In life, we often hear the older generation say: "Keep your mouth and don't make a mistake, and keep your heart and don't make a mistake".
It admonishes us to control our mouths and hearts to avoid unnecessary troubles and mistakes caused by inappropriate words and actions.
Don't be ignorant of the severity and talk nonsense, otherwise you will often regret the water that you spill when you say it.
Don't be tempted and act blindly, otherwise it will hurt you.
First of all, keeping our mouths shut means that we learn to control our words.
Speech is the main way of communication between people, but sometimes inappropriate words can cause unnecessary misunderstandings or conflicts.
As the saying goes: Illness comes from the mouth, disaster comes from the mouth, and if you don't manage your mouth well, it is easy to cause unnecessary trouble to yourself.
If we don't control our mouths and don't speak through our brains, we are likely to offend others unconsciously or say something we shouldn't say.
Such words will not only bring trouble to yourself, but may also hurt the feelings of others.
In life, such examples abound, and many grievances and grievances are actually generated by a sentence that does not go through the brain, thus bringing unnecessary trouble to one's own life.
Therefore, we must learn to be cautious, speak less, and think more, and we must go through some thinking and screening before speaking, so as to avoid unnecessary trouble caused by inappropriate words. "Before you speak, you must think twice! ”
Second, guarding our hearts and not making mistakes means that we need to maintain peace of mind and sobriety.
In real life, we often face all kinds of ** and challenges, and if we can't maintain inner peace and sobriety, it is easy to make wrong decisions or behaviors.
Therefore, we must learn to control our emotions and desires, maintain a normal heart, and not be disturbed by the outside world.
Don't forget the original intention, in order to always!
Only in this way can we make the right judgments and actions in the face of various situations.
Guarding one's mouth and heart is not only a kind of wisdom, but also a kind of cultivation.
If you say too much, you will lose, be cautious in your words and deeds.
Keep your mouth and don't make a mistake, and keep your heart to make no mistakes
It's better not to talk too much, and talk less when you see people; It's best not to be overly concerned and see things less involved.
Do your own thing, do your own words; Repair your heart and establish your own virtue!
Only by truly understanding the principle of "keeping one's mouth shut and not making mistakes", and practicing it in real life, can one become a truly mature and rational person.