Qian Xuesen went on a blind date and only stared at me
May I be like a star, like the moon, and bright and clean at night. I don't want to grow old together, I just want to enjoy the glory of the sky with you. "Qian Xuesen, the pillar of the country, his wife Jiang Ying, a leader in vocal education, a model of soprano singers, the two are unique in their respective fields, accompany each other, support each other, and jointly illuminate the way forward.
The love story of Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying is as bright as the stars and the moon, with both dazzling light and low-key simplicity. Since the time of childhood sweethearts, they have been in the same boat for 62 years, and they have been in each other's best together.
Their love story is so touching and fascinating. The two families are friends, Qian Xuesen is the elder brother who is eight years older than Jiang Ying, the two grew up together, and they have a deep affection between their childhood sweethearts.
Jiang's father and Jiang's mother took their five daughters to visit Qian Xuesen's parents, Qian Junfu and his wife. Mr. and Mrs. Qian were very happy to meet their old friends, and they were even more attracted by Mr. and Mrs. Jiang Baili's five lively and lovely daughters.
Although Qian Xuesen is eight years older than Jiang Ying, he is still a child, and he likes Jiang Ying's sister very much, thinking that she smiles best and speaks the best.
When the two parents decided to let Jiang Ying stay at their house, Qian Xuesen was not unhappy, but played with Jiang Ying very enthusiastically.
Qian Xuesen was keen to appreciate Jiang Ying's piano skills, and whenever Jiang Ying finished playing, he always praised his sister's talent, which caused Jiang Ying to laugh. Although Jiang Ying lived in the Qian family for a while, Jiang's father and Jiang's mother missed her more and more strongly, so they went to the Qian family to discuss taking their daughter home.
Before leaving, Qian Junfu and his wife half-jokingly said that the next time they saw Jiang Ying, she would become their daughter-in-law.
Qian Xuesen's fate with Jiang Ying began as early as when they were 13 and 5 years old, when they were still young teenagers, but Qian Xuesen's memory of Jiang Ying has always been the same.
When they met again the day before Qian Xuesen went abroad, Jiang Ying was already 16 years old, and she was deeply impressed by her delicate appearance and elegant conversation.
Jiang Ying's unique temperament is because of long-term study, which makes Qian Xuesen's memory of "little sister" one more point.
Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying, the two are extremely talented, and they each receive **. After graduating from Qian Xuesen National Jiaotong University, he won it with his own strength"Gengzi Indemnity Scholarship"Only 20 people in the country are fortunate to obtain the qualification of aviation students.
So he went to the Massachusetts Institute of Technology in the United States to further his studies in aeronautics. And Jiang Ying also chose to go to Berlin, Germany for further study**, the story of the two, from the innocence of childhood to the throbbing of Qian Xuesen before going abroad, are deeply imprinted in each other's hearts.
Qian Xuesen was full of praise for Jiang Ying's piano and singing, and after going to the United States, he often missed those melodious piano sounds and smart singing voices. In the days when we couldn't see each other, Qian Xuesen devoted himself to research, while Jiang Ying devoted himself to the art world, and even signed a contract with a famous German record company and published many excellent works.
The two of them grew up together, and after many years, they had feelings again, and their love became the best witness of their lives.
In the budding of love, it often happens inadvertently, and the intersection of the two stops temporarily after going abroad, but excellent people are always attracted to each other, and people who are destined will always meet again at the right time.
When Jiang Ying recalled her husband, although she was a little sad, it showed the preciousness of this feeling. They went to live in the United States together. As Balzac said: "The more passionate and sincere love is, the more subtle it becomes." ”
However, Qian Xuesen's way of showing love is not like this, he is direct and subtle.
When Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying met again after returning from school, they had both grown into mature 35 and 27 years old. However, the marriage between the two has become a major problem in the hearts of the two parents.
The Qian family and his wife were heartbroken for their son's happiness, but Qian Xuesen never accepted anyone's affection, because he had only Jiang Ying in his heart. And Jiang Ying held a personal meeting with her talent after returning to China, and people were amazed by her talent.
