Jiajia is already in middle school this year, and she is a smart, cute little girl, but she lacks a sense of time. Jiajia likes to lie in bed in the morning, every day when the alarm goes off, she pretends not to hear, at most she turns over and continues to sleep. If Jiajia's mother forcibly woke her up, Jiajia would cry and fuss, refuse to get dressed and wash, and get up so badly that Jiajia would be late every morning to kindergarten because she was lying in bed. Jiajia's mother was angry and helpless with her bed-lying behavior, so she told the teacher to let her criticize Jiajia a few times to see if it would work, but the "big-hearted" Jiajia's criticism of the teacher was that her left ear went in and her right ear went out. That night she would seriously promise that I would get up early tomorrow and that I would repeat the same trick the next morning and continue to lie in bed.
There are not a few children like Jiajia who like to lie in bed and lack the concept of time, and parents must find ways to intervene and correct them to prevent their children from forming a grinding, lazy, and undisciplined character. Don't despise "procrastination", which will hinder your child's growth, learn these three tricks thoroughly**.
1. Appropriate rewards to motivate children to form the habit of self-discipline
If the child likes to grind and lacks self-discipline, parents can set some goals for them. When the goal is achieved, parents should tell them the benefits of achieving the goal, and will give him a certain reward to recognize his progress, and also tell them what are the disadvantages if the goal is not achieved, and what role time plays here.
In the case of getting up on time at 7 o'clock in the morning, if the goal of getting up on time can be achieved, he can go to kindergarten early, not be late, and play more pre-school games with the children who go early, experience different happiness, etc., and parents will buy him favorite toys to motivate his progress. If you can't get up on time, you will have to bear the consequences of being late, such as the teacher will criticize him, and some interesting lessons will be missed. Slowly, children will understand the importance of time, form a sense of active time management, and develop the habit of self-discipline.
2. Make a schedule to shape the concept of "time" for your child
If the child does not have enough understanding of the concept of "time", parents can turn time into a visual pattern, and a planner is a good way. Make a list of what your child will do every day and the corresponding time nodes to make a planner. Children manage themselves according to the schedule every day, so that they can gradually form a clear understanding of the time, understand that they must get up at 7 a.m. for breakfast, start writing homework at 7 p.m., and go to bed at 8:30 p.m., so as to gradually develop the habit of self-discipline.
3. Help your child manage his or her time
Before talking about time management, let's think about a question, what is the purpose of time management?
Many parents will definitely say that it must be to get rid of the grinding problems and develop good behavior habits.
But this concept must be wrong, and the purpose of children's time management should be: to get everything done and play.
So how to do this time management well?
First of all, parents should relax their minds and adjust and manage their emotions.
Then help your child understand the importance of time management and the need to make a plan.
Third, after these things are done, and then go to the child to develop a time management table, this ** must not be done by parents, but discussed with the child, and made together, because only by respecting the child, your plan can be very good.
Finally, supervise and give feedback in the process of implementation.
Only by learning to manage time well, making a practical plan, and strictly implementing the plan, can the habit of self-discipline be formed.
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning methods, the stronger their children's learning advantages will be.
I would like to share with you a set of books that teach children to learn time management, "Watch at School" series.
This set of 8 books is suitable for children in lower grades, and corresponds to key issues in children's learning, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.
Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
This set of extracurricular reading materials imported from South Korea can help children quickly adapt to school life, develop good study habits, and develop good time management habits from an early age.
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