"Gambling is the deadliest vice in the world and the most likely to lead to family destituteness. "Everyone should know about the dangers of gambling, just like Ms. He in HubeiBecause he was obsessed with playing mahjong, he ruined his family.
Although her ex-husband was reluctant to have this relationship, he could only endure the pain of divorcing her. However, years later,She learned that her ex-husband became rich overnight, but Ms. He unexpectedly asked her ex-husband to pay one million! Was she motivated by greed or did she have other plans?
Mr. Xiang is a young talent and a familyHead of a mining enterpriseThe work is very hard. Ms Ho has been the mainstay of the family, assisting with household chores and raising two children.
Ms. Ho is not only a housewife, she has also played an important role in her husband's career. When her husband's business was in financial trouble, Ms. HoTwice borrowed money from his father, helping her husband through the difficulties.
The relationship between husband and wife is also thereStrengthened by the experience of adversityOriginally, the family lived a happy life, however, Ms. He developed a bad habit that her husband could not tolerate. "You're gambling again! Mr. Xiang angrily shouted at Ms. He.
This is not the first time this has happened, and Ms. Ho has gradually fallen into addiction from gambling with her friends at the beginningand owed many gambling debts. Since the family's belongings were in the hands of Mr. Xiang, Ms. Ho had no choice but to ask her husband for money.
After Mr. Xiang learned about Ms. He's gambling addiction, he was very angry, butTaking into account the relationship between husband and wife over the yearsThe wife's mistake did not violate the principles and bottom line of marriageAs long as she can recognize her mistakes and is determined to make amends, he will still treat her the same way as before.
Mr. Xiang helped herPaid off all gambling debts, for the long night dream more with herAn agreement was reachedto stop gambling her.
Ms. He is also grateful to her husband for his thoughtfulness, and she is also determined to change her life and not gambleFirmly believe that one day you will be able to win back your previous losses.
Once Ms. Ho had this thought, she couldn't control her actions. She took advantage of Mr. Xiang's lack of attention, and secretly left to gamble many times.
However, gambling is such a thingIt's often nine losses and one winEveryone thinks that they are the lucky one, but in fact they are just a victim of **, and Ms. He is no exception, and soon she lost all her funds again, and she can only bravely ask for her husband's funding.
Mr. Xiang still has feelings for his wife, and he knows his wife wellGambling addiction is growingIt was difficult for her to quit this vice in a short period of time.
In order to help her successfully quit this gambling mentality, and also to prevent the family property from being gambled away by his wife, they signed a pledge to stop gamblingOtherwise, Ms. Ho will be evicted from her home.
This agreement is very strict, and Mr. Xiang thinks that his wife should be relented, because no one wants toAt the cost of marriageGo on an adventure.
Mr. Xiang is also very helpless, for him, he attaches great importance to this marriage, and he also hopes in this wayTrialsHis wife's affection for him.
He wanted to seeIf the wife really cares about the family, she won't gamble anymore. However, the reality made Mr. Xiang understand that in the face of gambling addiction, even the relationship between husband and wife for many years will gradually wear off.
Although Ms. Ho was initially frightened by her husband's determination, she relented a little. However, as last time, sheCan't resist gambling**, secretly began to gamble, and the amount of bets was not small.
SeeThe family's savings are about to be depleted by Ms. HoMr. Xiang made the difficult decision in 2010 to decide with Ms. HoDivorce.
Faced with the fact that his lover is going to fall, Mr. Xiang did not immediately decide to separate from Ms. He, but chose to continue to live with her and the child.
He also sincerely assured Ms. Ho thatAs long as she can quit gambling, they still have a chance to continue their love.
Mr. Xiang has been patiently telling her: "The divorce is only temporary, as long as you can quit gambling, we can remarry in half a year." ”
Mr. Xiang's sincere feelings were not understood by Ms. Ho, even though his beloved husband chose to divorce herHowever, Ms. He did not change her ways, but felt a little "free" after the shackles of marriage were lifted.
In view of this situation, Mr. Xiang has no reason to interfere with her expenses anymore, and Mr. Xiang complained about her behavior in an interview:"Divorce has become her unconstrained 'bargaining chip'"., she became more reckless.
