“Husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when the disaster comes", most people see this saying, and they are basically negative views. It is said that husband and wife were originally the closest partners, but when disaster struck, they took care of each other. The instinct to survive makes them choose to flee for their lives, as if the relationship between husband and wife cannot withstand any test in the face of disaster, but is this really the case?
When I saw the browsing history of my husband's Song Zhou's computer, I was shocked.
In May 2023, I was diagnosed with lupus erythematosus due to joint pain in my hand.
The doctor said that lupus erythematosus is not terrible, keep a good attitude and have regular check-ups.
Does it affect having a second child? Will a child be inherited after having a second child? "Song Zhou finally asked.
I was depressed, and when I got home, Song Zhou massaged my head and comforted me, "You're just suffering from an ordinary illness, don't have too much pressure." "
At this time, we have been married for 5 years, our daughter is 3 years old, and we have been trying to get pregnant and want a son.
I never question the relationship between me and Songzhou, who grew up in the countryside and lived together in Zhengzhou after graduating from university.
We have rented a bungalow in an urban village where rats are roaming, drank a bowl of instant noodles filled with hot water, and bought a car and a house in Zhengzhou on our own.
When the catastrophe came, Lao Yan flew apart, and I think such a scene should never happen to us.
So when I saw the browsing history, I was stunned for a long time, tears welling up in my cheeks.
Song Zhou shouldn't have known that I found his browsing history, and he still prepares nutritious meals for me and looks for formulas for me everywhere.
If it weren't for the historical browsing records, I wouldn't know what was really going on in his mind. But no matter what he did, I always felt like a thorn in my heart.
Song Zhou wants a healthy boy, it seems right? I don't know if I want to get to the bottom of it or pretend to be deaf and dumb.
So during that time I read like crazy. "Women themselves should have enough sense of power, no matter what happens, they will show a stable state, and they will not change their judgment of themselves because of the favor of others. "When I saw this sentence. I was struggling with my heart, and suddenly I knew what to do.
So, in October 2023, we divorced, the original divorce, the marriage certificate does not need to be taken back, the original divorce certificate still has the other party's information, at the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau, we hugged each other for the last time.
Song Zhou cried, I think he should have been really sad at that time.
On Chinese New Year's Eve, December 31, 2023, Song Zhou took his five-year-old girlfriend for a stroll on Nanjing Road in Shanghai. Anyone's life can be restarted, and without anyone, life can go on.
At the moment, I am following the doctor's instructions and my condition is stable. In the winter, I went to Qingdao to climb Laoshan Mountain, and smiled at the camera at the top of Laoshan Mountain, I thought, I am braver than ever, and my life will be more exciting than ever.
"Husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes" reflects the true faces of couples who can not share joys and sorrows and hardships together, and at critical moments, people with shallow feelings will ruthlessly abandon their husbands or wives, directly exposing the darkest side of human nature.