However, even though she is 27 years old, she is still single, which makes her family worry about her, and her mother always jokes about her that "no one will want it after you are careful".
But she didn't care.
Jiang Ying firmly believes that the person she is destined to have not yet appeared, and decides to wait for the beauty. But Qian Xuesen couldn't wait, Jiang Ying's mother arranged a new date for Qian Xuesen through her, hoping to let him meet the person he liked.
Jiang Ying invited her former brother and brought a few friends to join her. However, Qian Xuesen didn't know about it, and always thought that Jiang Ying asked him out alone, so he was very happy.
When he arrived at the agreed place, he found that something was wrong, and it turned out that his mother asked Jiang Ying to help him introduce him. At that meal, he showed the wooden voice of the science and engineering man, staring at Jiang Ying intently.
Seeing that the atmosphere was a little dull, Jiang Ying took the initiative to break the silence. Her friends also began to communicate with Qian Xuesen, and one of them had a good impression of him and wanted to develop with him, so they invited him to participate in the art exhibition together.
However, Qian Xuesen rejected her without hesitation.
After Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying ended their meeting, when Jiang Ying went home, Qian Xuesen did not leave at the door, which made Jiang Ying puzzled. She told Qian Xuesen that she was going home first.
Qian Xuesen was a little anxious, and he expressed to Jiang Ying that he wanted to go to the United States. Jiang Ying was even more confused, and in a hurry, she told Qian Xuesen that she had a boyfriend. Unexpectedly, Qian Xuesen also said that he had a girlfriend.
It turned out that both of them were still single at that time, and they both understood in their hearts, so Qian Xuesen said to Jiang Ying: "It's not a friend, it's not a girlfriend, it's not that boyfriend, my relationship with you is not the same, let's start dating, and then get married!" ”
Jiang Ying later recalled Qian Xuesen's "unique marriage proposal" in an interview, and her face was full of happiness and joy. She didn't immediately agree to him at that time, because she considered that if she followed Qian Xuesen to the United States, then everyone would think that they were married, so at first Jiang Ying's plan was just to exchange letters, and she didn't plan to go to the United States immediately.
Qian Xuesen's firmness and sincerity touched Jiang Ying, and he expressed his love with undisguised enthusiasm, and finally succeeded in winning Jiang Ying's heart. Their decision has also received the support and blessing of parents on both sides, and it is touching that the joke of the year has become a reality.
Both families are world friends and know each other very well, so when the couple decided to go to the United States, neither family objected. However, Jiang Ying's sister was a little worried, and she advised her sister to think again.
It turned out that Jiang Ying's sister had heard some rumors about Qian Xuesen during her study abroad. She said that Qian Xuesen was a careless person, and once someone introduced him to meet a girl, but he actually lost the girl on the way.
She was worried that her sister might not be well taken care of after marrying him, after all, Jiang Ying was a beautiful lady and rarely did housework by herself.
Qian Xuesen's professionalism and rigor fascinated Jiang Ying, even in the heavy responsibility of scientific research and the country, he would not be careless. In the days after their marriage, the two supported each other and worked together to manage their marriage, and the love between them did not die because of marriage, but deepened.
After the founding of the People's Republic of China, Qian Xuesen was eager to contribute to the motherland's aerospace industry, and his wife Jiang Ying also fully supported his decision. Therefore, their marriage is not a grave of love, but a treasure trove of love that needs to be managed and cherished by both parties.
As they prepare to return to their home country, the unexpected happens. Qian Xuesen was intercepted by the United States at the port and subsequently thrown into prison. An American ** once said: "No matter how Qian Xuesen appears, he is equivalent to the strength of 5 divisions." ”
When recalling the ten days when her husband was detained, Jiang Ying's heart was full of distress and anger. She said that when she went to visit her husband, Qian Xuesen was unable to speak because he had not eaten for several days.
Jiang Ying could only tell him that he and the children were fine, reassuring him.
