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Wen Feiyu. 
Maybe you also think so, love is either short-lived or lifelong.
Maybe you will meet someone who makes your heart flutter, but you also know that it is impossible to be together, just a moment of your own heartbeat.
Maybe you will meet someone who has spent a very good time with you, but love comes with a bang and ends lively.
Maybe you will meet someone who wants to be with you for a lifetime, and this life is to identify you, face the wind and rain with you, and stay together until the end.
Love, in fact, depends on management, between lovers, if you want to be together for a lifetime, if you want to stay together until the end, you need to pay, understand, support, encourage, tolerate, and accept.
A lover for life, how to do it? It is inseparable from these points.
1. Encourage each other and support each other.
The best love needs to encourage and support each other, lovers are together, want to have a long-term love, want to be together for a lifetime, then you must learn to encounter things, even if the other party will not do it, you have to encourage each other, to learn to stand in each other's perspective for each other's sake, do not blame each other because the other party is afraid, will not, panicked.
The ballroom couple in "The Battle of Love", the two of them have been together for 14 years, and they have supported each other in a way that encourages each other along the way, so that both of them can become better, so that the two people can also understand and tolerate each other.
At the time of the competition, it was in the sea, the girl was afraid of the water and couldn't swim, but she still participated bravely, because she believed in her boyfriend, and when she rowed in the water, she completely lost her direction, but the boy did not blame her, but encouraged her, and even let her sit still in order to protect her, and a sentence of "I come" trumped everything.
The boy paddled hard and controlled the direction, even if they were eliminated in the end and couldn't enter the finals, but his goodness has made the girl remember it for a lifetime, and he has already identified him, so he told him that he would get married as soon as he went.
Therefore, lifelong lovers are not so easy to do, and if you want to do a good job, you can't do without encouraging each other, supporting each other, not resenting or hating, and holding hands together forever.
Second, dare to pay, not afraid of difficulties.
Between lovers, if you want to be together for a lifetime, you are destined to encounter a lot of difficulties, but also a lot of setbacks, we must not only dare to pay for each other, but also have the courage not to be afraid of difficulties.
When we are all brave enough, then love is firm.
If we want to be lovers for a lifetime, then let's work hard, enjoy the process of giving, and what we are willing to do is the best love.
In the peak of "The Battle of Love", he found a divorced woman who was seven years older than him, and the woman still owed a lot of debts and had a daughter to raise.
But Gao Feng didn't dislike it, and dared to share the debt for her, although they couldn't win the game, but after going back, Gao Feng still worked hard, worked hard to make money, shared her pressure, and didn't want to see her work so hard.
A man who dares to give so much for you and accept all that you have, this is true love.
The woman also opened her heart and identified this reliable man, so no matter how big the difficulties in front of her, she was not afraid, and the two of them worked together to run this small family.
3. Mutual tolerance and understanding.
Lovers are together, if they want a long-term relationship, they must know how to understand and tolerate each other, understand each other's hardships, tolerate each other's shortcomings, and will not complain about each other because the other party is not enlightened, so as to put a lot of pressure on each other, but to accommodate each other's shortcomings, and then encourage each other to come step by step, give each other time to learn, so that between two people, it will become better.
The best relationship is also when two people are together to achieve each other, because of understanding, so compassion, because of love, so tolerance.
When there is love between each other, then we can tolerate each other, give each other more space, and take care of each other's emotions.
No matter how intimate the relationship is, it needs to be managed with care. Two people run in with each other, accommodate each other's everything, know how to respect each other, generously say each other's good, and can see each other's contributions, so that they can live a beautiful life.
This is how a lifelong lover is made.
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