Everything we have is something that we humans should have in their own self-sufficiency and innateness, such as wisdom, thinking, spirituality, emotional intelligence, and other inner spiritual things.
As we grow older, in the great dye vat of the world, we are blinded by the noise and distraction of the dust, and the "heart" of the truest, the most good, and the purest "heart" is confused by greed, hatred, ignorance, and slowness, and loses the true nature of the past.
When we were children, we had an innocence and flawlessness, innocence and loveliness, and grew up day by day with "One Hundred Thousand Whys". As we grow older, we have thoughts, ideas, interests, hobbies and value orientations, and slowly deviate from the original track of life, going further and further on different paths from each other.
In the long journey of life, the connotation of everyone's life has undergone a "qualitative" change, some people set sail on the right path, thriving, and the family is happy and happy; There are also some people who abandon their studies and waste their time at the age of struggle, and after marrying a wife and having children, they live in poverty and live hard.
Around me, there are a group of friends, classmates, and young people, who work as stuccoers, repairmen, delivery workers, etc., most of whom have entered middle age, and earn two hard-earned money by selling coolies, which is inevitably sad; And their children and grandchildren have left their hometowns and gone out to work; But the question is, nowadays, how can there be so many "jobs" to do? Especially in this post-epidemic buffer period, factories have closed, restaurants have been sluggish, and shopping malls have ......been emptyIn the face of the current reality, can you still go to ** to work?
I remember that my 90-year-old mother often said: "We must train the next generation well!" The old man's words are very reasonable. Nowadays, science and technology, informatization, data, and mechanization are advancing by leaps and bounds, changing with each passing day, and innovation has become the theme of China in the new era. Try to see, in the huge workshop, there is hardly a single figure in sight, all of them are manipulators busy and constantly operating, and they accurately install the accessories in place; The food delivery workers in some restaurants have been replaced by robots, and the stream is constantly flowing between the tables; Agricultural mechanization made wheat and corn "return to the warehouse" in an instant; There is also a large number of college graduates pouring into society every year, waiting for employment ......
Therefore, in the face of today's society, we must eat the fireworks of the world, and bear the heavy responsibility of supporting and raising the "old and young", whether it is a middle-aged companion or a young person, do not struggle, do not work hard, do not stand on their own, do not improve themselves, okay?
You may say, everyone understands the truth, how to implement it?
First, the goal
There must be a goal in mind to change the status quo of life. After waking up early every day, I draw a "cake" in my mind, that is, a blueprint for struggle. This practice of "painting cakes to satisfy hunger" can encourage oneself to have the fighting spirit to move forward every day, and dream of the fragrant, crispy and sweet nature of this "cake"; And this "cake" may be a house, a car, or a happy family "acacia picture" in my heart.
2. Self-discipline
How many ambitions and confidences have collapsed after failures, **, and hesitation, and the vows that have been made have been in vain, why? There is no self-discipline, eternal self-discipline, just relying on the heat of three minutes to fight and break through, there is no way to build a "self-discipline embankment" on the waterway of struggle. Self-discipline is the "mantra" of our struggle, always remind ourselves, at this moment, what am I doing? Am I on the right track? When you see others slacking off and relaxing, can you also relax and relax? It's cold and windy outside, so I don't have to go out of the hot quilt to exercise......
Self-discipline is always the "umbrella" of success, adhering to the belief of self-discipline, always holding up this "umbrella" on the road of struggle, accompanying all the way, sheltering from the wind and rain.
3. Learning
Learning is a big concept, not only book knowledge, but also learning social knowledge, human feelings, ways to deal with the world, professional skills, new ideas, and new formulations.
Today's China has entered a new era of all-round development, the seeds of hope have been sown with the new development concept, and the seedlings of new development are slowly growing strongly. Therefore, we can only adapt to the new era and new development, recharge ourselves all the time, continue to learn, maybe fragmented and sporadic "knowledge", one by one into the brain, one day, gather sand into a tower, let the trickle converge into the sea in our hearts, vast, waves, let us stir, surging.
Fourth, self-realization
On the journey of struggle, courage is a must, perseverance, gritting teeth and climbing is the norm, confidence is the driving force, in addition, a self-realization is also needed.
Enlightenment", one heart on the left, and I on the right, that is, my heart should be enlightened and enlightened; Only when a person's "heart" is awakened can he be regarded as a real "master".
How many people around us have been busy all their lives, running around and not knowing the meaning of "living" in this life until they die? Some have become slaves to money, some have become cattle and horses for their children, some are stupidly loyal to a meaningless field, and the vast majority of people have left traces of time on their necks under the shackles of greed, hatred, ignorance, and slowness.
Only when we are enlightened can we understand the origin of things, the truth, understand the mystery of self-sufficiency, see everything clearly, clearly, plainly, and without contention, and when we understand everything thoroughly, we will let go, relax, and be at ease. As the Diamond Sutra says: All appearances are illusory, like dreams and bubbles, like dew and electricity, and should be viewed as such.
Method: In your spare time, you can get out of the "mobile phone control", turn off the endless short sound, self-discipline first, and use your energy in classic recitation, reading, writing, meditation, early rising, exercise, meditation, mindfulness, personal grooming, environmental hygiene, smiling, product quality, craftsman spirit, positive energy and other aspects of efforts.
Enlightened, wisdom greatly increased, travel lightly, do things with ease, achieve success, struggle and sweat coexist, happiness and joy accompany each other, and there are no regrets in this life. (Written by Yu Min).