When the child is asked to do homework, the child begins to procrastinate and does not want to write, and does not want to do anything in a hurry? Are you in a hurry to get on the fire? Parents are anxious, but children are "calm and calm", I don't know if parents can often encounter this situation? There is no big problem when the child is young, but it will be a great annoyance to enter the society in the future. Therefore, before the child has fully formed this habit, parents should cultivate the child's management of the concept of time as soon as possible!
1. Sleeping, getting up, and going to school procrastinate
I don't want to sleep when I go to bed every night, and I go to bed when I'm having fun. It's three poles in the morning, it's time to get up and not get up. When it's time for school, I don't go out. Parents are anxious about this, and often they are late because of their children's friction.
2. There is no planning
Especially during the winter and summer vacations, parents have to go to work, and the elderly at home do not have too much energy to strictly discipline their children. Children begin to herd sheep: go to bed late and get up late, surf the Internet, watch TV, play games, eat snacks from time to time, do not like to study, and have no rules in life.
3. Resist doing things
Many parents are no strangers to this kind of child: usually lazy to eat, play with mobile phones on the Internet with great interest, as soon as he does something, he will show displeasure, complain, and sometimes even can't move at all.
When parents do too much, they don't have to worry about their children in all kinds of things, and their children will be comfortable and self-centered, and they will not have the opportunity to feel the hard work of their parents, so they will not know how to care about their parents.
Moreover, children's inertia in labor is also easy to migrate to thinking and learning with their brains, forming inertia in thinking and affecting learning.
Do urgent things in advance and prioritize things
Children are faced with many things in life and learning can not make effective and reasonable arrangements, they sometimes make wrong judgments according to their own way of thinking, postpone urgent things to do, and do things they like but do inconsequential things in advance. At this time, parents should help their children recognize the priority of things, guide them to learn to use the four-quadrant time management method, according to the arrangement and combination of urgent, non-urgent, important and unimportant, distinguish what should be done first, and what can be appropriately postponed, which can not only strengthen children's time management ability, but also let children develop the habit of doing things in an orderly manner, so that they can be handy in learning and will benefit a lot in their future life and work.
Don't make excuses for your child
Our children's school has a fun atmosphere, that is, if the child does not complete the homework, he has to complete the homework at the classroom door in the morning before entering the class. I actually appreciate it, and it also means that children are responsible for their own homework. Similarly, when children get home to do their homework, they need to take responsibility for their own homework, and if they don't, they need to explain to the teacher what went wrong and how they plan to avoid it next time.
Let your child know "what to do when and when.""
Don't underestimate the notion of "what to do when". Great truths are easy to say, but hard to do. Of course, many ** understand this truth, but when it comes to their own heads, they are often chaotic. For example, when it is time to rest, I am still staying up late, indulging in games or falling in love during the reading stage, and when I really reach the age of talking about marriage, I am entangled in work and become a single dog. "Doing the right thing at the right time" is not necessarily a good thing for many adults.
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning methods, the stronger their children's learning advantages will be.
I would like to share with you a set of books that teach children to learn time management, "Watch at School" series.
This set of 8 books is suitable for children in lower grades, and corresponds to key issues in children's learning, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.
Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
This set of extracurricular reading materials imported from South Korea can help children quickly adapt to school life, develop good study habits, and develop good time management habits from an early age.
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