A 38-year-old woman with a salary of 7,000 yuan, faced with picking up her mother-in-law to live with her, she decided to do it, you give my mother 970,000 yuan
Chen Mo, 38 years old, is a piano teacher in an art academy with a basic salary of 7,000 yuan per month. Her husband, Wu Xinjie, 42, is a civil servant with a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan.
Chen Mo's daily life is very busy, and her students have to take art exams, so she has to tutor each student individually, which makes her feel stressed. She knows that if a student does not perform well on their exams, she as a teacher will also suffer.
At around 8 o'clock in the evening, Chen Mo finished the tutoring session of the last student, and she felt a little headache. On the way home, she was glad that she had her mother to help pick up the child, otherwise she would have been overwhelmed.
Thinking of her husband, Chen Mo sighed in her heart. Although Wu Xinjie has a lot of free time, Chen Mo feels that he seems to care more about his mother, younger brother and nephew. It made her feel uneasy.
When I got home, my mother asked with concern: Momo, why did you come back so late? Go wash up and I'll bring you food. Tonight I made your favorite sauerkraut fish.
Chen Mo felt a warm current of happiness surging into his heart. At home, she has her mother's care, and everything is so beautiful. She felt like a spoiled child, and her mother took care of all the trivial things in life, which made her feel extremely happy.
His son Chongchong ran over and said, "Mom, wash up and eat, you must be hungry." You're pathetic.
Chen Mo touched his son's head and said with a smile: Okay, Chongchong, have you finished your homework? Wait a minute, Mom will watch a documentary with you, okay?
Chongchong nodded and said, "Okay, I'm still a little close, we can watch it with grandma later."
Chen Mo took a bath, listened to piano music, and felt happy.
At dinner, my mother said: "Silently, Xinjie came to our house after work recently, is there anything wrong with him?" Did you quarrel?
Chen Mo shook his head and said: No, I heard that it was his brother's matter, but I didn't ask about it.
The mother didn't say anything more, just accompanied Chen Mo to eat, looking at her daughter's indifferent appearance, she felt a little distressed.
After dinner, Chen Mo watched a documentary with his son. Chen Mo often accompanies her son to watch documentaries, which not only allows her son to learn a lot of knowledge, but also gives her a different understanding.
On the weekend, Chen Mo arranged time to accompany his son to a barbecue. Despite her busy schedule, she knows the importance of spending time with her family.
On Saturday night, Wu Xinjie came home and saw Chen Mo and his son watching TV, and he was in a bad mood. He felt that there were already a lot of things at home, but he saw that Chen Mo and they were still enjoying life.
Wu Xinjie frowned and said: We won't go tomorrow, there are things to discuss at home.
Chen Mo sighed and said: I have promised Chongchong, let's come back and go over. Xinjie, Xinmin is almost 40 years old, he is not a child anymore, and he doesn't need you to be by his side all the time.
Wu Xinjie suddenly became angry, he didn't want to be angry in front of his son, but he couldn't help but express his dissatisfaction.
He said loudly: Chen Mo, do you still have the place of my mother and my brother in your eyes? Don't you think it's too much for you to care so little about your in-laws?
Chen Mo wanted to explain, but she knew that now was not the time. So she turned off the TV and arranged for Chongchong to go to sleep, not wanting to quarrel in front of the child.
The son and mother went back to the room together. Chen Mo smiled, this little guy still wants to take her mother away, it's really greedy.
Chen Mo walked back to his room, his heart full of pressure and anger. She didn't want to quarrel with Wu Xinjie, but she couldn't stand it anymore.
She closed the door, faced Wu Xinjie, and asked coldly, "What do you want to say?" What do you want? ”
Wu Xinjie looked at her coldly and replied, "Chen Mo, I want my mother to live with us." She has lived with Xinmin for so many years, and it is our family's turn. ”
Chen Mo smiled: "Okay, if you want this, then you go and buy a house, buy a three-room one, and your mother-in-law will move over, no problem." ”
Wu Xinjie glared at her angrily: "Chen Mo, don't go too far. Why is it that your mom can live with us and my mom can't? It's not fair for you to do that. ”
Chen Mo looked at him, his heart full of disappointment and anger.
