"Harvard Family Motto" is a classic of education written by William Bernard, which is based on the educational philosophy of Harvard University, and expounds the important philosophy of life through many vivid stories and cases. One of the sayings touched me deeply: "Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others." This sentence emphasizes that in interpersonal interactions, we should be strict with ourselves and at the same time tolerant of others.
First of all, being strict with ourselves means that we need to have clear requirements and standards for ourselves. In daily life, we often face various challenges and **, only through self-discipline and self-management, can we constantly improve our ability and quality. This includes not only the pursuit of academics and careers, but also the improvement of personal morality and accomplishment. We should always examine our actions and thoughts, and have the courage to self-criticize and self-improve. At the same time, we must also establish a correct outlook on life and values, adhere to the moral bottom line, and not violate our conscience and principles for the sake of temporary interests.
Second, being lenient means that we should be tolerant and understanding of the shortcomings and mistakes of others. Everyone has their own upbringing and life experiences, so it is inevitable that there will be differences and contradictions. When interacting with others, we should respect their views and choices, and not easily criticize and criticize others.
When we are faced with the shortcomings and mistakes of others, we should communicate with kindness and understanding, help others recognize the problem and find solutions together. This tolerant attitude can not only resolve conflicts, enhance mutual trust and friendship, but also make oneself a respected and welcome person.
In real life, we often encounter all kinds of people and things, some people like to be calculating and aggressive, while others are tolerant and empathetic. Practice has shown that those who are strict with themselves and lenient with others tend to achieve greater achievements and happiness. Because they are not only able to manage themselves effectively, but they are also able to earn the trust and support of others.
In addition, the Harvard Family Motto also tells us that homeschooling is essential to a person's growth. A good homeschooling should focus on cultivating children's independence, self-confidence and sense of responsibility. Parents should give their children enough love and support, and at the same time guide them to establish a correct outlook on life and values. Through the cultivation of family education, children can better adapt to society and meet the challenges of life.
In short, the phrase "be strict with yourself and be lenient with others" in the "Harvard Family Motto" profoundly expounds the important philosophy of life. Through self-discipline and self-management, we are able to continuously improve our abilities and qualities;By being tolerant and understanding of others, we are able to build good relationships and earn the trust and support of others. This wisdom applies not only to the growth and development of individuals, but also to various organizations such as families, teams, and societies.
Therefore, we should always keep in mind the teachings of this sentence and strive to be strict with ourselves and lenient with others. Only in this way can we go further and more steadily on the road of life.
Harvard Family Motto tells us that the highest level of companionship is: not only to have preaching, but also to have high-quality companionship, and to persist and grow together with children.
Growing up is really hard and tiring, when the child wants to give up, you might as well train the child to learn together, "hard" together, and persevere together. When the child has your example, the child's heart is like a mirror, and he still has the face to give up?!
Finally, I would like to recommend this Harvard Family Motto to you, and I strongly recommend that you read it to your children. This is a must-read for children to become talents, and one of the best reads for you and your children to be reborn.
Before I saw this book, I was also a Buddhist parent, and I felt that it was more important to give my child a happy childhood, and after reading it, I was woken up fiercely, and it turned out that I was very wrong - not a chicken baby, the child is sweet is the present, and the bitter is the future;Chicken baby, the child is bitter in the present, but sweet in the future!