We always talk to the person we like about our troubles and describe our bad day, but she on the other side just replies to you perfunctorily, "um", "oh", "haha", and doesn't even bother to say a complete sentence. It's as if I'm talking to myself, and even if you're honest, you can't touch his hard heart.
Behind the indifferent reply, there is no emotion, you think about how to empathize with him, but he thinks that you are just a passerby in his life, the story you tell is very real, but your emotions have nothing to do with him, he doesn't care, and he doesn't want to listen.
When a person doesn't care about you, it is obvious that he will try his best to keep his distance from you, not allowing you to enter his world and disturb his life, so he is indifferent to your words and deeds, for fear that you will misunderstand his kindness.
In the process of getting along, we are all trying to guess each other's minds, but often make simple things complicated, sometimes indifference is just indifference, does not mean anything else, when you perceive indifference, you will also let go of the stop loss, think from another angle, maybe he needs to make such a decision, the most difficult thing to love someone is to learn to let go. After letting go, it is not about losing everything, but about having everything, and on a new day, there will be more hope waiting for you.
We are all eager to be affectionately attached to each other, get a sincere response, and also know that the relationship is only two wishes, the road of feelings will go farther and farther, when you pay a deep love, but did not impress the other party, stop waiting is the best choice, in love you also have to learn to cherish yourself, do not please, will not understand your people.
Although it is not easy to let go, this is also a gap that we must cross, when you choose to accept the reality, the new world, you will also meet a person who understands you and cherishes you.