She said coldly: "Wu Xinjie, have you forgotten? The house was bought with my mother's money. This house is actually my mother's, not ours. ”
Wu Xinjie was stunned for a moment after hearing this, but immediately said angrily: "Chen Mo, how can you say that? This house is obviously ours. ”
Chen Mo felt his shamelessness, and couldn't help but mock in his heart. She smiled bitterly and said: "Wu Xinjie, this house was bought by my mother who sold her old house and got 970,000 yuan, plus our 100,000 yuan." ”
She sighed: "If you want to take your mother over to live with you, then you can buy a house first, and then we will move in and live with your mother." ”
Wu Xinjie said a little indifferently: "Chen Mo, did you do it on purpose?" You know that I have no money, and you still embarrass me so much, are you particularly happy? ”
Chen Mo couldn't hold back any longer, dropped a pillow, and said angrily: "Wu Xinjie, who is the excesses?" You don't give your family a cent of your salary for a month, you have no money, you say something nice, so where does your money go? What qualifications do you have to say that you don't have money? ”
Wu Xinjie was also a little weak-hearted, and said in a snort: "Chen Mo, don't be angry, you also know the situation of my family." My mom doesn't have a pension, and I have a younger brother at home, and they all depend on me. ”
Chen Mo smiled bitterly and said, "Wu Xinjie, over the years, I have been supporting my family, and I have to subsidize your mother." I understand you, but that's how you're giving me back now? ”
Wu Xinjie sighed and tried to find a solution: "Chen Mo, do you think this will work?" Mom likes Chong Chong, let their grandchildren live together, Chong Chong's room for my mother to live, we go to work, they can take care of each other. ”
Chen Mo was even more angry after hearing this, and she felt that she had been betrayed. She said bitterly: "Wu Xinjie, it's impossible. If you want to pick up your mom and live with you, then you can buy a house. ”
After saying that, she didn't want to say more, such an argument made her feel tired. She pushed him out the door, her heart filled with helplessness and sadness.
Wu Xinjie felt ashamed of being kicked out of his home, but he couldn't return to his home. He could only sit outside blankly, his heart full of helplessness and frustration.
The policeman quickly shouted: "Don't move, we will take you to the hospital immediately." Don't worry. ”
Dad was taken to the police station and she and mom were taken to the hospital. She felt a sense of relief welling up in her heart, and when she relaxed, she fainted.
When Chen Mo woke up, he found that he had been infusion, and turned his head to see his mother lying on the bed next door, and the liquid medicine slowly dripped into her body.
Mom also woke up, opened her eyes and saw her, revealing a reassuring smile, although that smile looked a little ugly, but it made Chen Mo feel extremely relieved.
Mom's face was bruised, and her cheeks were distorted by swelling, but her smile was still the most beautiful in Chen Mo's eyes. They are still alive, and this is already the greatest happiness.
The policeman saw that the mother was awake and asked, "Can you speak?" We need to make a transcript. ”
Mom's voice was hoarse and laborious, and she frowned in pain. Chen watched her silently.
Mom said with difficulty: "Yes, I hope you can help me, I want to divorce him." ”
After speaking, she tried to sit up, but was held down by a policewoman, who advised: "You can't do this, your ribs are broken several times, fortunately you didn't hurt your internal organs, otherwise it would be dangerous." ”
Chen Mo's heart trembled when he heard this, and tears welled up in his eyes. She felt pain all over her body, but thought that her mother was the one who was really hurt.
Mom sighed and said to Chen Mo: "Silent, I'm sorry, Mom can't hold on." I wanted to wait until you got into college, but now, I don't want to wait any longer. You follow me, we'll live together, okay? ”
Chen Mo looked at his mother firmly and replied, "Okay, Mom, I'll follow you, and we'll live a good life together." ”
The policewoman sighed with emotion, she had seen too many cases of domestic violence, but this time the situation was so serious.
The mother smiled again and said to the police: "He came back drunk last night, and when he saw me, he asked for money, and if I didn't give it, he beat me." ”
She sighed again: "Since he was fired from the unit, he has completely changed as a person, drinking and playing cards all day long, and going home to beat people when he is drunk." I used to want to be patient and wait until I was admitted to college before getting a divorce, but now I can't stand it anymore and I want a divorce. ”
The police made a record and said, "We have helped you apply for an injury evaluation, and you can get a divorce and apply for compensation as long as you want." ”
Mom shook her head and said, "He's penniless, and I don't need compensation." The most valuable thing about our family is the old house. ”
The policeman nodded: "Okay, your daughter is about to go to college, you can try to keep the house." Judging by your injuries, if you don't choose to forgive, he should be sentenced. ”
After the police left, the mother and daughter looked at each other and smiled.
