It's almost the New Year, and when the adults are busy preparing all kinds of New Year's goods, the children are looking forward to red envelopes of all sizes. As a result, the annual "red envelope problem" has become a hot topic among parents. So, how are you going to hand out red envelopes this year? In previous years, how did you arrange it?
Hot Engine Plan For the New Year's red envelope, Ms. Wang in Zhejiang has recently been worried: her family only has one child, but her relatives have three children, according to the practice of previous years, others give her children a thousand yuan red envelope, she feels that she also gave each other three children a thousand yuan red envelope, she lost 2,000 yuan, if you give each other a child 300 yuan, and feel too childish. This matter made Ms. Wang a little entangled, so she put this problem on the Internet, wanting netizens to give her ideas. Unexpectedly, such a small red envelope not only sparked heated discussions among netizens. also rushed to the hot search, so Ms. Wang's red envelope problem alone has become a common problem that almost all parents are struggling with.
Ms. Wang said that she and her friends were originally the same child, and the red envelopes in previous years were 1,000 yuan for each other's children. I don't want my friend to give birth to twins this year, so the problem of red envelopes arises. So someone gave Ms. Wang an idea, and the other party gave your child a red envelope of 1,000 yuan, so you should be generous, and give the other party 400 yuan for each child, a total of 1,200 yuan, which is both human and generous. Ms. Wang is also very entangled in this; First of all, she gave the other party's child a red envelope of 1,000 yuan in previous years, but now it has dropped to 400 yuan, and the other party's Ruge for her child is still 1,000 yuan, so will it seem that she is very childish; Others persuaded Ms. Wang that since it is a perennial old friend, there is no need for the child's red envelope to be so fine, and each child is according to the standard of 1,000 yuan. Ms. Wang complained bitterly: If you lose 2,000 in one year, wouldn't it be 2 in ten years? The child's red envelope has to be given every year.
In the face of all kinds of suggestions, Ms. Wang has so far been puzzled, if you are Ms. Wang, how will you solve this red envelope problem?
The little red envelope is not only the heart of the elders, but also the tradition of the Chinese New Year. The red envelope is full of human feelings and wisdom. If you don't fulfill the number of courtesies, you may not receive the desired effect if you send it out; And once there is too much, the number of gifts is in place, but the account can't be calculated.
In the face of relatives and friends, the amount of red envelopes has become a headache. In order to solve this problem, some people have discussed before the Chinese New Year that they will not give each other red envelopes, this one-size-fits-all approach will not only disappoint the children, but also be a little embarrassing on some occasions, what do you think?
Mr. Liu from Shaanxi also posted on the Internet that he said hello to his family a few years ago, and everyone did not send red envelopes to each other, Mr. Liu said, you send 1000 to your child, I will send 1000 to your child, it seems that there is no loss, but in recent years, the economy has been generally difficult, if it is still like in previous years, it is estimated that many people dare not go home for the New Year, and this kind of equivalent exchange hidden in the red envelope not only has no practical significance, but also will contribute to the children's bad human feelings! Mr. Liu's views have also been echoed by many netizens on the Internet.
But some people also pointed out that for big families, this way is understandable, but when visiting relatives and friends is not ready to order red envelopes, it is often adults who are embarrassed, and if the other party insists on giving their children red envelopes, how can they be embarrassed if they are not prepared?
After all, this topic is related to every family, and among the onlookers, some people even pointed out that now the taste of the New Year is getting weaker and weaker, and if even the red envelopes slowly disappear, not only the children will feel bored, but the adults will also feel that something is missing, after all, this is a traditional folk custom passed down from generation to generation, and it is also a human relationship between families.
And in the eyes of some parents, the red envelopes given to their children during the Spring Festival happen to be a good time for their children to educate their children on financial quotients, how much to give? How to send it? How to use it? Influencers can take this opportunity to help children manage their own small finances, and it is also of great significance to use Spring Festival red envelopes to make children think about personal financial management.
Perhaps, we can draw a revelation from this red envelope battle: red envelopes are not only an exchange of money, but also a transmission of emotions and family reunions. During the Spring Festival, no matter how much red envelopes are given, they all carry love for children and good wishes for the future. Using this sense of ritual to teach children social and personal financial management is far more valuable and meaningful than tangling with how many red envelopes to send and how to distribute them, don't you say?