Qian Xuesen suffered **, and was released on bail after the efforts of California Polytechnic University. However, his family spent the next five years in prison by the US authorities. According to U.S. authorities, because Qian Xuesen has been in contact with important scientific research missions in the United States, if he is allowed to return to China, it may be leaked***
Despite China's conditions, the United States resolutely refused to release Qian Xuesen. At that time, Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying, as well as their two children, lived in a state of incarceration every day, and they needed to make more than a dozen calls every day to prove that they were still at home.
Despite all the difficulties, Qian Xuesen persisted in scientific research and eventually returned to his homeland.
Jiang Ying, a former artistic talent, gave up the career she loved for Qian Xuesen, devoted herself to her family, and took care of his daily life. She was deeply in love with Qian Xuesen, and when she saw that he couldn't enjoy the joy of food because of his busy work, she made up her mind to learn cooking skills and cook delicious meals for him.
She is not only Qian Xuesen's wife, but also his spiritual pillar. Although she used to be a famous lady, in front of her husband, she was willing to let go of her identity, just to let him feel a touch of warmth and tranquility in the predicament.
In front of the children, she also hopes that they can feel the warmth of the family and the love of the mother. On the day Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying first arrived in the United States, although Qian Xuesen arranged Jiang Ying, he immediately went to the place of work, leaving Jiang Ying at home alone.
However, Jiang Ying did not complain about Qian Xuesen because of this, but deeply understood his busyness and love. She appreciates Qian Xuesen's dedication and dedication to his career, and also looks forward to his return.
Jiang Ying visited Qian Xuesen's residence and was deeply attracted by his scientific research style. When Qian Xuesen came back, Jiang Ying and he had just met, and he dropped a sentence of "see you back" and entered the study.
Jiang Ying is not angry about this, but agrees with his focus on scientific research. This is the same as her love for **, which is a deep passion and focus. Qian Xuesen has a unique passion for food, and he will often cook for Jiang Ying in his spare time.
He knew that Jiang Ying was not very good at cooking, so he would never ask her to be a good wife and mother. This is not only because he knows Jiang Ying's talent and personality, but also because he knows that everyone has their own expertise and passion.
However, when they were imprisoned by the United States, their lives became difficult. Jiang Ying does laundry, cooks, and takes care of the children at home every day, and they dare not hire a nanny, because they know that every move in life may be monitored.
They did not dare to take the risk of inviting a nanny who might be bought by the United States to come to their home. Despite the difficulties of life, their love and understanding of each other remained the same. They know that only by accompanying and supporting each other can they find hope in difficult situations.
They love each other dearly, and at the same time they love their lives dearly.
After five years of house arrest, the hardships of life are indescribable, the two children are not yet adults, the younger one still needs to be embraced, and the older one can only crawl. However, in such a predicament, Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying comforted each other and supported each other.
Qian Xuesen admired Jiang Ying's expression of playing the piano and became their spiritual pillar. In order to alleviate the pressure of life, Qian Xuesen bought a bamboo flute, and they often played together, or Qian Xuesen played solo for Jiang Ying, using ** to make them forget the hardships of life for a while.
Qian Xuesen's married life is happy, and he and his wife Jiang Ying have a completely different professional background. However, Jiang Ying enriched his worldview through art.
After they returned to their homeland with great difficulty, Qian Xuesen felt that the guilt in his heart had been made up. At the beginning, he wanted Jiang Ying and the child to leave first, but Jiang Ying insisted on staying to accompany him through the difficult times.
Jiang Ying's persistence and encouragement gave Qian Xuesen great support. "
In those challenging days, the love between Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying went through the harshest test. They accompany each other, appreciate ** together, visit art exhibitions, and let the artistic atmosphere fill their spare time.
The amazing thing is that the things they love together always resonate with them.
Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying have spent sixty-two years of daily chores together, experienced sixty-two years of ups and downs together, and tasted sixty-two years of blandness together.
This rare love is not only enviable, but also makes people feel the joy and sorrow of the world, and it should be such a happy thing to have the same person to share with you!