Zhao's mother is scheming, and the Wang family is immortal
Children, they are all meat that fell from the mother's body, but some meat is particularly worrying to the mother. For example, Aunt Kang, who made it difficult for Minglan, is such meat. In order to give birth to this daughter, Mrs. Wang suffered for three days and three nights.
After Aunt Kang fell to the ground, she also let the old mother work hard all her life. In the end, she even ended up with a white-haired person sending a black-haired person, which made Mrs. Wang faint in pain.
In the drama "Do You Know", although Mrs. Wang is in a strong elderly group, her bearing, style, conversation and scheming make her shine in this group.
This kind of powerful posture would not have been possible without experiencing the sword light and blood shadow. This woman is really not simple.
Mrs. Wang is the pillar of Zhong Mingding's family, and she is well versed in the world and can excel. Aunt Kang conspired to frame her mother-in-law and was caught by Minglan with evidence. At a time of crisis, Mrs. Wang used her wisdom and means to skillfully resolve the conflict.
She touched her mother-in-law with her true feelings, and also controlled her husband with majesty. When Aunt Kang escaped, she saw through Xiao Qin's sinister intentions and successfully stopped her family's impulses with her cool head.
In this family, Mrs. Wang's ingenuity and strength and decisiveness are unmatched, and only her eldest daughter, who is somewhat like her, has her courage and means. This is also the reason why Mrs. Wang dotes on Aunt Kang, because she sees the potential of this eldest daughter.
In the negotiation with the Sheng family, Mrs. Wang tried her best for Aunt Kang, for fear that she would not be able to get out of the predicament. However, her attitude towards her youngest daughter is completely different.
She knew that this was a game with the Sheng family, and that Mrs. Wang might get a lighter punishment, so she decided to take a risk and bet on her youngest daughter. However, if it was replaced by Aunt Kang, would Mrs. Wang dare to gamble with her?
Probably not. At this moment, Mrs. Wang also saw her mother's partiality. She didn't believe it before, but now she understands that her mother doesn't really love her. Not only loved, but Mrs. Wang even looked down on her eldest son and youngest daughter.
The eldest son is timid as a mouse and has no ability to revitalize the family. Although the youngest daughter married into a low-level family, she has been suppressed by a concubine for 20 years and has no advantage.
Only Aunt Kang, although there will be some excesses, she has always been ruthless and tirelessly tossed. Although she did not receive much benefit, her courage and determination were admirable.
In the original book, Aunt Kang conquered Mrs. Wang with her beauty and means. However, Mrs. Wang was not satisfied with the quiet years, she longed for wealth and power. Although the old men of the Wang family used to be the elders of the Three Dynasties, now they are no longer prominent.
Although the old lady of the Wang family is old, her ambition has not subsided. However, her son did not have the fighting spirit to fight for a higher position. Mrs. Wang is disappointed with her son's performance, and only Aunt Kang can understand her desire and adventurous spirit.
So, Mrs. Wang took her son to visit the Queen Mother late at night, hoping to gamble. If successful, they will not only be able to avenge their daughter, but also embark on the road to prosperity.
At the wonton stall by the palace, Mrs. Wang used inducements and threats to warn her son that if they didn't give it a go, they might be in a desperate situation. In the end, this powerful old mother also pushed her son to a dead end after drowning her daughter.
Since then, the Wang family has really gone into decline.
Some people think that an overly strong mother can be a disaster for the family, but I have a different opinion on this. Only mothers who are both strong and stupid will cause problems for the family.
Mrs. Wang's personality is distinct, scheming, and she is a figure that cannot be underestimated. But her stupidity is just as striking. In front of outsiders, she behaved very soberly, but she was a mess when it came to treating her children, especially Aunt Kang.
Aunt Kang has been favored by the family since she was a child, and she thinks very highly of herself and does things ruthlessly. None of these "death" traits are inseparable from Mrs. Wang's "cultivation".
In her eyes, Aunt Kang is the treasure of the family, unbeatable. However, in reality, Aunt Kang's mind is twisted, stupid and bad. Old Madam Wang is really confused!
On the issue of treating her children, there is a mother Zhao who is truly sober in the world.
Zhao's mother is Zhao Kuo's mother, and her husband is the famous general Zhao Hao. Zhao Kuo has been familiar with the art of war since he was a child, and he can speak well, and even Zhao Hao can't refute it. But Zhao Hao never praised his son.
Zhao's mother asked the reason, and Zhao Hao told her that the use of soldiers was a matter of life and death, but Zhao Kuo said it easily. King Zhao appointed Zhao Kuo as the commander, and Zhao's mother hurriedly wrote to King Zhao, saying that Zhao Kuo was unavailable.
Zhao's mother thought that Zhao Kuo's father and his subordinates mingled, and the rewards and treasures were distributed to the military officials and ministers, while Zhao Kuo only valued gold and silver treasures and the purchase of family property. Therefore, Zhao Kuo is not a person like his father and is not qualified for the position of general.
Despite the old lady's repeated admonitions, King Zhao was still stubborn. So the old lady put forward a condition, if Zhao Kuo loses on the battlefield, only punish him alone, and don't implicate the Zhao family.
However, Zhao Kuo still went out with a mighty army, and was eventually defeated under Bai Qi's fierce attack. The most tragic battle in history, the Battle of Changping, resulted in the death of 450,000 Zhao soldiers, and the bones and wails were everywhere.
If King Zhao had listened to Zhao's mother's advice, this tragedy could have been avoided.
A good mother, like a good gardener, knows the truth of her son's mother, sees her children's shortcomings clearly, and will not let them go because of emotional ties, let alone help them abuse.
She holds scissors in her hands, not only to cut off those branches that are abnormally growing, but also to help her children grow better. Just like Mrs. Wang did with Aunt Kang, she made the right choice wisely and decisively.