The mother-in-law and daughter chatted freely every night, and the son-in-law was suspicious.
Small talk is a common way of socializing in rural areas, but chatting needs to have an object and degree, otherwise it is easy to go wrong. Chatting between people of the opposite sex needs to be kept at a moderate distance and not too intimate, otherwise it may trigger unexpected results.
The relationship between the son-in-law and the mother-in-law also needs to maintain an appropriate distance, and being too close will be criticized by people. However, in reality, some sons-in-law will deliberately get close to their mother-in-law, leading to family conflicts.
Below, let's take a look at the story of a woman in Houma, Shanxi Province, who was almost depressed because her husband was close to her mother.
25-year-old Feng is a native of Houma, she is an only child, so she has to take on the obligation to support her parents. When Feng was 18 years old, her parents hoped that she would be able to recruit a son-in-law.
However, according to the provisions of our Marriage Law, a woman cannot marry when she reaches the age of 18. So, Feng's parents just wanted to find a partner for Feng as soon as possible, so that Feng could get married and start a family when he was 20 years old.
Feng's father, Feng, died of illness when she was 19 years old, leaving her lonely mother, Liu. In order to make his mother happy, Feng offered to let his mother find another wife.
However, her mother, Liu, rejected Feng's proposal, but she very much hoped that Feng could find a suitable husband. When Feng was 22 years old, his mother Liu found a man named Zhang through WeChat and expressed his willingness to join Feng's family.
Feng did not agree at first, but under the persuasion of her mother, she still married Zhang, and Zhang became the son-in-law of the Feng family. However, a year after getting married, Feng found that Zhang would go to his mother's room every night to chat, which made Feng feel a little uneasy.
Therefore, Feng decided to shoot a ** and posted it on the Internet, hoping that netizens could give her ideas.
In a heterosexual relationship that is not a relative, although Zhang and Liu are sons-in-law and mother-in-law, frequent contact and chat may cause misunderstanding among others. Therefore, Feng could consider asking his clansmen to help persuade them, or express his feelings directly to avoid unnecessary trouble.
This is a common problem in today's society, and we need to think about solutions together.
Lao Hu believes that the relationship between the son-in-law and the mother-in-law is based on the mutual love for a person, and although there is no blood relationship, there is a close life connection between them.
Therefore, contact and chat between the son-in-law and the mother-in-law are necessary, but they also need to be properly controlled to avoid conflicts caused by too frequent or excessive contact. In this incident, Zhang and Liu's actions were a bit excessive, and Feng could ask someone to help persuade them to make them realize that their behavior was inappropriate and minimize contact and chat.
What do you think about this?