Title: Family Gatherings: Tradition Meets Reality.
Every Spring Festival, family gatherings have become a common choice for countless people, but behind this, there are a series of headaches. As one netizen said, for some people, family gatherings are no longer an expectation, but a challenge that needs to be addressed.
The family scene described by this netizen is quite emotional. There are many siblings in the family, and the annual gathering needs to meet the size of 26 people, and each family has to take turns to entertain all day. This is not only a financial burden, but also a physical and mental exhaustion. Starting with the eldest brother and taking turns in turn, each family has to be prepared for this family feast.
However, with the increase in family members and the diversification of lifestyles, it seems that traditional ways of gathering can no longer keep up with the pace of modern society. The principle of the division of the people's congress and the great bifurcation of the tree seems to be more profoundly embodied at this time. Each family has its own lifestyle and rhythm and does not have to be tossed for a fixed point in time.
Therefore, when someone suggested that each person should celebrate his own year, everyone was tacitly relieved. In modern society, people's life has become faster and faster, and it is important to get together, but it is more important to be able to fully rest and relax yourself in a limited time. New Year's greetings and phone calls can also convey emotions and make people feel each other's care and greetings.
For some traditional customs, perhaps appropriate adjustments can be made in modern society. It is not necessary to give red envelopes in the traditional way, but you can choose a more flexible way, such as giving practical gifts or making red envelopes electronic. This will not only reduce the economic burden, but also better adapt to the development of modern society.
To sum up, family gatherings are an important tradition, but they also need to keep pace with the times and fit the lifestyle and needs of modern people. Whether it is a gathering or a separation, it is necessary to respect the choices and opinions of each family member, and build on the basis of mutual understanding and respect, in order to truly achieve a harmonious and happy family life.