Scorpio men always seem to be described as "possessive". They will be intensely possessive in love and want to have everything the other person has, including their time, energy, and thoughts. In friendships, they also show a strong desire to be in control, wanting to be leaders and decision-makers for their friends. In their careers, they are the best representatives of the pursuit of perfection and power, and therefore show a strong sense of possessiveness. So, is the possessiveness of a Scorpio guy a kind of protection or a kind of a**? In fact, it could be both.
First of all, the possessiveness of Scorpio men stems from their deep desire to protect their family, lovers, and friends. They want to be able to do their best to protect the important people around them from the outside world. Therefore, behind their possessiveness, it is actually a soft and sensitive heart that protects the person they love most. This is also why Scorpio men will show a strong sense of possessiveness in love, they want their other half to be a part of themselves, face external challenges together, and advance and retreat together. In friendships, they also show a strong desire to control their friends and want to get them on the right path and avoid getting hurt. In his career, the power and perfection that the Scorpio man pursues is also to be able to protect his career and allow it to gain more development and success. Therefore, the possessiveness of a Scorpio man can be said to be a form of protection, a manifestation of their inner love and pampering for important people.
However, it is also possible for a Scorpio man to become a kind of possessiveness. Possessiveness becomes an unhealthy manifestation when they have excessive control over each other's lives, restrict each other's freedoms, and even deprive each other of the right to make their own decisions. Scorpio men tend to be overly possessive for fear of losing the other person, and lack trust in the other person's whereabouts and personal space. They will also try to increase their sense of control by controlling the other person because of their inner insecurities. This possessiveness can make the other person feel uncomfortable, feel tied down and suffocated, and lead to a rift in the relationship. Therefore, the possessiveness of a Scorpio man also needs to be within reasonable limits and cannot be overindulged and indulgent.
To sum up, the Scorpio man is possessive and has the dual nature of both protection and **. In love, friendship, and career, reasonable possessiveness can allow them to better protect themselves and the important people around them, but excessive possessiveness can also lead to undesirable consequences. Therefore, the Scorpio man needs to learn to control his possessiveness and not let it become a **, but a protective force. Only in this way can they achieve a healthier and more balanced development in their relationships.