Eight years of journey! I didn't expect to be a soldier like this, talk about money, resources, and the exclusive truth of life!
In this world, there are some things that can only be truly understood if you have experienced them yourself. And for me, who has spent eight years in the military, there are three things that must be experienced before I can fully understand. Come with me and uncover this untold military mystery.
First things first: know the importance of money.
Speaking of being a soldier for two years, I guess your understanding is to spend your parents' money, mess around, and get a certificate after graduation. But if I really tell you, this is just the tip of the iceberg, most young soldiers have a superficial understanding of money, on the one hand, they are still young, their parents bear the burden, and family expenses have nothing to do with themselves. In addition, he is not married, has no family, and has no financial pressure at all. Do you believe that?
However, when you get through the five years of military service, the situation begins to change, and the first thing to bear is the pressure of marriage. You have to buy a house by yourself, you have to start a family, all of these need to spend money. It's a pity that when you use the money yourself, you will really realize that you are a poor bastard, and you will find out that the money is really a good thing.
And I am definitely not the only one who really understands this truth. My comrade-in-arms Xiao Ming has always thought that the struggle on the battlefield is more intense than the society, he once said: "Isn't it the Jin Ge Iron Horse, who is afraid of whom?!" Unexpectedly, eight years later, his wife called him to buy a new home, and a room of relatives, mothers-in-law and mother-in-law stared at him, and he instantly understood the difficulty of money. He said with a smile: "Back then, I was in the middle of the battle, but now the house has become my biggest battlefield." ”
The second thing: know the importance of resources.
In the past, to be honest, everyone felt that they could do anything on their own. But if you go further, you will find that there are times when you need some resources or someone needs help. In life, resources are needed everywhere, you are always in the network of linking resources, the key is to see what kind of resources you can attract, what kind of quality resources you can attract.
There is a brother who used to think that he was capable and could do anything. But after eight years of military training, he woke up and began to understand the preciousness of resources. He said: "If people have resources, they can easily gnaw a piece of the world like an excavator." And without resources, at most it is a shovel. ”
The third thing: know that people are different.
This is really a deep experience. In the army, you will find that some brothers can run, some brothers can fly, some drive tractors, and some ride rockets. We can only carry backpacks to travel at night, and this is the difference between people and people.
Once, we were in the barracks, we had dinner together, and we drank a lot of wine. I talked to my comrade-in-arms about this topic, and he suddenly said with a cheerful face: "People are like mountain paths, some are smooth roads, and some are steep peaks and mountains. The trajectory of fate has always been very different. His words sparked a discussion, and everyone talked about what they saw and felt.
The brothers all felt that understanding the differences between people and people could help them evaluate their position, desires, abilities and needs more objectively. In the face of the dangerous peaks and steep slopes of life, we can clearly realize how much ability we can do. Really make yourself aware that there are many things to work on, but you don't have to embarrass yourself. Because that's the only condition, so why make yourself miserable?
These three things can only be truly understood after eight years of military experience. It is not only the accumulation of time, but also the maturity of the mind, which allows people to deeply understand in the process. Unbelief? Ask those comrades-in-arms who were once young and vigorous if their views on these issues have completely changed. I'll continue to talk about the future, and see if you believe it or not.
They say that a military career is a grinding grave, so how many once young and passionate youths are buried in this grave? Eight years is a long wait, but also a baptism of experience. Different from the impetuousness of the world, the military years teach you to understand the precipitation of time and the hardships of growth.
Eight years of military service, for a person, is the peeling away of time, the fading of youth, and the tenacious soul left.
In the past, I was full of ignorant yearning for money, resources, and life, but now, these three things are no longer mysterious, but have shown their true appearance in the polishing of the years.
The military is a test of life and death, and it is a confrontation between ideals and reality.
But in this test, we see not only the loyalty between comrades-in-arms, but also a deep understanding of the country, the army, and ourselves. Eight years later, when I look back on my military years, I really understand those three things, and I feel the profound changes that time has brought me.
Perhaps, once when I was young, I didn't understand these truths, but after experiencing the test of life and death, we finally understood the true meaning of life. The eight-year military service is like the title page of a book, recording our growth, perseverance and struggle.
And these three things, knowing the importance of money, understanding the preciousness of resources, and recognizing the difference between people and people, are the most precious chapters in this book.
In the future, there may be more challenges waiting for us, but the eight-year military journey has made us more tenacious and deep, see the various states of life clearly, and understand the precipitation of the years. Because only in the baptism of such years can we truly understand those three things and understand the true meaning of life.
Therefore, the eight-year military service is a witness of time and a sublimation of the mind. May our military years become a splendid chapter, engraved in the long river of years, and will never be erased.