Life is like a boat, and if there is too much load, it is inevitable that it will run aground. Unload the burden in time to move forward briskly.
Breaking away is obsession, giving up is bondage, and leaving is trouble. Giving up the prosperity of the floating world, you can get a corner of peace of mind.
Renunciation is not only a way of life, but also a philosophy of life. There are many people and things in life that we don't need and don't belong to us, but the pursuit, persistence, and expectation of these things occupy a lot of our time and space. Only by truly giving up can we return to the peace of mind.
Whether it is the vision for the future, or the expectation of external people or things, it is all the internal friction of one's own emotions.
To give up is to start by giving up all expectations. Raising flowers and planting grass never expects flowers and plants to give us anything, so people who usually like green plants and flowers are very comfortable with the fun of watering and cultivating the soil, and are content with it, calm and at ease. When we have high expectations for someone or something, but in the end we can't achieve it, we can feel disappointed and frustrated, so letting go of all expectations can help us better adjust our mindset and return to inner balance.
Breaking away is not achieved overnight, it requires constant reflection and adjustment. In this process, we need to face our hearts, understand our needs and desires, get rid of the shackles of outward demand, and gradually learn to control them, only then can we truly achieve inner peace and ease.