Written by Rouran.
Kazuo Inamori said: "People must not be sloppy in two things in this life, one is to find the right lover, and the other is to choose the right career."
Because when the sun rises, you have to devote yourself to your career, and when the sun sets, you have to embrace your lover. ”
We are always wandering, searching, and meeting in love, but in the process of finding the other half of our lives, we not only need to cater to our own likes, but also learn to consider each other's character.
If a man does not behave well in these two aspects, it means that his character is not good, and he must stay away.
I used to think that it was a very romantic thing for the snow to fall white, but I saw sadness in this scene.
The two old men walked in the wind and snow, among which the grandfather's umbrella always only covered himself, and never tilted towards the grandmother, allowing the snowflakes to fall all over the wife's body;
He still walked forward confidently, without feeling sorry for and pitying his wife who had been with him for most of his life.
She was left alone to face the bitter cold wind, and staggered closely behind her.
*As soon as it was issued, many netizens broke their defenses: "In just a few seconds, I seem to have seen her for decades." ”
Some people say that this old man has been selfish in his marriage all his life, and in the past few decades, he has enjoyed his wife's good as a matter of course, but has never given her the care she deserves.
How sad and chilling it should be when the marriage ends like this, maybe this grandmother has never felt the warmth of love in her life, so she hastily finished her life.
Like the footprints on the ground, she had followed his footsteps all her life, but she could not catch up, and the man never slowed down to wait for her.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: Men who are selfish in their bones generally can't support marriage, because they are irritable, jealous and self-loving, self-centered in everything, and never consider the feelings of others. ”
The biggest characteristic of this kind of selfish man is that he lacks empathy and sharing, and prioritizes his own needs and interests in the relationship.
If you meet a man who never thinks about you, you must stay as far away as possible, with such a person, no matter how much you pay, you can't get sincerity.
Instead of wasting time on him, learn to love yourself well.
Seeing such a true story, a woman conceived in October and endured severe pain to give birth to a son for a man, and during the woman's confinement, she was pushed over by a friend.
clicked in to see it, but let himself be thundered, ** The husband who claimed that he was pulling earthwork on the construction site was skiing with other women without telling him at this time;
The moment she saw the two of them warm up on the ski slopes, she completely broke down, and tears burst out of her eyes.
Just over 20 days after her child was born, her husband cheated on her behind her back, and she suddenly felt how ironic the love from school uniforms to wedding dresses she was proud of at that time, and she didn't expect that her beloved would hurt her so thoroughly.
The woman who learned the truth said with tears in her eyes
You've ruined all the good things I've done about my marriage, you've made me a joke for everybody, you've made me wonder all the time for more than 20 days. ”
To this day, the man is still quibbling: "The woman is my friend's girlfriend, and I fell down while skiing, I subconsciously went to help it, but I didn't expect it to be a misunderstanding." ”
For this explanation, sharp-eyed netizens immediately debunked "Your friend is so generous, dress his girlfriend and you as a couple." ”
In the face of the facts, all the justifications pale in comparison.
Many people feel unworthy for the woman, after all, a woman has to love a man to be willing to take risks, endure severe pain, and gamble to give birth to a child for a man.
And when she needed her husband's company the most, he was happy with other women.
Yes, she lost, lost to the greed of human nature, and also lost to the consciencelessness of men.
A man without conscience is often unkind, when you dig out your heart and lungs to warm his heart, you don't get a sincere love, but just get a lesson of remorse.
In love, if you meet a selfish man with no conscience, you should stay away quickly, and don't take the happiness of the rest of your life.
There is really a world of difference in who you marry with, life is very short, and you must spend it with the person you love the most.
In this way, we can find ordinary happiness in the triviality of chicken feathers, and find warm comfort in the dark night when the cold rain knocks on the window.
Two people nourish each other, achieve each other, and live a warm and down-to-earth life.
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