In this world, there is a person who can be your closest person or the person you are most afraid of touching. In your most painful and desperate time, the person who once pulled you out of the abyss is your salvation.
Imagine if your life is a plot of ups and downs, then this person is the one who can always appear at the critical moment and turn the plot of your life around. This person may be your parents, partner, children, or a stranger. However, for most people, this mysterious man remains a mystery.
When you were depressed, who pulled you out of the abyss? In my opinion, there is no single answer to this question, because when everyone encounters depression, the "abyss" they encounter is also different.
However, there is one thing in common, that is, when you encounter the abyss, it must be when you need help the most. And the person who can pull you out of the abyss is usually the person closest to you. Maybe your parents, your partner, your children, they saw your pain and came to you and wanted to help you. It could also be a complete stranger who saw your helplessness and took the initiative to come to your side and want to help you.
The one who pulls you out of the abyss is usually the one you are most afraid of touching. Because more often than not, when you're at your most painful and desperate, the last thing you want to tell someone the truth is. Because you are afraid, if people know that you are depressed, they will say irresponsible things about you, they will want you to change, they will want you to overcome difficulties. However, the one who pulls you out of the abyss will firmly believe in you, will encourage you, and will help you.
So, dear friends, when you feel depressed, don't forget that it is the people closest to you who pull you out of the abyss. Maybe they didn't say it explicitly, but their eyes, their tone, and their actions have already told you that they are willing to accompany you and help you through this difficult time.