Deng Qiang, a man who works as an IT supervisor in a large factory, has a good income and a seemingly carefree life. However, his mood was not as rich as his financial resources. His marriage to his girlfriend turned out to be a dispute that made him exhausted.
Over the years, Deng Qiang's relationship with his girlfriend has been developing steadily. Their marriage plan is also in the making, but who would have thought that the originally sweet love would turn into endless strife.
In the process of preparing for marriage, his girlfriend made a series of requests that caught him off guard. First of all, the bride price and three golds, which may be just a temporary burden for him, but when these expenses add up to nearly 250,000, he begins to feel a little bad. After all, the money was almost single-handedly borne by himself, and it was not easy for him.
However, what bothered him even more was another request from his girlfriend - a diamond ring worth more than 100,000 yuan. For Deng Qiang, this is undoubtedly worse. He tried to explain to his girlfriend, persuaded her to choose a ring of slightly lower quality but more reasonable, and even proposed the choice of ** and diamond ring. However, the girlfriend is stubborn and insists that only a one-carat diamond ring is worth having, and everything else is meaningless.
Faced with his girlfriend's request, Deng Qiang felt in a dilemma. On the one hand, he understands his girlfriend's expectations and hopes, but on the other hand, he can't bear such a huge burden. He couldn't help but wonder if such a marriage was really worth pursuing. Is it that the feelings between them have been overshadowed by material things and have become no longer pure?
He tries to communicate with his girlfriend in the hope of finding a mutually acceptable solution. However, his girlfriend became more and more stubborn, and even doubted his sincerity and love because of this. This made Deng Qiang feel upset, and he didn't know what to do.
Perhaps, this is just a run-in before marriage, but for Deng Qiang, this has become an insurmountable obstacle. He began to wonder if this relationship could really go on, and whether he should give up this seemingly beautiful but full of twists and turns.
However, he is still trying to find a solution. Perhaps, after this turmoil, their relationship will be stronger, and perhaps, they will find a balance that they can accept together.
And now, Deng Qiang can only bear all this silently, waiting for a glimmer of light to come.
How do you think Deng Qiang should deal with such a situation? Do you have a similar experience or perception? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section.