The movie is hot and hot Boxing is a completely transformed sense of ritual for Le Ying, or it can also be explained that all the efforts made for boxing are actually the visualization of this process for people with a pleasing personality, who first loves themselves and overflows love and then selectively shares.
Le Ying said in the movie: I feel that boxing is very fun, no matter how hard you fight, you can still hug each other in the end. This is very reasonable in the people-pleasing personality, because they are afraid that the rejection will affect the relationship with others, so they dare not refuse, but she thinks that they can still hug each other after boxing, and this kind of thing that does not affect the relationship is very good.
Most of the people who like this movie can empathize with Du Leying's situation, to put it bluntly, they may have experienced the life stage of inferiority, lack of self-confidence, and people-pleasing personality, so they can understand why Du Leying is so miserable at the same time, but also through funny bridges to resolve, because the inferiority and people-pleasing personality often adopts self-ridicule, self-mockery, and self-digestion when dealing with the injured incident to resolve it, and rarely fights back to fight back.
The moral of the movie is not "counterattack", it is a side benefit of the heroine to find her life and live again. The whole film is telling the story of self-help and self-love of the pleasing personality from beginning to end, from whether or not to send to the circle of friends, to apples, to eat bullfrogs, every scene is to show the heroine's transformation of cherishing herself in the later stage.
The English name of this ** is yolo, you only live once, which is obviously to encourage individuals to fight for their own lives once, and don't care about other people's opinions. Le Ying's goal for herself has always been to fight boxing matches, so she desperately said on the stage that I can finish the fight, as long as I finish the fight, I have successfully done one thing according to my heart, even if I win once, it has nothing to do with the result of the game.
After Le Ying finally changed herself, her voice was still soft, and she looked a little weak, but she had begun to accept the world and the people or things around her in her heart, but she would no longer accept being hurt as before. "Her change is not to hit others", even after the change, she is still the kind her, because there are such people in reality.
I think this is also a problem for many contemporary young people, who can't find the meaning of life, so they can only try to rationalize their choices, give themselves a false belief, and let themselves live meaningfully. Thinking about the movie in which Du Leying said that she "has won", isn't it a spiritual victory. A girl finally finds herself in the process of loving herself, no external factors in society are added, what she enjoys is the state of the moment, the state brought about by the changes in her body and mood by her hard work.