People to people, a fate, fate has long and short, I don't know when it will be dispersed. No matter how many people come and go, how many people drift away, you have to remember that the people who care about you are always by your side! Leaving is the end of fate; To stay, is to cherish the performance. When a person suddenly stops contacting you, it becomes very polite to communicate with you. The best thing to do, just one word - break!
01. Judgment is not ruthlessness, but decisionSometimes, even if we cherish it, we can't stop others from leaving; Sometimes, even if we are careful, it is difficult to dispel other people's misconceptions about us. Whether it's friendship or love, the dealings between each other are actually mutual. Those who want to leave can't stay; Those who stay, will not go. In the face of the dissipation of fate, the relationship is destined to be broken, and the relationship cannot be renewed; Doomed to a scattered end, irretrievable. Judgment is never ruthless, but a kind of decision, not entangled, let people look down; Learn to break and go with the flow!
02. Break, not forget, but let gobroke off contact, went their separate ways, had some feelings, and couldn't help themselves. When a person quietly withdraws from your world, we don't need to drag the other person, ask the other person why, and worry about the other person's change. Some feelings, left are also only more troubled; Some relationships, forcing are also their own troubles. The existence of fate is to make us comfortable with each other, so that we can experience happiness and love because of each other. But if a relationship consumes you, hurts you, and troubles you, we don't need to work hard to maintain, instead of entanglement, it is better to let go, and instead of obsessive, it is better to look down.
03. Break, not childish, but a kind of growthBreak, it's not angry, if you don't contact me, I won't contact you. After a long time, I am even more angry in the face of your non-appearance; In the face of your lack of initiative, I am even more aggrieved! Doing so is not a "break" in the true sense! In the real sense, "breaking" is to look away, to look down, to accept, to calmly face the changes of others, and to be rational and not to entangle people to be annoying. Taking the initiative to make a decision is actually a manifestation of self-discipline, which can let go of oneself in a relationship and minimize the harm and impact given by the other party. Break the connection, repair yourself, survive the ordeal, and accelerate your growth!
Some people don't contact you anymoreMaybe at first you will regret itIt's a pity to lose the relationship for many yearsBut then you'll be relievedLearning to stop losses in time is equivalent to protecting yourself. For some people, it is suitable for long-term companionship; Some people can only rub shoulders. The person who rubbed shoulders slowly broke off the contactWe withdraw from our respective livesDon't bother, don't pester,Subtract your own lifeEliminate ineffective socialization, and we will live better!