longer a young and promising boy, but an old young man who needs to be taken care of. Lei Dongbao ignored the big and small housework, and even asked Chunhong to sell the property, and her own son also felt unacceptable to this situation. Lei Dongbao's obsession not only made him unable to let go of his longing for Pingping, but also made him question Chunhong's emotional choice.
Lei Dongbao's obsession ruined the lives of three women. He showed a selfish and despicable side in all three relationships. His heart is still stuck in the moment when Pingping leaves, and his feelings for other women are only part of the puzzle of finding love. He finally chooses to let go, but this is not out of deep love for Pingping, but out of responsibility for the feelings that can no longer be beared. His obsession finally ended with the decision to give up his mother and protect his son, entrusting the child to Wei Chunhong.
In Lei Dongbao's story, we see a man struggling in a labyrinth of feelings. His obsession made him unable to cherish the happiness in front of him, but he also chose to let go in the end. Perhaps, this is a warning that we must learn to let go of our relationships in order to truly have a happy life. Don't let obsession become a stumbling block in love and life, but face it bravely and cherish the happiness in front of you. Lei Dongbao's story is a deep and tortuous emotional exploration, as well as an examination of the complexity of human nature.
Every relationship is an experience in life, and letting go of obsession is a sign of emotional maturity. Lei Dongbao's story tells us that on the complicated road of life, learning to cherish the present and letting go of the past may be the right direction to happiness. Emotional entanglements are like a labyrinth, and only by taking a brave step to let go can we find an exit to peace of mind.