As you may have noticed, there are some strange phenomena in society.
Not everyone understands it, and most people even take it for granted. Maybe it's because society is changing rapidly, maybe it's because people's values have changed.
Nowadays, many people have developed an abnormal attitude towards lifestyle. Here are 7 anomalies that we should be wary of!
01 Vegetable sellers don't eat their own dishes, and chefs don't eat their own restaurants.
In the past, people grew their own vegetables and ate them, but now they go to the market to buy them. When buying vegetables, only choose those with good appearance and no insect eyes, but you don't know that the dishes with good appearance are all sprayed with pesticides. Even though the food in the restaurant tastes good, the chefs rarely eat it. Cockroaches, rats crawled around, and the back kitchen was full of flies and mosquitoes, but the remaining oil was still used. Old chefs know that the food outside is not clean, so they never eat it themselves.
02 There are many "leftover women" in big cities, and there are many "leftover men" in rural areas, and tens of millions of unmarried men are unable to find wives.
Young women in big cities prefer to be single with high quality rather than marry a low-quality partner, so there are more and more "leftover women". In rural areas, there is a general preference for sons over daughters, and sons must be born, resulting in more and more boys, and girls want to marry in the cities, so the problem of "leftover men" in rural areas is becoming more and more serious.
Today's young people see marriage as a transactional collaboration, they are demanding and unwilling to compromise. They would rather live happily alone than make do in marriage.
03 The entrance of the nursing home is empty, while the entrance of the kindergarten is crowded with parents.
In the past, parents could raise a few children, but now a few children cannot afford to support two elderly people. Parents have paid a lot for their children, but when they are old, they cannot spend their old age in their own homes, so they can only be sent to nursing homes. There are more and more spoiled children. Grandparents live like grandchildren, and grandchildren live like ancestors. Society is full of "giant babies", and many children lack the ability to live independently from an early age.
04 Those who owe money pose as uncles, but those who borrow money are as humble as grandsons.
A lot of people say it very nicely before borrowing money, but once they get it, they become arrogant. The one who owes money behaves arrogantly like an uncle, and the one who borrows money is as low as a grandson. You may be friends before you borrow money, but once you borrow money, you become enemies. So don't borrow money easily, borrowing money will ruin the relationship and make people feel chilled.
05 I have hundreds of friends on my phone, but I don't have a real confidant.
Nowadays, mobile phones are powerful, and communication has become convenient and diverse. Open the phone, ** number countless, look through WeChat, add hundreds of friends, but there is no one who can really make friends.
06 Internet celebrities make money faster, and their income even exceeds that of scientists.
Many young people know everything about their favorite stars, but they may not know anything about the scientists they admire. Internet celebrities make money quickly, and the salary for filming a TV series is as high as tens of millions, and a live broadcast can reach hundreds of millions of yuan. Despite being very wealthy, they still choose to evade taxes and even be fined billions. Many young people only have a salary of 3,000 yuan per month, but they still have to give tips to Internet celebrities.
07 Cats and dogs become treasures, but parents become a burden.
In the past, cats were raised to catch mice, dogs were raised to watch the house, and now cats and dogs are kept for spiritual companionship. There is nothing wrong with having pets, and caring for cats and dogs is also a kind of kindness, but some young people treat cats and dogs with a cold attitude towards their parents, preferring to buy food for cats and dogs rather than spending money on their parents, they talk to their pets every day, but they do not want to communicate with their parents.
Although it cannot be generalized, it is also a kind of playful reminder. It's good to have pets and love animals, but while loving cats and dogs, you also need to care for your parents. These anomalies are visible to almost everyone. I don't know if there is something wrong with society, or if people's values have changed, these strange phenomena that are considered to be common have sounded the alarm bell to us, and it is worth thinking deeply that there are some strange phenomena in society, which not everyone can understand, and even some people have become accustomed to it. Maybe it's the rapid changes in society, or maybe people's mentality is different from what they used to be.
Nowadays, many people have an abnormal lifestyle. These 7 weird phenomena need us to be vigilant!