From ancient times to the present, the Spring Festival has always been the theme of reunion, and in some places, you can even go from the first day of the first month to the sixteenth day of the first month, and visit relatives and friends for fun. However, after the Spring Festival this year, two hot topics have attracted widespread attention: one is "Did your family quarrel during the Chinese New Year this year?" ”；The other is the rising phenomenon of family separation. The number of comments and ** on both topics is far beyond the ordinary. Let's take a look at the reasons behind this.
In my hometown, all my family members have passed away, leaving only my mom as an elder in the city. The cousins of the two aunts used to visit the New Year during the Spring Festival, but later it became **New Year's greetings, but this year there is not even **. Our family has always adhered to the principle of not asking about personal affairs, but we still can't escape the phenomenon of breaking off. There used to be an old saying that family affection is only three generations, however, in today's society, family affection of only two generations seems to have become commonplace. The post-80s generation may still take a walk occasionally, the post-90s generation is almost reluctant to go, and the post-00s generation ignores it.
Twenty years ago, visiting relatives was a pleasant process, and families could name each one by one. However, the current situation may be door-to-door, with both families being strangers. Some experts** believe that in the next 30 years, China's humane society will gradually disintegrate, and even evolve into a society without chance, similar to today's Japanese society. So, why is this happening?
The phenomenon of severing relatives is actually a special phenomenon in the transformation of a humane society into a money society. With the development of society, people's dependence on strangers gradually increases, while the dependence on acquaintances is relatively weakened. In this process, the loss of relatives has become a common phenomenon. The fundamental reason why young people are disconnected is that they believe that their needs can be met with money. In this money-led society, acquaintance socialization is based on human affection, while stranger socialization is based on money.
In a money society, people are disgusted with poverty, suspicious of wealth, hostile to the owned, and cynical to the none. Then, in the future, it is impossible for people to be lonely and grow old, but the relationship will no longer be based on blood, but more on the basis of common three views. Today's young people are becoming more and more sober and refuse to fall into spiritual internal friction, so people with the same three views exchange values materially and spiritually to form a resonance.
In the future, the greatest distance between people will be the difference between the three views. People with the same three views will get together, while people with different views will stay away. That's why we see a wide variety of social circles, each with shared beliefs and values. In my social circle, I feel recognized for my presence and I am truly grateful to have you.
In general, the rise of the phenomenon of severance is an inevitable product of social development, and people's perception of relationships is undergoing profound changes. In the future, we will rely more on the common three views than on blood relations. For this phenomenon, I look forward to you leaving wonderful views and thoughts in the comment area!