Mom said to Chen Mo: "Momo, we have to try to keep the house, but we can't continue to live there, I will sell the house, let's find another place, it will be safer." ”
Chen Mo nodded: "Mom, I listen to you, no matter what happens, I will support you." ”
When my mother got better, the family went to the police station together. Dad looked decadent.
Chen Mo's heart was full of fear, she couldn't forget the look in her father's eyes that day, and it always appeared in her dreams. She didn't want to see him again, never.
Dad glared at them and said, "Do you really want a divorce?" If you want my house, are you going to force me to death? ”
My mother replied firmly: "As long as you agree to divorce and give us the house, I will sign and withdraw the lawsuit." Otherwise, you go to jail. ”
At this time, the grandmother also came, rushed at the mother, and reproached: "It's all you, a bad woman, who hurt my son like this, you will have retribution." ”
Mom responded calmly: "Mom, have I treated you badly all these years?" Every time you get sick, it's me who takes care of you. I gave you all the food and clothing you fed and clothed, and I was about to be beaten to death by him, do you still think it's my fault? ”
Grandma roared: "If you dare to put him in jail, I will definitely beat you to death." ”
Mom was silent, but she wouldn't back down. What did she get after so many years of forbearance?
Dad eventually compromised, and the house was owned by Mom. Mom quickly sold the house and temporarily rented a small house near the school to live with her.
Chen Mo didn't plan to learn piano because it was too expensive. But her piano teacher approached her mother and suggested that she continue to learn the piano because she was so talented.
Thinking of this, Chen Mo couldn't help but smile. Mom is amazing, and she will definitely support her in learning the piano.
She left her hometown again to pursue graduate school in another country, while her mother stayed at home.
After graduating, she returned to her mother, first teaching at a training institution, and two years later, with the recommendation of her colleagues and her own assessment, she successfully entered her current school. Mother was very happy about this.
Chen Mo is not in a hurry to get married, although she is close to 26 years old, she feels young, but her mother is very worried, worried that she will not dare to fall in love or get married because of her relationship with her father.
Chen Mo kept telling her mother that she would not have such concerns, but she knew in her heart that she was really afraid of men in her heart, and her father's red eyes often appeared in her dreams, which woke her up.
Until the age of 29, in order to appease her mother's worries, she met Wu Xinjie under the introduction of a colleague.
At that time, Wu Xinjie was 33 years old and had just been admitted to the civil service. It is said that the family is not wealthy, and he is honest, and he has talked to his partner a few times, but they all broke up when they were about to get married.
When they got along, Chen Mo noticed that he occasionally smoked but didn't drink, which made her feel satisfied, because she never drank herself and was especially afraid of men who drank.
She thought that she was so old and married to whomever she wanted, and she hadn't been in a relationship all these years because she was afraid of getting along with a man.
After a few months together, they decided to get married. Wu Xinjie has no money to buy a house, and his family can only pay 20,000 dowry, and other expenses are borne by themselves.
Her mother did not approve of her getting married in such a hurry, but she understood that if she dragged it out any longer, she might never want to get married for the rest of her life, and finally her mother reluctantly agreed.
They plan to live in the school's dormitory with Wu Xinjie. Although Chen Mo had saved some money, she didn't want to buy a house alone, and the dormitory conditions she was arranged were also very good.
After she became pregnant, her mother said to her: "Momo, you need someone to take care of you during confinement, and this house is not very convenient." ”
After discussing with their mother, they finally decided to sell the family house and buy a three-bedroom apartment to live with their mother, so that she could also help take care of the children.
Thinking back on these, Chen Mo felt that he was too naïve, it was all because of her, his mother had been busy all these years, but Wu Xinjie didn't seem to know anything about retribution.
She gave birth to a child, and her mother-in-law only came to see her once, saying: "Chen Mo, Xiuxiu is also pregnant, I really can't take care of it, you have your mother to take care of it, and I can rest assured." ”
After sending her mother-in-law away, Chen Mo discussed with her mother and decided to sell the family house and buy a three-bedroom apartment to live with her mother, so that her mother could also take care of the children.
But what made Chen Mo most angry was Wu Xinjie.
She has never been able to understand what kind of person Wu Xinjie is. His younger brother is the same age as her and four years younger than him, but in Wu Xinjie's eyes, he needs to take care of everything he does.
