It's really not that easy to make a man love only one woman for your whole life.
No matter how much love once was, with the passage of time, the tediousness of ordinary life, firewood, rice, oil and salt is enough to wear out most of the enthusiasm.
If two people want to be long-lasting, some not only love each other, but also have the responsibility of never abandoning.
A man may not be able to talk sweetly to you all the time, always be attentive to you, but loyalty is the most basic and necessary condition, if a man suddenly "becomes bigger" here, it is to find a lover outside, very accurate, don't be stupid and don't understand.
The overhead becomes larger
If a man finds a lover outside, the expenses will inevitably increase.
After all, it is impossible for a lover to pay for a meal, and it is necessary to give a gift or send a red envelope during the holidays, even if the man who picks it up more or less, he has to spend some money for his lover.
If your husband does not reduce his salary, but he always complains to you that he does not have enough money to spend, and says that he wants to reduce the amount of money paid to the family, then you should be careful.
It is very likely that he spent all his money on other women.
Temper grows
Once a man cheats, he is worried that he will be discovered, his nerves will be in a tense state, he will become sensitive and irritable, he has no ability, but he is short-tempered, and he always loses his temper regardless of the occasion.
When encountering something unpleasant, he will also sprinkle his temper unscrupulously on his partner, tired of the image of his wife for several years, and unconsciously compare with his lover in his heart, and inexplicably resentful of his partner, and even feel that his partner is not pleasing to the eye anywhere, and he is not as good as his lover.
The reaction becomes larger
I once read such a sentence: Before derailment, the mobile phone was just a communication tool, and after the derailment, the mobile phone became a tool for committing crimes.
In the past, the password would be told to you, and even without a password, and it was said that the husband and wife should trust each other, and everything about him would be known to you. However, now not only has the password been changed, but as long as you touch his phone, he will quickly take it away, saying that you do not respect his privacy.
The reaction is so big, it must be because he has an ambiguous chat history or intimacy with other members of the opposite sex in his mobile phone that you can't see**.
Derailment is never an impromptu accident, but has been planned for a long time. It's not about passion, it's about character.
What Mr. wants to say is that ** is everywhere, but the reason why people are different from animals is that they can maintain their sanity, restrain themselves, and know that there are things to do and things to do.