The best education is to learn to love.
There is a question, ask: what is a good education for children by parents?
Gao Zan replied: When I become different from what you expect, please love me as I am, love me as I am, and praise me as I am.
In reality, most parents always want to educate their children to be what they are, without thinking about what their children can become.
In fact, every child has his flowering period, pay attention to the essence of the child, let the child feel happy, he can thrive.
Children who do not have a sense of well-being are prone to behavioral deviations
The greatest happiness in life is the conviction that someone loves us.
But if love becomes control, deprivation, aggression, and love goes in the wrong direction, it will make the child's heart dusty.
Not only do they not feel happy, but they even have all kinds of problems.
Psychologists say that mental illness in adults can all be traced back to a person's childhood.
The lack of happiness has plunged the child's soul into a desert.
In fact, behind all the problems, there is a call for love.
Read a sentence that loving someone is not what you think, but what he is.
Although every parent wants their children to be the dragon and phoenix among people, before that, children must first become human beings and become themselves.
The key to unlocking children's happiness is hidden in the hands of parents
A happy mind must be surrounded by joyful and peaceful air, and happiness is contagious.
Many parents don't realize that only changing themselves is the key to making their children happy.
As a parent, it is very important to raise your children well, but before that, you must first learn to reflect on yourself and grow yourself.
I have read such a sentence: Don't put all your energy on your child, if you are full, happy, responsible, and have the ability to manage emotions, your child will imitate you.
Children come to us to awaken us and make us rediscover ourselves.
When you are able to work yourself, you will find that the family will become more and more harmonious, and the children will be happier.
Every parent loves their children, but if they impose what they think is the right parenting style on their children, without considering their feelings, then this kind of love is harmful.
Only when parents stand on an equal footing with their children and feel with their hearts can they understand their children and love them correctly.
The best nurturing is to learn to love
Let children enjoy the happiness they deserve, be fully respected, have the right to choose, and let them become a healthy person in body and mind.
Rather than meeting the needs of children's lives, children's spiritual needs are particularly important.
Parenting that is not premised on love and not knowing how to love children will bring irreparable damage to children.
There is a proverb that says, "You can lead a horse to the water, but you can't force him to drink." ”
Only by squatting down, communicating with the child on an equal footing, and looking at the problem from the child's point of view, can parents understand the child and understand the child's spiritual needs.
Children who are treated gently are lucky, and love can make a child's life full of vitality and vitality. When a child's life force is seen, these energies become a person's strength.
The recognition of parental love will give them enough confidence to face the storm.
The essence of education is education, and education is to serve education. The connotation of education lies in cultivating and arousing spiritual growth.
All the problems of children, if they are traced back to the source, will almost always be traced to adults.
Only when the adult adjusts can the child have the possibility of adjustment.
May we learn to love, use love to stimulate children's potential, and be parents who know their children best. **Women's Voices of the All-China Women's Federation.