How much gambling debt does Ms. Ho have? Almost all the money she invested was lost, and as the debt snowballed, she finally owed more than 80,000 yuan in debt, and Mr. Xiang at this timeBecause of being involved in a lawsuitPenniless,You can only do everything you can to help her repay her debts, so that the debt collector will not act in a way that hurts her.
In the past, both husband and wife have encountered many difficulties. Mr. Xiang's parents passed away due to illness, while Ms. Ho was also busy taking care of the house. In addition,Ms. Ho's younger brother was suffering from lung cancer, and Mr. Xiang also gave money and time to help take care of him.
In the eyes of outsiders, no matter what difficulties they encounter, they support each other as husband and wife, which is a good story. However, only they know it in their heartsA rift has long been in their relationship, all that remains is affection between family members.
Despite the ups and downs of their lives, they never intended to separate until one day, by chanceMs. He learned that Mr. Xiang had bought a house outsideThis news made her mood complicated, did Mr. Xiang really want to abandon her and leave freely?
Ms. He immediately went home to ask, but Mr. Xiang repliedLet her heart fall to the bottom,He not only coldly dismissed Ms. He's questioning, but also insisted that the matter had nothing to do with her.
In 2011, after Mr. Xiang and Ms. He divorced, they were involved in a lawsuit. Previously, Ms. He and her family thought that Mr. Xiang would definitely lose the lawsuit, but they never imagined that after nearly six years of entanglementMr. Xiang actually won the lawsuit and received 7 million yuan in financial compensationinstantly became a small rich man.
At the same time, Ms. Ho was in debt due to gamblingMore than $600,000 is owed.
After learning that her ex-husband had received a large sum of money, she fidgeted uneasily and immediately demanded a million dollars from him, "not a million,"Don't even think about running away! "Over the years, I have done a lot for him, not only before and after, but also a lot of hard work."
While Mr. Xiang was busy dealing with the lawsuit, I was at homeI take care of the housework, take care of the children, cook and do the laundry。How could this money not be relevant to me?
However, Mr. Xiang stressed that the lawsuit had happened after their divorce and had nothing to do with her, and it was too late to make a fortune about it.
In order to fight for the money, Ms. He and her family even broke into Mr. Xiang's new houseSeveral people also had a fierce fight, which eventually led to Mr. Xiang being detained for three daysAnd the former father-in-law also threatened Mr. Xiang many times, saying that if he didn't give money, he would go to his house and hang himself, so that he could not live in the new house.
In the face of this domineering and arrogant behavior, Mr. Xiang was in pain, and the contradictions between the two families deepened day by dayParticipated in the TV program "Gold Medal Mediation".to tell the public about each other's plight.
When Mr. Xiang took out the guarantee letter signed by Ms. He, her arrogance disappeared in an instant, but her tone was still full of disdain and dissatisfaction, she claimed that signing these guarantees was just a joke and did not take it seriously, so she also said to the host: ".I didn't expect him to keep these guarantees all the time, it's really too scheming! ”
However, according to the lawyers,The guarantee of the two persons has no legal effectTherefore, the best solution is for the two to reach a settlement and arrange the distribution of property reasonably.
confessed to Mr. Xiang and the program team that because his ex-wife had caused him too much damageSo much so that he had no intention of looking for another partner over the years.
Mr. Xiang is a very emotional person, and he himself is very afraid of meeting his ex-wife again, and these thoughts make him unable to develop the next relationship.
Although he once wanted to get back together with his ex-wife, nowHe had seen her for what she really was, even if she is given more opportunities, she will not cherish it.
It turned out that Ms. He's real intention was that she was not in it for money, but hoped that her ex-husband would stay by her side as in the past. However, it is too late to repent now, as in the story of "Here Comes the Wolf".There are too many lies,No one believes it anymore.
In the end, Mr. Xiang gave Ms. He some financial compensation, and an agreement was reached on child supportMs. Ho pledged not to get involved in any form of gambling again. Now, Ms. Ho has found a job and hopes that she can quit her gambling addiction and live a good life.
We can't say for sure if the two will be able to mend their relationship, but we can see how gambling can ruin an otherwise happy family. True love does not mean unconditionally pampering everything about your partnerWhen we leave decisively, it's probably a better option for both parties.