I've heard this saying:
"There's only one reason you're being manipulated, and that's if you reveal too much information to let people know what you desire, and he will use your weakness to make you afraid. In a complex situation, the more you are exposed, the more danger you have. ”
In a complex world, each of us will be in danger, and we don't know when we will be manipulated.
Whether it is in the emotional world or social work, when the other party knows your bottom line, it is destined to easily grasp you and make you feel uncomfortable.
No way, the more you expose, the more the other party will know about you.
Sometimes, even if you have a thought in your heart, you have to find a way to hide it, and that is not a deception, not a deception, but the best way for you to protect yourself.
There are some things, even if they are rotten in the stomach, don't talk about them.
For example, you can express how much you love each other, but don't express it too obviously, give three points of love to others and seven points of love to yourself, after all, you are the one who can truly accompany you for a lifetime.
For example, when you negotiate with the other party, don't easily throw out your bottom line, but talk to the other party tentatively, when the other party knows your bottom line, you can only be in a passive situation.
Sometimes, it is often the people closest to us who hurt us the most.
No way, he knows all your things and all your thoughts, and the more you trust the other person, the more the other party will hurt you the most, because he knows you too well.
Human nature is like this, he knows that you are weak, and you will not be angry if he pinches you at will, and he pinches other people's words, because he does not understand the other party, he does not dare to act.
When the other person knows what you crave, he will hang your appetite, deceive your trust, and make you unable to extricate yourself.
When interacting with people, if you have no desire, you will be strong.
There are two things in the world that cannot be looked at, one is the sun and the other is the human heart.
We interact with people and don't do anything to hurt others, but we can't be easily hurt either.
Whether it is interests or feelings, we should not underestimate the rules of human nature for profit, once digging out our hearts and lungs, it is very likely to be exchanged for betrayal, and in the face of interests, some sincerity, it becomes worthless.
In the adult world, many people wear a mask of hypocrisy, and when you can't tell the difference between good and bad, don't easily tell others what is on your mind, so that you can really protect yourself.
You are always being picked upon, which shows that you are really too kind.
You always don't know how to reject others, and you always like to think of everyone for the good, in fact, many people care about you on the surface, but behind the scenes they just want to inquire about your life.
Mo Yan once said:
"The best relationship between people is that there is no relationship. Don't treat everyone as a confidant, and don't want to complain when you meet someone. ”
Life, to put it bluntly, is actually a lonely journey.
Many times, we have to taste all the suffering in the world alone, and when you complain when you meet others, you are undoubtedly exposing yourself completely in front of each other.
From then on, he will poke at your weakness from time to time, and even sneer at you, I have to say that self-exposure is really a very dangerous thing.
Pinch you because you care, when you don't care, don't look forward to it, and look down on everything, what others do can't hurt you.
Life is really complicated, but the more complicated it is, the more you have to live wisely and transparently.
Leave yourself a pure land of soul and only share it with those who truly love you, as for others, it is better to keep silent and keep silent.
In interpersonal relationships, maintain a degree of intimacy, maintain a sense of mystery, and do a ruler in your heart and a degree in your mouth, so that you can naturally advance and retreat freely in the journey of life, and remain calm and calm!
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