The child Chongchong was only half a year old, his little cart suddenly disappeared, and when she came home, her mother said distressedly: "Silent, do you know? The child's stroller is missing. When I went grocery shopping, I could only hold him, and I was exhausted. ”
Chen Mo was also very strange, they didn't expect that Wu Xinjie took it and gave it to his nephew.
After learning about it, she said in disbelief: "Wu Xinjie, what do you think?" Chong Chong is only 6 months old, and his car will be used for several years, you gave it to your nephew, what should Chong Chong do? ”
Wu Xinjie actually smiled and said: "Oh, silently, you just bought another *** for this ***, it depends on your urgency." ”
Later, something like this happened so many times that she was at a loss. Does he know which one is his child? Why is he so selfless?
He was so selfless that all his money was given to his mother. Later, under the persecution of her mother-in-law, she had to give her mother-in-law 2,000 yuan of pocket money, otherwise her mother-in-law would take her nephew to make trouble every day, and she was really fed up.
Chen Mo now understands that there are some things, if you don't give in, you will be grateful, but you will be bullied by others, and even intensify the oppression of you.
Chen Mo looked at the night and finally made up her mind, she wanted a divorce. What is the point of such a marriage? Even if she becomes a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle, she will not be happy, but will affect her mother and children.
She knew that Wu Xinjie was in the living room, and after walking out of the door, she choked on the smell of smoke, coughed a few times, and said: "Let's divorce, the child belongs to me, and no one will complain about who you want to spend your money on in the future." ”
Wu Xinjie is reluctant to divorce, and now Xinmin's family lives with his mother, which is already very crowded, where did he go to live? Bunking in the living room? He didn't want to.
Besides, although her mother helps her brother's family every day, she told Chen Mo that her brother-in-law takes care of her mother hard, so she has to give 2,000 yuan a month, and when she gets divorced, her mother has no money in her hand.
Seeing his eyes rolling, she wanted to laugh herself, this is the so-called honest person?
She said coldly: "Wu Xinjie, I won't give your mother another penny, if you don't get divorced, then give me 3,000 yuan a month for the family, otherwise you don't want to enter the house, this house is my mother's, not yours, and not mine." ”
Wu Xinjie said: "Chen Mo, do you have to do this? Divorced, what is the impact on Chongchong, don't you understand? ”
Chen Mo was very calm and said, "It's better than now." There is no difference between having a father and not having a father, and it may be even more uncomfortable. It's better not to have any, and he won't have other thoughts. ”
Sighing, she said calmly: "When you go to work, go through the divorce procedures, you are also a person with face, and you are said to be supported by your wife, and you have no face." ”
After speaking, she went back to the house to sleep, and she had to take the children to the barbecue tomorrow, Wu Xinjie didn't care, who cared, he didn't like to go out with them in the first place.
The next day, Chen Mo played with his mother and son for a day, and the son was very happy, but the mother was always worried.
She took her mother's hand and said, "Mom, what do you think makes of the current life without divorce, it's better to get divorced, and we live our lives quietly." ”
When he went to work, Chen Mo called Wu Xinjie ** and said, "Come out now, let's get a divorce, you may not know that your leader's daughter is learning piano ...... with me."”
She didn't say much, but her meaning was very clear, Wu Xinjie was so angry that he wanted to die, but he couldn't help it. He has worked hard for many years, and now he is fighting for the opportunity to be promoted, and he can't let Chen Mo destroy it.
Chen Mo was divorced, and Wu Xinjie was unwilling to pay child support, because he paid 30,000 yuan when he bought the house at that time.
Chen Mo finally agreed, she didn't want to quarrel anymore, she was already very tired, she just wanted to live her life with her mother and son after the divorce.
Chen Mo thought, maybe the marriage is too complicated for her to be suitable. All she pursues is to work hard to make money and live quietly and happily.
Written at the end: Chen Mo is very happy now. For her, divorce is the best relief. A husband whose heart is not at home brings her only exhaustion. Being able to divorce now is the beginning of a better life.
Everyone has their own destiny, and no one knows what will happen. But at all times, be brave and know what you want in order to stay awake in the whirlpool of life.
Most of us, just ordinary people, have to want to give up while desperately trying to grasp the current life, this is the reality.
Chen Mo did the right thing, what do you think? Comments are welcome!