After a breakup, why not choose to delete the *** with your ex can often reflect a person's true thoughts, it may be open-mindedness after the breakup, or it may be the obsession with the ex.
After the breakup, the attitude towards the ex contains all kinds of things, maybe only I know best, after the breakup, in general, I will delete any *** with the ex and don't want to have anything to do with the other party, but there are still some people who still keep the ex *** Why don't they choose to delete the other party's *** but haven't taken the initiative to contact for a long time, which may hide some unknown things behind it.
1. Not deleting contact is to create conditions for reuniting in the future
In fact, if you don't delete it after breaking up***, what I think about the most in my heart is that the coming day is long, we will reunite in the coming day, and some people want to get back together after breaking up, and they are eager to go together again, not because of how much love they have, but because of an unfinished obsession.
People will use this idea to not want to leave regrets in their lives, but also to never forget and desire to be fulfilled.
Choosing not to get out of the ex first, that is, he can't let go, he is obsessed, because he misses those sweet times very much, even if he knows that the road ahead is impossible, he also holds a glimmer of hope, and wants to get back together with you This obsession comes from inner attachment and blind wishful thinking.
Second, because of jealousy, because I am afraid that you will live better
Love is always wrapped in jealousy, whether it is in love, jealous of your attitude towards others, and after the breakup, jealous of your life is better than the original. Even if two people have broken up, this jealousy will not fade easily.
After the breakup, he will always pay attention to you, watch the news you post, watch you talk about your life and experience, and most importantly, want to know if you have started a new relationship and lived a seemingly more beautiful and happier life.
Another reason why she doesn't delete her ex after a breakup is that she wants to follow you and understand your current situation to see whether you are bitter or happy after the breakup. If she finds that you are quickly out of the haze and start a new life, he will not be jealous, but if you are down, she will be conflicted and can't bear to see you suffer.
So love will make you feel complicated, many emotions are intertwined, love and hate, in fact, I have broken up with you, but the past of two people together can't really make her forget.
For love, the most difficult thing is not to keep a memory when we get along, but to see each other clearly, we still can't make up our minds, we can't change the thoughts and behaviors of others, but we can control ourselves, choose to take the initiative to let go and delete, and then bravely go out. New life lies ahead, where there is sunshine and warmth, and the sight is pleasant.