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Yesterday the child was playing in the park with her best friend (my daughter is 5 years old and her good friend is also 5 years old).
There is a row of drums in the park, and two little girls climb the drums together, and my daughter climbs a higher drum, and she tries several times, but she can't climb up.
Finally, an older boy came, climbed up to the tallest drum, looked at my daughter and said, "Haha, she can't climb up alone, haha..."”
When my daughter heard this, she lay on the drum and cried sadly, I quickly empathized with her, baby, you are sad, do you want to be encouraged by other children, not negative?
The child cried even more aggrieved, I hugged her, and when she finished crying, I looked into her eyes and said to him, baby, do you know?When we are doing something, there will always be all kinds of voices around us(including when you grow up), these voices may not be what we want them to be....
Some sounds are the habitual expression of a person and are made casually, while some sounds have a purposeIf you're serious, you're really sealing your potential!
Did you know?My daughter ran to the drum on her own, crawling and crawling, trying hard for a few rounds, and I would immediately encourage her every time she came close to success....
Wow!You're so amazing, you've explored your own way.
Wow!Step 1, Step 2, Try Again, Step 3, Step 4 Wow!You succeeded, you really climbed up....
Wow!Have you found that you can do it....
The child was very happy and climbed up 1 time, 2 times, 3 times, 4 times, 5 times...
Baby, you find that no, your potential is limitless!No one can see how much potential you really haveDo you want to believe other people's judgments in the future?
I don't want a mother, as long as I believe in myself, I can do it".
Remember one of our words?“Repetition is powerRepetition is power, and if I don't know it for the time being, I'll keep repeating it....
Baby, what have you learned from what you just did?
We tooDon't judge or judge people arbitrarilyBecause many people's sense of value comes from external recognition, so,Our words are to bless others, not to block themOf course, mom will help you build your own belief system, and you won't have these worries when your sense of worth is no longer dependent on the outside world.
Write at the end:We have a belief on the wall that we don't judge externally and don't accept judgment internally
I teach my daughter not to judge others, but when she comes into contact with the outside world, there will always be people who judge her, and whenever someone says that she is not good, that is not good-looking, she will always cry and come to her mother.
The second half of the belief is that for a 5-year-old child, her mind is not yet mature, and it is indeed a bit challenging for her to build a solid moat at this moment.
However, with her mother here, it wasn't a problem...
Have you judged someone else today?Have you been judged?