Let's talk about an interesting topic, that is, when choosing a partner, do we go for equal or backward compatibility?
First, let's talk about parity. In this era, everyone has their own talents, interests and pursuits, and what we should pursue is to support each other and grow together in our relationships and lives. Two people should have similar values, life attitudes and goals, so that they can achieve their respective ascension and move towards happiness together in each other's company.
However, we also found a phenomenon that most people choose to be backward compatible in their relationships. Why?Maybe it's because we pay more attention to the reality of life and are more willing to compromise with each other in terms of money, family, children, etc. We understand that backward compatibility can make our lives easier and more grounded, but at the expense of the quality and depth of our feelings.
So, when it comes to choosing a partner, should we go for equal or backward compatibility?Actually, there is no standard answer to this question. Most importantly, we need to find our own balance in our relationship, both to pursue mutual recognition and companionship, while maintaining the quality and depth of love. The most important thing is to choose the right one for you.
Finally, I hope that in the process of looking for the other half, you can find that evenly matched partner, go through ups and downs together, and build a happy and beautiful family together.