In the drama "The First Half of My Life", people often think that He Han is the final winner, but in fact, Chen Junsheng is the real winner. Although Chen Junsheng's marriage to Luo Zijun only lasted for a month, it was this month's marriage that brought him a huge change. When He Han left the company for Tang Jing, Chen Junsheng took his place and became the company's deputy general manager. Unlike many people who are in trouble after their divorce, Chen Junsheng did not go downhill after the divorce, but embarked on a brighter path.
For those who cheat, people often hate them deeply and want them to have a hard time. However, instead of being jealous of Chen's success, people think that he deserves it. This is because Chen Junsheng has always taken good care of Luo Zijun in his marriage, and even if he later developed feelings with Ling Ling, he did not file for divorce easily.
Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun's marriage was not wealthy at the beginning. Luo Zijun married Chen Junsheng just after graduation, and he was still a newcomer in the workplace at that time. However, Chen Junsheng worked hard, and after years of struggle, he finally became a project manager, with an annual salary of 1.5 million, and also bought a large house in Shanghai. He always remembers his promise to work hard to make money and let Luo Zijun live a prosperous life.
Although Luo Zijun lived a luxurious life, Chen Junsheng never had any complaints. He knew that Luo Zijun had paid a lot for this family, and her luxurious life was bought with money. Therefore, even if he later developed feelings with Ling Ling, he did not file for divorce easily.
However, Ling Ling's voluntary confession put Chen Junsheng in a predicament. Although he wanted to be with Ling Ling, he was never able to file for divorce from Luo Zijun. Until the end, he was cornered by Ling Ling and had to have a showdown with Luo Zijun.
After the divorce, Chen Junsheng did not forget his responsibilities. He always treated Luo Zijun well and helped her through this difficult time as much as possible. This behavior of his won the respect and sympathy of the audience.
Through this drama, we see a real and complex Chen Junsheng. He is not a perfect person, he is on the best track of marriage, but at the same time he also took his own responsibilities and treated Luo Zijun well. This complex personality makes the audience both love and hate him. But in any case, we cannot deny that he still maintained an optimistic attitude after the divorce and achieved great success in his career.
When Luo Zijun first filed for divorce, Chen Junsheng said to her with deep guilt: "I will support you until you have the ability to live independently." After that, with the assistance of Tang Jing, Luo Zijun gradually showed her independent spirit. Chen Junsheng observed Luo Zijun's changes, but his reaction was not to regret it like other men, on the contrary, he gave Luo Zijun a lot of encouragement.
Once, Luo Zijun asked He Han to help take care of Ping'er because of an interview, but Ping'er suddenly had a fever. Upon learning of this news, Luo Zijun's ex-in-laws immediately rushed over and blamed her for taking poor care. Their intentions are clear: they want to make Luo Zijun feel guilty and make her realize that she can't take care of the children while working, so that Ping'er can return to them. At this time, Chen Junsheng was also present, he knew his parents well, but when he saw them blaming Luo Zijun, he did not echo, but stood on Luo Zijun's side and persuaded his parents to be more tolerant.
Later, when Luo Zijun lost her job, Chen Junsheng used his connections to find a new job for her. In order for her to gain a smooth foothold in the new company, Chen Junsheng even ignored Party A's identity and personally explained various details to her in the company. What's more, when Luo Zijun was harassed by his colleague Duan Xiaotian, Chen Junsheng stood up for her without hesitation and warned Duan Xiaotian to stay away from Luo Zijun.
Surprisingly, after the divorce, Chen Junsheng still did these things for Luo Zijun. He didn't want the relationship between the two to continue to be entangled, on the contrary, for him, goodbye was also a friend. He sincerely hopes that Luo Zijun can live a better life. As netizens commented: He always carries guilt and patience. This is not only the case for the ex-wife, but also for the ex-wife's family.
When he first filed for divorce, his mother-in-law beat Chen Junsheng angrily, and every time he suffered all the blows like a sandbag, he didn't fight back or talk back. He did the same for ***. When Luo Zijun was with him, his sister Luo Ziqun always asked him to borrow money privately when he had no money, although the loan was never returned. Even after the divorce, Luo Ziqun still went to Chen Junsheng many times without telling his sister.
In the face of such a situation, many people will choose to turn their faces and not recognize people, but Chen Junsheng's attitude towards *** has always remained the same, as long as she speaks, he will try his best to be satisfied. Chen Junsheng saw Luo Ziqun hanging out with the hairstylist in the shopping mall, and immediately called Luo Zijun to remind her to pay attention to her sister and avoid Luo Ziqun being deceived. His behavior of still caring for his ex-wife after the divorce has earned him the reputation of "China's good ex-husband".
When Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun had just divorced, Tang Jing was angry with his friend and wrote an anonymous letter to Chenxing, putting Ling Ling at risk of being fired. And just when Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling were at a loss for a solution to this problem, He Han unexpectedly became Chenxing's new boss. Despite the pressure, He Han did not take punitive measures against Ling Ling or Chen Junsheng for the anonymous letter.
When Chen Junsheng was frequently late due to family affairs, He Han only required work efficiency and was not strict about attendance time. Chen Junsheng understood that this was He Han leaving room for him. In the cooperation project with Bianti, He Han transferred the opportunity to Chen Junsheng in order to avoid getting involved with his former employer. This kind of cultivation and support made Chen Junsheng deeply feel He Han's kindness.
When Tang Jing reminded Chen Junsheng of He Han's negative evaluation, Chen Junsheng, in order to repay He Han's kindness, actually got angry in front of Tang Jing, saying that she was too conceited and snarky. In order to defend He Han, Chen Junsheng not only offended Tang Jing, but also chose a position that was contrary to him.
During the cooperation negotiation with Luo Ping, Chen Junsheng accepted the other party's proposal, but exposed Luo Ping's intentions behind his back, causing him to be publicly humiliated by Vivian. Regarding Ling Ling's suggestion to inform He Han of the matter, Chen Junsheng thought it was unnecessary. His return to He Han was as natural and unintentional as drinking water every day. Before Tang Jing was sent to work in Hong Kong, she asked Chen Junsheng to help mediate the dispute with her ex-husband as an intermediary. Although this required him to make sacrifices and concessions, in order to repay Tang Jing's support and trust in him in the past, Chen Junsheng resolutely agreed. He is willing to help Tang Jing alleviate family conflicts, so that she can work abroad with more peace of mind. When Chen Junsheng learned the news, he immediately came to find He Han. He understood He Han's feelings for Tang Jing, so he encouraged He Han to make a final effort, hoping that a lover would eventually become a family. Later, in order to protect Tang Jing, He Han resolutely decided to resign from Chenxing.
With the departure of the eldest and the second child going smoothly, Chen Junsheng got this opportunity almost effortlessly. Often, it's a good thing to be happy about. However, Chen Junsheng felt that the victory was not honorable. For him, the promotion is a shame, because becoming the vice president means that he owes He Han something. When Luo Zijun congratulated him, Chen Junsheng responded bitterly: "What bullshit Mr. Chen." For those who change their minds in a relationship, people often call them "scumbags". However, Chen Junsheng is affectionately called "ex-husband's brother" by everyone, a title with a rather positive evaluation.
He fell in love with Ling Ling in his marriage, and for whatever reason, it was his fault. To his credit, Chen Junsheng did not make mistakes again and again. He always strives to maintain balance and be kind to those around him. Perhaps, this is the reason why he is not only not criticized, but is becoming more and more respected.